Relations grow with time

@dhawanbm (3705)
India
December 23, 2011 7:13am CST
Relations grow with time, ya thats what i belive in. In most of the cases we draw lines and dont go beyond them. Developing relations is really some thing very magical and mystical. But once you are in a good relation, one should regard it and give due importance to all you have to do and say about. Time factor is one main thing and one should allow good time to ripen a healthy relation.
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9 responses
• United States
23 Dec 11
I believe in this as well and know how hard it is to keep love alive. I think time is the best thing we have as well. It heals all thing sin our lives as well.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
23 Dec 11
we do live in this fake world but you need to build up relations to make it realistic and worthy of love and affection for you. I belive one should have healthy relation with perfect understanding come what may, it should not spoil the true spirit of being bonded.
@glesil_00 (1147)
• Philippines
26 Dec 11
Time is the way that you can keep the relationship. Time will tell us about our relationship to our significant other. Rushing to decide on something is not that fruitful. Healing wounds because of break up, time can help us to move on.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
26 Dec 11
you are right, time is a big factor to allow the relation to mature and blossom into a healthy one. There should be understanding between the two partners too.
@fantabulus (4005)
• India
24 Dec 11
Yes some relations grows with time but some relations are breaks after some time. You are right time factor is main thing for maintaining good relations.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
25 Dec 11
you are right, it needs to be some time when you have healthy relation in the making.But be sure to nurture it with all the love and affection, for they live to be with you as you go ahead with life.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
26 Dec 11
It is due to some reasons that the relations do break, its the mistrust and other factors which make it break. They should have faith in each other and only then it survives.
• India
24 Dec 11
You are right dhawanbm, You can say the same in vice-versa too as relations loss their charm if not in touch for a long time. This particularly happens in relations that we made like friends,classmates, colleagues, love etc. So what i think all should make good relation, take their own time and yes respect it.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 Dec 11
hi punam I still rememeber the days of our schooling and we did had good romantic moments together. The days full of charm and romance. But with the passage of time all was lost. We never did come in contact ever. Some times i cherish those wonderful moments which could have been a solid relation, but for the gap and lost the touch of time.
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
24 Dec 11
Yes you're right, relationships grow with time and patience, there are some people who just go a little too fast and at the end realize their biggest mistake in the world! Many relationships don't even last very long, I don't know why but some teenagers are so desperate to take part in a relationship. I'm in my late teens and I don't mind being single but girls in my high school all have to have boyfriends. My group of friends are the only people who are happy to be single Some girls even boast about being with like lots of guys, I don't think that's very appealing. I have one friend who has been with her boyfriend since primary school, together for like 6 years now and they're just so adorable. I can see them married after college. But like you said, relationships take time and yes there will be ups and downs but you just have to deal with them. Some people I know can't deal with that and simple move on quickly to fill in the empty void so they date guys like changing clothes. Love is unpredictable and takes a lot of patience. Unless love at first sight exists.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
25 Dec 11
RElations are there for you always, but it is man who wants to doom with the relatives and other new relations in the hope to make some thing new out of this fake world. In your friends case they waited and had patience to make a good love couple, it took much time and they are happy to be married you know. Its relation which matters the most to people.
• India
24 Dec 11
We all understand the importance of relationships. Starting a new relationship is like planting a tree. I have noticed that in the beginning of any new relationship people give sufficient time to it and also make themselves available in the time of needs, but as the time passes people start taking each other for granted. Instead of investing in a relationship people start counting on the returns. This is where the tree of relationship starts wilting. You have rightly said that time is a prerequisite for any relationship to bloom. Hope we all become wise enough to understand it before loosing our precious relations.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 Dec 11
you are right, the creeper of relation grows and we do nurture it with the honey of love and affection. Its all there, we do complement each other and seek every thing, right from the scratch. Relations do need some time and its this factor which plays important role in it to bloom.
@diillu (5128)
24 Dec 11
I also think that time plays important role in development of the healthy relationship. If one person takes time to know another person, takes out time for each other, then the relationship between these person will grow stronger and stronger as time goes on. Thats why people take time on knowing people rather than jumping directly into relationship. So that their relationship would last longer.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 Dec 11
The more the time you spend with your loved ones, it becomes so good to have nice relation with that. Rather relation becomes healthy and prosperous. It pours in lots of love and affection in it before you finally have the urge to get the element of togetherness.
@sajujohn (1009)
• India
23 Dec 11
yes I too agree with your opinion. Sufficient time must be given to nurture the good relations. Only those relations will last for long. And if you are in a relation be sincere to her/him and extend help in times and should do everything to keep her/him happy always.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 Dec 11
you are right it is the time factor which plays crucial role in development of a good healthy relation in our times. But at times one gets annoyed at delay in time, but it is natural it happens and you you should wait for the right time.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
I agree that relation grow with time because while the time past we are starting to know our partner much better. We will start to notice their bad attitude and their good character. After knowing their real character in a long time we will still find our self inlove with them even we already know that they also have imperfections..
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
23 Dec 11
with the passage of time the relations grow and so are peoples habits. they tend to fall in love and desperate for each others company. I am sure time is big thing for relations to delve.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
Yes, love grows with time. It takes time to know each other and so with the feelings. Love doesn't progress for a whole night alone, it needs sometime to be developed and have a strong foundation.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
23 Dec 11
I appreciate your thought, it takes much time to understand other person and all you need is patience which is a must to develop a healthy mature relation. Just being alone is no good you know!