How to communicate well with the other people?

China
December 7, 2011 3:26am CST
Some people find it difficult to communicate with the other people.That is usually because they are shy more or less.So they are intimidated at the face of the other people.Then how to solve this problem.Some say the most effective way may be lay in forcing yourself.And some say other things.So,what is your opinion,just share yours.Well,I am outgoing relatively I think.
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5 responses
@squallming (1776)
• Malaysia
7 Dec 11
I think the most important thing is to expose yourself to people. Starting out with a friend or two accompanying you. You guys can approach people and assist one another in the conversation. As you get used to communicating with people, you will not be that shy anymore. Then it's time to increase your communication skills which is something more advanced.
• China
8 Dec 11
Yeah,agreed,it is important to expose oneself to people.But also it needs much time.It is hard more or less to communicate to others for them even starting out with a friend or two.But no pains,no gains.It is worth to try.As time going by,it will work at last.
• China
8 Dec 11
Yeah,agreed,it is important to expose oneself to people.But also it needs much time.It is hard more or less to commumicate to others for them even starting out with a friend or two.But no pains,no gains.It is worth to try.As time going by,it will work at last.
@Mashnn (4503)
7 Dec 11
If I find you are too way out of my expectation, I just walk away from you or your big mouth. Otherwise, I won't just stay there listen to someone that I feel Iam losing myself. No way.
• China
8 Dec 11
How sharp ,how incisive.But I do not understand what you are saying very much.It seems that it has nothing to do with what i ask.Maybe I misunderstand what you are saying.Thank you all the same.
@Mashnn (4503)
10 Dec 11
If Iam not wrong I guess your post was about how people react the first time they meet someone especially if you are that shy type of person. Do you start a conversation or just lay back and watch thing happening. To put my answer clearly, I just said if Iam new to a place, I usually just take my time and watch out the type of people I have met, incase I find the way you are talking or acting is out of what I expected, I won't stick there listening to whatever you are saying, I will just walk away and pretend Iam busy doing something else.
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
8 Dec 11
I think there are some people who find it hard to communicate with others because they are really shy, but there are also some others who are talkative in their own house or with their friends, but don't know what to say in front of strangers or crowd. Most time people don't know how to say before others, because they lack of confidence in themselves. No matter children or adults, they all have some sense of proud when they are better than others, on matter in clothes, outlook,or other things, when they are proud of themselves, they are likely to have a lot to say. And they like to be with others at this time. When we observe a child who is alone and not play with other children, it is possible that he or she is wearing worse cloth, or don't got good toys as others, or a little ugly. While those beautiful,shining children from rich families are not likely to be alone. Of course there is some exception. So i think to communicate with others, first, you should have confidence in yourself. Just remember, it is not so hard, and the more you communicate with others, the more you will find it is an easy thing.
• China
8 Dec 11
Confidence is very important no matter what we do communication with others included.We must have enough courage and confidence to walk a step.Then we can walk a long time.Good beginning makes a good ending.Believe ourselves and we can make it!
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
hello, Just this morning we have gone an interview in our school and they are big companies that needed for a call center agent. So, I am really nervous that time and Thank God were done and we finished it already but I dont really know if I passed or not. I am really shy facing the interviewer it is like I dont have a practiced though my professor keep us practicing us by helping us to our pronunciation and fluency. My professor keep telling us that the more practice is more fulfilling. I know to myself that I did not take it seriously because I dont really like to communicate in English. Well, the i just learned a lot now how important speaking universal language.
• China
8 Dec 11
It is much more important to speak for us especially for college students like us.No matter what,the day when we walk into the society will come to us.Just practise and practise over and over again.We must can speak fluently befor we walk into the society.Wish you found a good job.Good luck!
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
7 Dec 11
Everyone likes to think people show an interest in them, so I think when someone first meets someone and are introduced to them always say it nice tio meet you and then mention their name, show interest in them by asking them a question, I think you have to think that maybe the other person is just as shy as you about meeting new people so think of making them feel at ease and you come across in a better light.
• China
8 Dec 11
Just think that the other person you are talking with is as shy as yourself,yeah,it is not bad.It is a good psychological hint.Just thus you may be not as shy as befor.But it is a just a way to talk to people fluently.We can not use this way everytime when we meet someone.