Does it get better?

United States
December 9, 2011 4:39pm CST
I recently got my heart broken by a guy that said he was going to merry me. I gave my virginity and everything to him. He says he just fell out of love and does not want to be with me anymore . we were together for 5 years and im pretty lost right now.. Can someone please help me?
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5 responses
@Vidianto (36)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 11
i had felt as what you had right now, one thing that i've learnt here is do not give a whole heart by just someone or a mankind, but just give a whole heart for only God, as we know here anything kind of mankinds could be the one who can let us down. God never give us the problem beyond our ability to handle it;)
• United States
10 Dec 11
thank you so much. i appreciate all of your kind words and i do know that i will find someone better and he will be a billion more times better than that guy.
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
hello, Sorry for what happened. You know what? that guy is not good enough for you, he is not worth for you. At least now you know what was his real attitude that you never marry him. You dont have to regret anymore its already done and you should move on because I know you will find someone that is much more deserving than he is. Accept yourself first before anyone.
• United States
10 Dec 11
I do accept myself i am beautiful and really smart. i have a lot going for me right now but all of that means nothing really when your heart gets broken its feels like the end of the world but i know its not i have to pick myself up and move on
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
9 Dec 11
Welcome to life...this just means he was not the one for you and that there is something better down the track, look at your life as chapters in a book, start a new chapter.
• United States
10 Dec 11
I will start a new chapter. I am currently writing a book and i wrote him in it as a bad character lol i changed his name and stuff but that is how i vent lol. in a way im glad he is not the one for me because im only 20 i cant be tied down all my life i need time to grow as a person and figure out who i am.
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
9 Dec 11
Life is full of surprises.Fight for it, do not lose hope.Success is counted how many times you stand after failures.Love yourself and find anyone better than him.He lost you not you lost him..If in time he come back and explain do not think once.There is still one better than him.Move on and be inspired to show him that he lost you.
• United States
9 Dec 11
There really isn't much you can do unfortunately. It sounds to me like this guy once he got what he wanted from you was ready to move on. It's cruel but sadly this happens to girls every day. The best thing you can do is to pick yourself back up & make sure not to make the same mistake again in the future. I know your hurt right now, but you will get over this eventually & you will come out all the more stronger because of it.