Almost a 100% better

By C
@ShyBear88 (17699)
United States
December 26, 2011 9:01pm CST
Hey all I wanted to give you an update on how me and my husband are doing a week after a miscarriage. On Friday me and my husband spend a few hours to ourselves and went and got a tattoo with two little feet on our chest with the word loved. Even though I was only 4 weeks I will always love the baby I don't have as much as my daughter. This helped a lot with our healthing and we are feeling so much better now that we have done something in memory of our baby. I haven't been feeling good for days now so I finally went to the er and found out that I have an ovarian cyst which should go away in a few days. This has been the cause of most all of my nausea, all of my back pain and lower abdomal pain and a bit o my headache. A little bit of it is still my body getting use to no pregnancy hormones. They did check my hcg and it was zero now which is good to know as well as pregnancy test and it came back negative. So if me and my husband want to have another baby and try for it we can after my next period. Hopefully I feel better in a few days if not I have to call my doctor to check on the cyst.
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4 responses
• United States
27 Dec 11
I am glad getting the tattoo helped. And I hope , when the time is right, you try again. I'm so relieved you are emotionally better And that soon you will be physically better too. Like always if you Ever need me just write.
@ShyBear88 (17699)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I've been psyically better for a week. The cyst is recent since Friday. Emotially almost there maybe a few more weeks and I'll be emotionally okay. At least now I can think about babies and not cry or even talk about my baby and not get upset or look at other babies and feel hurt. I think some people are being a little sensitive around ms like I'm going to break if they say anything about it but I'm really okay. What doest kill you makes your stronge some times and this will make me stronger over time and more grateful for my sugar being in my life.
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• United States
27 Dec 11
They mean well. Somehow I knew you needed to talk it out. I think this had to happen because something was wrong with this egg. I'm just relieved you are young and healthy enough to try again.And I remember how we talked about Sugar.So I hope if we talk about JD , he will hurry up and come to life. I know it is silly. But that is what I thought.I'm so proud of you.
@ShyBear88 (17699)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I'm not calling any child that I don't have by name since they are not real yet. That and I'm not calling any baby by there name till I know there gender so there is no Jd right now at all. Just sugar and possible siblings my age has nothing to do with the fact that I can have another child. Just have to wait and see how the cards are laid out for us. I can't say I will or will not have a son but I can hope that is all I can do is hope.
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@bounce58 (17524)
• Canada
31 Dec 11
It's great that you've gotten a tattoo to memorialize your experience. Maybe some angels aren't really meant for this cruel world. And it's great that you've gotten yourself checked out. So that you can have a better experience next time. Goodluck to you and your husband. May the coming year prove to be lucky!
@ShyBear88 (17699)
• United States
31 Dec 11
I don't believe my baby is an angel at all. Just another life not mention for this world. Natural selection servile of the fittest. Well you have to go if not you could die. Miscarriages can be signs of an imbalances of hormones. Also miscarriages can lead to you getting sicker if not all the tissues from the egg isn't expelled from the body. That and doctors watch for the hormones decreasing incase a second egg is some where else in th body that can be extremely dangerous.
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
29 Dec 11
ShyBear88..Thank you for the update...I was concerned about you and am delighted to read things are going well for you guys
@ShyBear88 (17699)
• United States
29 Dec 11
We are all fine all three of me my husband and 11 month old are all okay and doing good.
@lajonez (478)
• Poland
29 Dec 11
I had my miscarriage in April and i was pregnant 3 month when we lost our little angel, and i really think you're very strong! it took me a lot of time to get to the point you're now! I wish both of you the best!
@ShyBear88 (17699)
• United States
29 Dec 11
Thanks yeah every one deals with it at there own past. For some they move one quicker and others it take a little bit. It seems to help that I have another child to care for and she gives us the area th to handle anything that comes our way.