I Don't Know....!!!!!!!!

@Dassodils (2013)
India
December 11, 2011 10:32am CST
Hai friends.... I don't know that What happened to me...The exam is coming after 2 days...I don;t have interest to study...Not only in studies...But in doing any thing..Watching t.v, enjoying music,study, speak with others,eating etc etc... I only do mylot by very interest... I do mylot as routine...And I can't to sit with out doing this on a day.. I think that there is some thing wrong with me..I have a lot to study...I will hope to study and will open the book and then I will fall to sleep or I loss my concentration...I don't know that why I don't have any interest to do anything... Did you have such experience?????What will be the reason??????I want your suggestions for a good future...Thanks...
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19 responses
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
me too..i feel so lazy now when it comes to my studies.all i want now is to sit infront of the computer to play music,mylotting, and so many many things but my problem is my prof did not give us lessons about the exam for tomorrow.
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Dec 11
bubuth but he must have told you what the exam covers so just revciew it all and study now the other stuff has to wait as your studies 'nmust always come first.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
HI Dassodils, you have to study. Try to read your books. Try, try, try...
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
12 Dec 11
I also told her the same thing. As a student she has to study. I think she is studying because after posting this she has not responded throughout yesterday night. good.
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
11 Dec 11
hello Dassodils ! please please -- go and study for your exams. You can do mylot after the exams. I am doing mylot because I can postpone my work -- writing materials for placement exams. --But your exam is very very important. So go and study. I wish I tell your mummy or daddy and make you study--dont worry I will not /I cannot do this now. good wishes
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
11 Dec 11
One reason is that we can communicate what we want without any restriction. Also we get many people read our responses. Look, I am also postponing my work and doing this. This is a sort of addiction which we should control effectively.
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@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
15 Dec 11
It sounds to me that you've reached a point of being burned out. I know that was something that I went through when I was in college. I found that the best thing that I could do to make it possible to get my studying done was to make sure to set aside some time so that I could do whatever I wanted to do. Mostly, I would take the time to take a hot bubble bath with a good book so that I was just able to relax and unwind for a little bit.
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@ShyBear88 (18113)
• United States
13 Dec 11
It sounds like you are a bit depressed about something. I was that way 3 years ago I got so depressed I just did things on the computer all day because it made me happy doing them.
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• Mexico
13 Dec 11
Hi Dassodils: Sure this has happened to me and the only thing I can tell you as an advice is to find the right place to concentrate and forget about the things you just don't need to do until you finally have studiedn. You have to be a little bit hard with yourself if you want to have your priorities right my friend. ALVARO
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@svjomboy (876)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
Hello friend, you should give attentions to your study before mylot...if you want have more enough time switch off your pc and go to quiet place and study your lesson i think that would help...Good luck on your exam!!!
@lijoos (346)
• India
12 Dec 11
what a difference yaar.my exams will complete in two days..and yours just starting. dont be lazy you naughty girl. we have a whole year for enjoying..and only we want to spend a few days for our exams..then why cant? i dont study regularly..but i will do it hard before exams.. i dont sleep more than 4 hours..on exam time..realy hardworking. if i dont do it will not going to finish..supply..is not a good one. everyone is like you i also felt realy dissappointed sometime..and dont have interest ,feel to sleep,feel to see movie.but if i dont study..everything will go wrong.so i just concentrate. so i do it. daffodils..start concentrating..just study on these days hardly.. there after..you are free. if you fail now..you will lose another..day..(supply).so do it now.. very best wishes.. when my exam started..i was realy..crazy..i dont know what to do. but its going to finsh..and you dont know how much i will be happy..after this. start study..we have nom days..to lost.we are freebirds..we need..to celebrate..every..second. god bless you. i am sure..you can do it very well. i will surely remember you in my prayers.. never forget..our dreams...
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@rusale (648)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
I have been to that last week too. Last week was our exam. I think it is because of my interest to search online job. I want to visit mylot too. I think I can't live a day without visiting mylot and respond with some discussion. I also fall asleep every time I open my notes and books. But I still had manage to give some time to study. I think you have no inspiration this time. Sometimes I do not want to do anything because I don't have inspiration. Maybe you should read some inspiring articles and read the Bible. You could get much lessons there. Try talking with your parents like going outside for a picnic or anything that can build bonding moments with your family. And try talking with positive things and I think you should not to mention about your study time. I've commented that article of yours too. I know what you are feeling right now. But try doing positive things with your family. Your family are the people which can help you whatever disappointment you get from them. I hope you'll have a nice day ahead. I hope to read a happy discussion from you Dassodils.
