we should never give a second chance if our boyfriends deceive us

December 7, 2011 5:00pm CST
I am sensitive about deception in relationship.If my boyfriend deceive me with other girl,i never forgive him.Some girls think it is first and last he will never deceive me.I think if he deceive you one time,he will deceive you many times because he thinks she forgave me beforehand and she will forgive me.It becomes a habit for him.
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9 responses
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
hi mervealtug, I know that no one wants to be deceive but we are only humans we made mistakes everyone of us deserves second chances but if he do it again then I think it's better to let go than to give him a chance again. Considered also the situation before taking any actions. happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
That depends on the situation. If he is only tempted to do,or the girl flirted him- see any consideration and give him another chance. but-if he do the same thing again, then, better get rid of him.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Let us not generalized about how deceiving boys are. But I agree to you, boys don't stop deceiving their girlfriends after the first one. It is very painful to note that they are doing that behind our back. But I know karma.
8 Dec 11
I agree with you, it is hard to forgive and forget if your boy friend deceive you.
@boyuancy (1709)
• India
8 Dec 11
Some guys get the point and learn a lesson after they get a bashing the first time. And who knows, they may start genuinely loving you after realizing how much you love him. So I guess it is wrong to consider all boys the same and give up. If you get to know that he is cheating for a long time with your friends and stuff, you should give up and move on.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
8 Dec 11
I'm agree it would be very hard to forgive someone if they are unfaithful to us. A lot of people do get into the habit of cheating when they feel the other person will just forgive them. Some people do work through those hard times though. I know for me though personally it would be hard to forgive or move on if i think it would happen again.
• Philippines
7 Dec 11
It's funny that being right gives the other person the advantage. If a boyfriend who is fed up with the girl has never been given a second chance, he'd happily end the relationship. So if both have faults it will be ideal to simply part ways.
@clocks123 (1229)
• United States
7 Dec 11
i think once deceived always a deceiver. the same thing with cheaters. they cheat once and will do it again. i couldn't trust them and trust is very important in a loving relationship. i would find a great guy who is neither of these personalities. the best to you
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
7 Dec 11
Hello... I think, it depends on the situation... Sometimes guys fall prey to temptation... It is hard to resist for a guy, and yet he might regret it later. But it still depeends on the girl... If she chooses to forgive she can. There are 100s of ladies who wouldn't forgive this crime...