what is the perfect spouse

United States
December 16, 2011 10:07am CST
I think the perfect spouse is someone who you love and care for as much as they due for you.the person i am with now loves me and my daughters as if they were his. He picks up the slack on everyday life with out complements and dose them on his own most of the time. He has also become my best friend we talk about every thing. from life to books. we all are very happy. but don't get me wrong we do have are fights but we always work them out. this is what i find to be perfect. what is your thoughts on the perfect spouse? what makes you so happy in your relationship?
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@ShyBear88 (59273)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Dec 11
To me a prefect spouse is someone that loves me for me and wouldn't want to change me at all. That supports me I. What I want and I'll do the same for them. This is why me and my husband are together. We love each other for the good and the bad. We support each other in what we want in life.
• United States
16 Dec 11
That is great. I like when i hair about good mariges u don't find that a lot now. most people I know have had to many problems. I swore i would not marry till i was with the right person. i hop every thing keeps going good.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
Having a partner that loves you on what ever you are is like winning a lot of money from lottery. You are very lucky to have him. Loving someone for better or for worst is a very sweet relationship. You will have stable life because of it.
@ShyBear88 (59273)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Dec 11
Yes it is like winning the lottery finding that one person that just loves you for you faults and all. Some times we drive each other crazy but we still love each other and with each child we have our live grows even more and more.
@smacksman (6053)
16 Dec 11
I know who the perfect spouse is - it's me! I have no idea why my wife doubts it though!
• United States
17 Dec 11
I think i can see why she would. lol but as long as you both are happy that is what matters thanks for the response and i also see that you well be a very interesting person to talk to. lol
• United States
18 Dec 11
that is so true the best gift is a smile. the one gift that almost always has the same in return. and i hope for the same for you. smacksman!
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
smacksman i see that you can make your wife the most happiest girl in the world and im happy for you. I feel glad on your love life..
• United States
18 Dec 11
Acceptance of radical views, opinions, and lifestyles is something my husband has that is crucial for me. I've always been a person who isn't willing to accept society's view on something simply because it says it's right...I think through each and every belief I have before I stand firm. My husband accepts this, and, awesomely enough, he agrees with me on most of these things. I've always felt so radically different than the rest of humanity that I was happiest being a loner until I met him. It feels so great to come to him after being around other people...others who may think I am weird or thinking too far into simple things...and have him completely understand me. It's like we're a team together, and the rest of the world stands on the other side of the fence. My husband's perfect to me in every way, even his flaws, simply because they are his and make him an individual. And I actually mean that. Yet, when it comes down to it, there is not one other person in the world that understands me as well as he does, and there is comfort in knowing that I can count on that as a constant in my life. Many people have loved me and love me now, many people are just a phone call away, but no one else admires my weird views and expansive thought processes as much as he does.
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
For me I really don't believe that there is such thing as a perfect spouse. We all know that "No one is perfect". To have a happy relationship with your partner you must accept the fact that s/he is not perfect. As I've read in an article, in order to have a happy relationship, one must view the fact that you love a partner who is imperfect and from that point of view you will view your partner perfectly.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
for me i can say that i have my perfect spouse if we both understand each other and even we have been fighting sometimes but before the end of the day we fix our problem. Both of us don't let our relationship be cold.
• United States
16 Dec 11
That is wonderful.. I like how mine is going it's fairly new to me to have some one like him and i love it but some times i feel like I'm not sure and have to remind myself this is how a healthy relationship should be.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
Always give time to your partner.. Communication have also a big role in a relationship..It can help both of you to understand each other.
• United States
20 Dec 11
talking is always the best way to solve any ting.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 11
There is no such thing as perfect spouse. Love is all about caring, tolerating, adapting, willing to give-and-take etc. As long as you are committed and mature enough, your relationship should not be having much of a problem. I've been together with my girlfriend for 822 days and so far we are doing fine. Both of us have certain weaknesses but we know how to deal with it
• United States
20 Dec 11
i could not have said that beater myself thank you.
• United States
17 Dec 11
i think you are right and wrong. i think that is what makes perfect not perfection but the way can Handel and do things together even when you don't always agree.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
i think perfect spouse doesn't mean that your partner is a perfect person..i think it is the way on how your partner handle a relationship and how the way your partner treat you.
• India
17 Dec 11
A "perfect" spouse is someone who loves you unconditionally, is 100% faithfull, honest, and loving and nurturing to you and your needs. Someone who will be there for you through thick and thin. A perfect spouse is someone who tries to make the realtionship positive. Nobody can be perfect 100% of the time but everyone can try to do what it takes to be an awesome spouse and work to make their partner happy.
@vandana7 (98702)
• India
17 Dec 11
I am not in any relationship but what you've stated seems to be perfect. Oh such species are so rare. May it last lifelong.
@webearn99 (1742)
• India
17 Dec 11
A perfect spouse is the one who loves you, is not afraid to tell the truth, has the wisdom to give advice, has the discipline punish you, has the understanding to forgive you and is committed to life with you, warts, moles and all.
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
17 Dec 11
Hello ladybugr2d2, The one who respects and is loyal to his partner is the perfect spouse for me and i find all these chacteristics in me and my wife so we are a good couple and have been together for almost 7 years.
@Manasha (2727)
• Pondicherry, India
17 Dec 11
spouse is the vital part of the life but I have no luck
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 Dec 11
To my opinion the perfect one is the one who treats me like a godess.
@jsmalong (109)
17 Dec 11
A perfect spouse is a God-fearing and God-loving individual who puts God in the center of their marriage. One who is loving and respectful amidst the many differences that they may have. A good communicator and an excellent listener who is not afraid to speak his/her mind. And one who stick with you until the end.
@campos22 (47)
• United States
17 Dec 11
The perfect spouse or mate is someone who you love for being themselves and someone who loves you for being you.
@eoz127 (80)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 11
There is no perfect spouse or perfect person though. But love and trust is very important in all relationship.