How would you fight against bully?
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
December 8, 2011 2:58pm CST
So, I heard students, mostly are those nerds were bullied by those school "Jock", or those bigger guys, typical bully example in life. Or at whatever occasion you might encounter such incidents. What is the best way to fight against bully? At work, if you simply tell your teachers, they might only give them warning or a detention, sometimes, they might as well ignore it since there is no concrete evidence. I heard news about a girl felt helpless, and she couldn't face bully again at school, she hang herself. So, if you have strength to end your life, why not fight back. Physically or whatever; I knew violence won't solve the problem, but at least let them know that you ain't that weak, and you can't hide from their threats. If you are no match to them physically, you can still fight, get a chair, a stick, and fight till the end. Maybe you got lucky, and they are afraid to bully at you next time. I would do the same, and fight back, kick their butts if they are trying anything like bully.
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11 responses
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
8 Dec 11
Relax,don`t loose your temper,aim the eyes and punch them as hard as you can.With a little luck you will leave a nice mark on their face and next time they will think twice before harassing you.The most important thing is not to lose your temper and to fight smart,to wait and to hit them exactly in the right moment.
ing back. It is not people I want to punch but violence itself. I am on your side but against bullies. Peace. 
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
10 Dec 11
I think the bully problem needs to be looked at a lot closer then it is already. Some kids just do not have the ability to fight back because they are ultra sensitive. I understand what you mean about putting the energy of killing yourself into fighting back, but that does not always work. Fear and peer pressure are factors here. I was bullied as a child in school, and no one listened to me. I could have went columbine on them, but I did not. I did however hold major resentment against these people. Bullying is something that should never take place in the first place.
@Fortunata (1135)
• United States
9 Dec 11
I would tell an adult at the school, then tell my parents. It doesn't do any good to fight the bully, because you could get expelled as well as the bully, and it gets on your record, too.
@GemmaR (8517)
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9 Dec 11
I was bullied a lot at school, and I have to say that I didn't bother to fight back at all. I found that as soon as you started to fight back, they saw you as a threat to them and would bully you even more. I had the best chance of a quiet life by ignoring them and not taking notice of anything that they were saying. If I made out as though they weren't bothering me, they would soon get bored of bullying me. That being said, they still managed to make an awful lot of my life an absolute misery, whether they meant to or not I don't know.
@hdmails918 (14)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
I get back during room discussion and stay away from them if necessary. These people got nothing to do good in their life and don't respect others specially during high school and college days but you will see them come to you after graduation trying to get a job.
@iklananda (1202)
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9 Dec 11
Just a moron guys that bully a nerd, If the nerd kill them than the jerk is die. That happen to me and I fight and planning to bom them if they not realize what they did is very dangerous
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 11
I have been bullied since I was 16 years old. I believe if a person is a coward, then he will be for the rest of his life. So, the solution is stand up for yourself like you said pick a stick and fight back. That is the solution for the problem. I now have depression but slowly recovering with medication.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
8 Dec 11
I agree on you on that point. I mean, taking one's own life takes real guts. And if you have that kind of guts, then might as well use it to confront the bully. I've never been bullied back when I was at school but I had helped some friends confront bullies. I'm not generally big but when you hold your ground against a bully, it makes the bullying stop. But holding one's ground isn't a one-time thing. Some bullies would still continue. You just have to wear them down until they realize they can't bully you no more.
@szz1990602 (188)
• China
9 Dec 11
It's really a tough thing. Honestly, I haven't ever encountered bullies in school before. But that doesn't mean there are no bullies in my life. In my opinion, the best way is to tell teachers even headmasters. Though we may be invaded again, for which the bullies probably will get more severe punishments, then those bullies will calm down. Violence is not a good choice, it can't solve the problem forever.
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
8 Dec 11
I’m no expert at this and come from a time period when bullies did not exist at school. A bully was just a kid with a problem. The one person I remember had a cruel dad that hit him and hurt him in another way that is not easily fixed. He was just a bad dad and made him feel worthless and unloved.
It made the boy mean and resentful with adult hang-ups far sooner than he should have felt such things. There was little reasoning with him and in his mind, the teacher only got him trouble with his mom.
Many years later I heard he had joined some bike club and not sure if he did anything worthy of praise in his adult life. People tried to help him but he was not easy to help, the damage was done. I know we have to be strong and defend our freedom to live happy life’s though that many not be easy if fighting is the only recourse.
@fakeboss (26)
• China
9 Dec 11
i don't know........ i have never been thorough this.....
i think it's kind of coward action to bully someone while he's alone and you have 3,or 4 guys with you.............
i think i would pissed them off to let them fight with me , one VS one.......
i mean, if you allow them to bully you once, then there are coming the second ,the thrid time......... it's not over until you fight for yourself..........
