Man in their mid to late 50s goes for women in their 20s..

@jadoixa (1171)
Philippines
December 19, 2011 1:41am CST
what does this man really want? at his old age of mid to late 50s he still feels like he is a teenager, in his 20s, or 30s with all these things he keeps on doing with women..he looks for women in their 20s and then he knows well, he doesn't really want a commitment with these women...he courts them, gains their trust, uses them, then later on tell them, you don't need me, i am already old and all that stuff..if he really doesn't want kids, or family, or commitment,..these things a young woman dreams and hopes for...then why does he keep on looking for a young woman and a relationship?? what do you think is his reason why he is doing this?
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@djbtol (5500)
• United States
19 Dec 11
Typically the tradeoff is that the many gets a very lively young companion, while the young gal get a man who is established, secure and wealthy. Yes, there are women that consider this type of relationship a good thing. Healthy men are certainly compatible with younger women physically, but I wonder about other areas. Once heard a joke (please don't be offended) that it is good when a man's wife turns 40 years old. Then he can trade her in for two 20's! Just kidding. No intention of trading my wife in.
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• United States
19 Dec 11
My friends and I always ask this question, why do much older men go for much younger women? I ask this question because if there is anything more than a 10 year gap between the man and woman in age, then I find it hard to see that they would have very much in common. Think about? What do you two talk about because you both come from very different generations and decades? What do the two of you really have in common? My mother was with two men who were older than herself, and I think that my father was the only one of the two who she really had anything in common with because she had more to talk about with him and she did with my step-father. She never really has much to talk about with my step-father. Yes, they both for the county, they were both in the Army and they were in the same Unit, they both live in CA and had a son together, but other than that, they really don't have much to talk about because there is such a large generational gap between the two of them. I will hear many older men complain that, "Oh, she's young and she's cute, but we don't really have much to talk about." Well, the reason you two don't have much to talk about is because you two come from different generations. He's near the end of his life, and she's just beginning her's. If there is only 10 years or less difference, then it is okay, but once you go past 10 years, then you start having more of a generational gap. Also, I don't know what you are talking about with older men using younger women because where I come from, it is the other way around. Younger women are generally the ones who use older men, and younger men will use older women for their money. I have never known older men to use younger women for money.
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
yes, that is also very true..this man already in his 50s said he doesn't want children anymore at his age or doesn't want to get married but he still looks for women especially younger women for a relationship though he knows well he doesn't want commitment..later on he tells the younger women,,you shouldn't go for me, i am already old..but still looks for young women after his relationship with them ends in separation...nowadays, he has a young partner,,29 years younger than him..maybe this young woman wants him for his money or we don't know really the real reason...but this man always end up separating and having broken relationships and marriages..if he doesn't want family and kids..why go for young women, when women at this age usually dreams of marriage and family and still can get pregnant..if he wants companion, he should go for women her age..but he is not attracted to them..
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
19 Dec 11
I think, generally man in 50s seems to less affected by age than woman at 50s. That may be the reason to rise such a view about man as you said here.
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
yes this man in his 50s don't like women the same age as him..he says he doesn't want to have kids anymore at his age or doesn't want to get married but he keeps on having relationship and affairs with younger women..young women dreams to get married and have kids..if he is only looking for companionship..why not go for women his age? or if he doesn't want marriage..why still look or court women..especially young women if it will not lead to anything?
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
21 Dec 11
I don't think you are correct in case of all young women. I am an unmarried man of similar age, I have some good friendships with young girls, who want friendships without much commitments. They feel young men are more or less sentimental in friendships with girls. When we are sentimental, it brings some sort of burden to friendship.
@apsara60 (6612)
• Israel
19 Dec 11
WHY THE HELL DO THE YOUNG GIRLS OF 20's SHOW INTEREST IN 50 YEAR OLD YEAR MAN this is my first question to you.???????????????. Girls are more guilty in this case than the man. Besides let me tell you man of 50 is not old but very much young and has full right to feel young. He is just looking for company, but he is not forcing any girl. If girls are attracted to him then it is not his fault. I think girls are very intelligent now a days and know very well what they are doing. Haven't you seen the cases where young girls have accepted old men just because they are Rich...........Men are men, they will always look for young and beautiful women, but it is up to women, if they should fulfill his wish or not.......
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
very well said..that is very true..usually it is because of the money that young girls go after with old men..but also some think that old men are more mature and responsible compare to younger men so that is why they go for them..
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@apsara60 (6612)
• Israel
21 Dec 11
Right jadoixa........it is not always that only men are guilty.........Thanks for understanding.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
20 Dec 11
This depends on each relationship. I know some men cheated younger woman- so young women out there must be careful when dealing with older men who only looks for fun.
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
yes that's true too..i know an old man who cheats with his young partner for another young woman..young women should also be careful that not because a man is older he is already more mature and responsible..there are still older men who likes playing around and only uses a young girl to fulfill his needs...
• India
19 Dec 11
There are three types of men. One men wants money, second wants women and the third wants the fame. To me i have framed these people.
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
i guess this man only wants a woman to fulfill his needs...
@SIMPLYD (77451)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Are you talking about the rumored relationship of Vic Sotto to Pauleen Luna? Yes, Vic did say that, as Lolit Solis confirmed. But yesterday , when Vic promoted with Ai Ai at the buzz, he said it "all depends and we'll see". I think, he is just trying to secure himself from women who are just after his money. Marrying someone could endanger his assets and maybe his life. Who knows ?
@jadoixa (1171)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
i don't know if that rumor is true...
@iwrite (5042)
• Singapore
19 Dec 11
Matters of the heart cannot be measure by reasons, I have gorgeous babes go out with ordinary looking guys and plain pair up with hunks. Fat boy with really skinny girls and the other way around. I guess it is something they feel they lack, at 50 I might feel I need to attract someone at 20 to feel young again. I tell you again when I reach 50 ok