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@davaome (1828)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
I am actually like that, before in high school I would study everyday for about an hour or 2 and have good grades, but when I reached college, I enjoyed the habit of my classmates that study 1 day before the exam, and it worked for me, because we usually have a group study by that time and this kind of study was very effective for me. But i'm not sure if it will be as effective for you. there are also other stuff that you can try, i read somewhere that for some people the best time for them to study is around 11pm-1am. During this time, they say your focus span would be at it's highest, and you would be able to study more and learn more. Right now that's all I can think of Goodluck on your exams
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@dpk262006 (56482)
• Delhi, India
12 Dec 11
HI! You need to make yourself understand that studies in life are most important. Mylotting and other things could wait. You need to focus on your studies and make yourself determined that you have to succeed. You might be knowing nothing succeed without success. All the best. Happy studying.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
11 Dec 11
I think those fights with your brother are not good for you too. i can imagine you are not really interested in studying and mylot is a way to take your mind of other things. Nothing wrong with you, just the spirit is gone at the moment. Agree with yourself to have a look in your books 3 times a day for 30 min and make notes. after that you can reward yourself with mylot (and leave the computer closed till you did your 30 min)
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@celticeagle (119864)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Dec 11
I think you are depressed. You should do something kind for yourself. Bubble bath, favorite food, etc. Something that will make you happy. Get your rest and eat good food. And get alittle exercise each day. Eathing foods rich in Vitamin B complex would probably help you also.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
11 Dec 11
Please go to school, don't ever think of not doing it.. or else in the future, somehow you'll gonna regret it.. I remember my friend also told me, that she doesn't want to go school and doesn't have any interest at all. I talked to her, telling her, "life is full of uncertainties, but you have to float on it, don't ever think or even entertain the idea of not getting in school, I said, look at me, do you really want to graduate old.. of course not." so my friend Dassodils, please, Have the interest to go to school, myLot won't be leaving, but school does.. if you continue and graduate I know you'll get the success that you really wanted.. just focus and Pray always.. that would be your number 1 tool..:)
@jjzone44 (917)
• United States
11 Dec 11
I don't thing there is anything wrong with you, but perhaps you have too much on your plate, and you are feeling overwhelmed? You enjoy doing myLot and that is why you can continue to do it. But the studying and the like you are viewing as work, and not too many people enjoy work. But you have come this far now, and you have put all of the energy into getting to the point that you can take these exams. Instead of thinking of the exams as just another thing you have to do, try thinking of them as the last thing that needs to be done on a long journey you have begun. Think of them as the final thing, and then you are done. Kind of like when I watch a race; if it is 200 laps, they count up during the first 101 laps, like they will say "lap 90 of 200". But after lap 101, they write it as "99 laps to go". You are in the final laps, so you just have to finish, and this test is the finish. Also you might be studying things that you already know, and that could be a problem. When the group I graduated with was preparing for the board exams, many people would get together and study for 2 hours every night. I was not one of them, I studied probably 4 hours in total out of the 45 days we had before boards. I scored in the top 5% of everyone who ever took those board exams. Perhaps your lack of interest in studying is because you already know the material?
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• Indonesia
11 Dec 11
Hi Dassodils!! I think we have same problem. I also feel the same with you, just like out of focus, loss concentration, and so on. Just several days later, there will be Block Examination.. But I haven't prepare a lot. I think it's because we have less motivation on the major of study we took. Yeah, it will be better if we take courses we like. We'll be passionate to study in our favorite courses.
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@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
4 Feb 12
yeah. i had the same experience dassodils and just like you i do not know why that happens. i just sleep then wake up to start a new. so i guess you do the same to prevent stressing yourself much.
• United States
25 Dec 11
Don't feel bad, that happens to all of us. I am currently enrolled in online graduate courses, and just this week, I procrastinated (even though I don't do that very often) on everything. Every night I said to myself I will do my discussions and homework and I don't know what happened, but I either couldn't concentrate on school work and/or I ended up falling asleep. I ended up doing home all of Friday night and the majority of Saturday, since everything is due by Saturday @ midnight. Mind you have 3 courses since I am in school full-time and I work full-time with two children, so at times school work doesn't come that easy.
@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Dec 11
hi dassodils you need to get it all in perspective, your exams must come first so bite the bullet and study now then when you have the information tucked into y our head you can mylot but also take time for other people and your meals.mylot is not running off and will be ere when you get back/study first as those exams are more important than mylotting. You have become addicted to mylot like a lot of us but you must take time for other things too.