What can i do to get the guy that i like

@rebeka (364)
Romania
November 30, 2011 1:40pm CST
I saw a really nice guy at the corner shop, obviously he didn't notice me the way i want so i keep going there once a week (pathetic, i know). I really want to have a date with him but i also don't know what to do to say or to act, not to scare him. Any suggestions?
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19 responses
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
6 Dec 11
Try to figure out the time of the day when the shop is slow so you're not being rushed out because he's busy at he moment... Just walk up & say "Hi... My name is ... What's your name?". Now you guys are on first name basis... Nothing works better for me than a direct approach... That's how my current girlfriend got my attention... We've been together close to 10 years now & we live together... I personally like a girl who's direct... But then he may not... And one sure way to find out is to talk to him... Even though the first approach may seem a little direct, you can adjust your ways as you get to know him better... The whole point right now is to get him to notice you, right? They say the shortest distance between 2 point is a straight line... Be straight with him & he just might appreciate that... Don't get me wrong, I don't mean just walk over & start slobbering all over him... Just make yourself noticed & get the point known, that you are interested enough that you wanna get to know him better....
@devi53 (348)
• India
2 Dec 11
If you are really like him first go to the shop and make a friend ship with him then you can tell the matter.I will pray the Almighty to give you all good wishes to meet the guy at the earliest.
@jdyrj777 (6549)
• United States
2 Dec 11
Why not just ask him if he is ina relationship?
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
You don't actually need to get the guy that you really like or love. All you have to do is to be nice always in every person that you meet on your way. Just be yourself and you will see his appreciation.
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Ohhh! If im on your shoe, I would pretend to ask questions to start communicating with him. Show your best smile then introduce yourself. Make friends with him first then invite him for a dinner perhaps. Good luck!
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
1 Dec 11
I think you trapped in attraction..I don't like to be love with any one...That will be because of your age that you fall in love with some one..And I don't understand that how you fall in love with that person...I like the character,behaviour etc etc...How do you know that that person will not cheat you in future???So be care full...enquire his full details and then try to follow him...Thank you...
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
Really cute. :-) I had issues like that before. When I was still in college and it brings back memories. Well, I could suggest you start a conversation with him. I do believe in destiny but it's useless if you don't make a move. I mean the road brings you to your soul mate but you still have to do something to get that soul mate of yours. :-) You never know what will happen next after a conversation. If it won't work, at least you tried. wink*
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
For me you friend with her friend and ask the number in him so that you can contact then everything would be okay.
@enelym001 (8330)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
If you really like him, I guess you need to go and introduce yourself to him. Keep going there and try to be friends with him. Give him your sweetest smile and when he feels a bit comfortable with you, then maybe you can invite him to spend some time with you.
@SIMPLYD (88641)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
First befriend him. And when you are already friends, show him your inner beauty , because of course your outward beauty is what he sees always. Most guys are drawn to sweet and thoughtful girls. Let the friendship get into a deeper relationship.
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
just be yourself and be patient. it takes time for a person to like you. allow him to know the real you and make him interested. be mysterious if you like. if you want you can always start a simple conversation and then if he talks back with interest then savor the moment. remember to just be yourself.
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
1 Dec 11
WOW!! you are in-love .. I guess try to be friendly first.. before going to dating. As you said, you do not want to scare him right? I think he will not be scared with you unless you have introduced yourself and both of you got that comfort. That are the signs of being in-love.. don not know what to do or even say.... the only thing you know? is that you are in love..
@lupeng (82)
• China
1 Dec 11
if i were you ,i will follow him to go home. thus, i can get the information where he live, and i can always through around his home, to make encounter everyday. i think if your guy didn't notice you ,you should take some action to draw his eyes.in order to date with him you can fall on purpose on the way to go his home.then, if he picks you up ,you can chat with him and change the telephone number each other, you will a chance. hehe
@tiina05 (2318)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
hello, You dont have to be obvious in catching his attention. You just have to calm down and never make him feel that you really like him. If you wanna go out with him wait until he notice you and ask you. Dont ever ask him out because in that way you will look cheap. alright? so, good luck
@cearn25 (3458)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Make friends with him first. Don't show that you are attracted to that guy. Well, I guess that's the first step or process in getting the guy you like. You take it slow. If you really want to get noticed by him, just be yourself and be simple.
@lilaclady (28238)
• Australia
30 Nov 11
Not much else you can do, but be there and maybe start some little interaction, as maybe he is already involved, do you know anything about him, but just be there and hopefully one day he might start looking at you as you are looking at him.good luck.
@squallming (1776)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 11
you should start visiting that shop, acting if you are searching for things, of course sometimes you can buy something cheap so that you're not suspicious you know XD While visiting the shop, try to engage him by asking question about a particular product and so(do that when there is no or very few customer). As you have been visiting the shop for like 10 times now, you can then talk more about things happening around you when you greet him and so forth. After another 10 days, then you can start buying something over. You can be eating something and you have extras, give him some. In simple words, you must build your relationship step by step. Don't forget to observe what kind of girl he is more interested on.
@curmont (343)
• United States
30 Nov 11
Talk to him! You will never know what could be if you don't at least talk to him. You don't have to say or do anything special just be yourself and say hi. If you both continue to play shy you will be having these non encounters forever someone has to take the initiative. If he works at the shop this is probably why he hasn't spoken he probably thinks it would be seen as inappropriate. The worst thing that could happen is that he is not interested in which case at least you will know and can move on instead of continuing to waste time going there every week.
@mhayfie (242)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Attractions! Your experience is as normal as others did. In order for you not to scare him is to do it in process.It means that don't rush things. Don't show any motives. I do believe he would notice you if you make it a habit going to the shop. At least with this first step, it isn't harsh!And maybe having friends with him with be the second move, and who knows he might end up chit chatting to you comfortable. Just don't show any action that might offend him. Take him little by little. When everything goes perfect then, it would be better then. Honestly, this might be a long process. So, good luck to you! happy mylotting!