In what age you get married?

@Devilova (5396)
Indonesia
December 24, 2011 9:14pm CST
This question was for those who already married. And for those who didn't yet, in what age you have a plan to get married?
16 responses
@davaome (1828)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I am not married yet. I plan to get married 27 or 28, and plan to have children a year later. So that I will not be that old when my eldest child will graduate college
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• India
25 Dec 11
Ho! That is great thinking. Why such a thinking ?
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@davaome (1828)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
So that when my first born will graduate, I wouldn't have to work so much, and I can enjoy my life afterwards But while i'm not married I will try to enjoy myself as well
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Right now, 55th was the maximum age of productivity.And that decreased from time to time.If we live by working to other peoples. On that ages, we should enjoy our rest of life.With our belove childs and grandchilds.
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
iam unmarried.. i don`t know about the plan..
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• India
25 Dec 11
Just tell, What will be your plans ?
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Well keep trying to search for your a part of heart.Don't forget to pray. Cause God love peoples who 99% works and 1% prays.Rather then 99% prays but only 1% works.
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 11
devilova, in the field,sometimes the theory is not effective
• United States
25 Dec 11
I was married at the age of 22 and I had my daughter at 24 and I was divorced at 25. LOL.
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@taomoney (649)
• Hong Kong
25 Dec 11
I am 35, still single. As i afraid to get divorced. For your point of view, do you think living with daughter without a man still fine? As i getting old, sometime, I will afraid to be alone as i will not have a daughter look after me when I get old. If i not step, I will not get married. If I get married, I afraid to get HURT! That is difficult decision :(
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
@gifts wew, what an instant marriage story.How old your daughter now? What age you met Adrian? How old is He? @taomoney don't ever think about being hurts.Just think about taomoney's successors.
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@maximax8 (28558)
• United Kingdom
25 Dec 11
I got married at 22 years old which was a bit too young. Our marriage lasted six years and then we got divorced. I think that the best age to get married is 24 to 28 years old. Then there is time to have 2 or 3 children born before the lady is 35 years old. I have a friend that married at 38 years old. Her children were born when she was 39 and 40 years old. That seemed like a rush to fit all that in.
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Yes I agree with you. Maybe, your friends want to prepare anything before they decided to get married. Whether for their couple or their child. So when it's come, all have been set.
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@Raashi (92)
• India
25 Dec 11
well ...i am single. i am not ready for marriage this time. i will get married at 25.
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Many peoples said that 25 was the best age for marriages.The child born a year after and 4-5 year again. So when they do the same thing like what we have done.We still in our productivity of ages. Thanks.
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@yahnee (1250)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I got married at 18 against my parent's wishes and have since then regretted that I did it. I should have waited for myself to mature and should have listened to my parents advice but if there is something that I should be thankful for are my beautiful kids. Even if I have made a mistake in my decisions, my children did make it worthwhile. I have been separated long ago that I hardly ever remember my ex-husband except when he is texting me for a reconciliation. He thought that it is as easy calling or texting and I would just accept him with open arms but no way. I now enjoy my freedom, something I haven't experienced due to the early marriage. I have found somebody to love who doesn't ask too much of me but only that I love him in return. Some marriages do fail because, the couple gets married thinking that they can survive on love alone. Some get lucky though, but others like me did not. Marriage is a commitment and it needs maturity and sacrifices on the part of both not on one alone.
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Well actually, the primary reason for getting marriage was a successor (child). At the beginning, you not thinking about it.All you know is, you love that men.Thats it! After you get a child, you will know which one you will choose if you have to choose. A mothers feeling will lose a wife, but that only if we have to choose one of them. Cause I believe you will choose as a wife and as a mother. Hope she/he will become a moon for you and your families.Raise up yours and your families proud. That was a real successors is.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I guess it would depend on the person on when he can be ready to marry. Some of us are mature enough and even if they married young, they are already responsible. Others are childish and they are not yet ready to marry even if they are already much older. There are those who are already prepared and yet they are not yet married because they don't have girl or boy friend. For this, we'll just take into consideration the woman's age. She should marry during their child bearing years.
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Thanks for the great explanations, but still that didn't answer my question. Read it again.Wouldn't you?
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• Malaysia
25 Dec 11
Well, i have still got some things planned for now or else i wouldnt mind getting married now. But since its not yet possible, im hoping by God's grace, by the age of 24, i will be able to get married.
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@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
24-25 was the best average age to get married. So, hope you will able to finish your plan.
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@ABCL2012 (62)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I got married at the age of 23 and still happily married with my husband with three kids, sons and daughter. :)
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
@ABCL how long you have married so far? Would you mind to share the secrets? We would love to hear that.
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@dodo19 (33624)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Dec 11
I got married at 21. I had my first child, my daughter, this year, at the age of 23.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 11
That was good, and hope your family will always in health, wealth and prosperous.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 11
That was good, and hope your family will always in health, wealth and prosperous.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 11
That was good, and hope your family will always in health, wealth and prosperous.
@marguicha (102231)
• Chile
28 Dec 11
I got married very young and I woyuld not change my decision at all. Many people thought we were crazy when we got married, but we loved each other and had a good marriage for almost 40 years. I was not "planning" to get married: I had planned a wonderful academic career. Still I could do a lot of what I wanted and some of it thanks to my husband.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 12
40 years was a long-long time, specially on the wild western.lol It would be great if we have a great husband and a great father for us and our childrens. Thanks for share it with us. And happy new year for you.Hope this year will bring more health, wealth and prosperous. Cheers
@marguicha (102231)
• Chile
2 Jan 12
What do you mean by "wild western"? I sound as if I had lived in cowboy movies. I have loved all my life in my country┬┤s capital, a city with several millions of inhabitants. Western hemisphere, yes. Wild, no.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 11
age does not a measure for someone to get married Devil if you feel you are ready and had found the right man to stand beside you, i guess that is it. but first to think about marriage is someone have to mature enough to solve the big and hard problems in the marriage.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 11
Please ifa, don't call me devil but devi.Devilova (devi lova) mean godess of love. Thanks for the advices.
• India
7 Feb 12
Devi looks like a Tamil name.
@sivaeinfo (220)
• India
7 Feb 12
Its better to get married after the age 22 or 20. If we get job. Next thing is to ready for marriage. In my view, we don't think about marriage without having a job.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 12
At this time, it's hard to live with one money sources. Both of us have to be work to get income.
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
i'm planning to get married when i will have a plenty of money and when i can walk on my on foot but my girlfriend's family wants us to get married because she got pregnant. i'm only 21 and i am just a student by now. :(
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
7 Jan 12
Married by accident ha? I am the one who considered virginity was the most important thing before get married. And I'm proud with that.
@seemared (771)
31 Dec 11
I got married at 20...isn't quite a good age but after 5 years now it's quite good to have a partner to stick around for everything..
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 12
The best average to get married was 24-25 and have a child a year after.So we won't old enough to see they get married and or hug and with our grandchilds.
• United States
26 Dec 11
I'm 30 years old, and I've never been married. I'm honestly not in a big rush. I'd like to be married by at least 35, but I don't put an age limit on it. I'll know when the time is right.
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 11
Yes you right about that, cause when it isn't the time. No matter what you do, it won't work out.