Will She Accept Me?

India
December 27, 2011 3:46am CST
Friends, This is a true story happens with me and now the past has been arrived. It was 3 years ago when she left from our town. Before that we are in good relationship of love. She loves me more then me.Our parents has no information about it. Our days were going very well. We were usually meet each other outside from home. Once i was gone from town to do a job and there is no cell with me. There was no source to contact with anybody from there. And when i was arrived after a month i am shocked to know that she has left the town with her family. I will always call it my bad-luck.After that there was no contact between us on that duration. Now After 3 years she came back in town one week ago. she seems more beautiful then before and yesterday i saw her first time after three years, i am so excited to start our relationship again. But i am afraid with this thinking that will she accept me or not? It may be possible she may be in a relation with anybody else. Now Guys please tell me what i do on this situation? And please tell me also this incident happens with any of you?
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15 responses
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
The best thing you can do is approach her. There is nothing wrong with saying "hi or hello" and wait for her response. If she responded positively the, you can make the next move- yes, you can start talking with her like the same way. 3 years is not too long for her to forget you. If you still feel the same feeling and love, maybe she feels the same...so, better move now before it's too late.
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• India
28 Dec 11
Hey a££ you Guys, Thanks to you all for supporting me..:) Yes yes and yes..i got success,today was one of my lucky day for me..today i meet her..both of us see each other on front after 3 years,yes her eyes and face tell me everything what she have faced in these three years.She gave me a warm hug,after that she wept a lot and tell everything that happens with her in these 3 years and what his father thinks about me,and why they pick them outside of town..i take her in a restauraunt and i ask everything about her in these 3 years..really all that moments was passed very emotionally..finally i tell her that i will proove myself ahead of his father. And both of us promised each other to make this love deep and deep day by day..and in last she give me a lip kiss(i never expected it today)... *So friends...thanks a lot again for providing me energy* Hope now we both live and die with each other.
• India
28 Dec 11
All i can say is have patience and make a good approach, don't hesitate to meet her and keep in mind don't start off conversation too aggressivly. I know she just left without informing but girl are binded to their family. It happens in every places i have heard stories where people fall in love with each other and when time comes to tell the family they move with their families decision instead of giving a good explanation and making them understand about the relationship. That'things work on and you have to accept the truth whatever she is. My suggestion to you would be talk to her in a friendly manner, tell your feelings and whatever the answer might be just accept the truth whatsoever and move on in your life, the best part of doing this is you will be able to cope up with the pain in your life, if you made things worse than might be both of you would be unhappy and this will keep tormenting you about it. So end things happily if her answer is negative. And if its positive Congratulations for it. ALL THE BEST FRIEND.
• India
28 Dec 11
hey you would be happy to know that,i got success..after today's meeting,.she accept me..read what happens today in down of my this thread..
27 Dec 11
It could be possible that she may be in relation with somebody else. But, it would be better to talk to her about all these stuffs. You will come to know the fact.
• India
27 Dec 11
yeah i am some some afaird on that time,but i am assure that she will accept myself tommorow.
@sjvg1976 (18401)
• Delhi, India
27 Dec 11
Hello Asian_Mafia, Its bit of surprise for me how someone when so closed suddenly goes away and comes after 3 years and had no communication in those 3 years. When you say She loves me more then me have me a doubt how can someone do like this when she loves you.I don't expect the same behavior from someone who loves me and i can't dare to do it with someone i love.I think she doesn't love you its something else and to know this you must talk to her at least once.
• India
27 Dec 11
Mate, Make believe it or not,it's on your mind but i tells everything here,that has been happend with me..now only a few hours have been left when i got yes or no..
• Jordan
27 Dec 11
I feel really sorry for what happened to you. This never happened to me, so I can only imagine how you feel right now. If the girl is that pretty then she may have hooked up with someone else. The best thing to do in these situations is try to make it as if you ran into her by coincidence and ask her out for dinner or even just a coffee. If she has any sense in her she'll probably agree and go out with you. If she says no, just know that she has changed and that you're probably not going to like the new her. If you go out with her start a conversation and ask her how she's been doing. After you get a conversation going ask her if she got hooked up with someone while out of town. From there you can know if you should continue and ask her if she remembers the relationship you two had together. I hope this helped and everything goes well with you.
• India
27 Dec 11
I think this will be right,if i say hello to her and ask for a tea/coffe. This may be help me to understand her better..Ok i will do that but i am some some afraid with that..
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
29 Dec 11
Well, I'm easy going. I'd just ask her out for dinner and perhaps a movie. If things go well, then I'll figure out what I want to do from there. IF not, and she doesn't like me anymore, then so be it. Oh well, moving on.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
29 Dec 11
Try to talk to her. If she ignored you,just try and try. Maybe she only have huff on you. Girls always want to feel the expression of fondness. 3 years is just a short time to forget someone so i can say that you can still get back your happy relationship before. Happy Mylotting.
@jdyrj777 (6556)
• United States
28 Dec 11
The only way to know is to communicate with her.
• United States
28 Dec 11
You Have to talk to her, one on one. tell her how you feel And listen to her as she tells you how she feels. 3 years is a long time But, she Still may be in love with you. The Only way to know is to ask her. Not in a text or on the phone but in person.Good Luck. I Know this is so hard but you deserve to know. You deserve to be with a woman who loves you. Hopefully, she is the One.
• United States
28 Dec 11
You never know unless you try, so go up to her, say "hi", and ask her out for tea, or coffee, or a date, or something... Just ask her out. What have you got to lose? The worst thing she says is "no", but at least you can't say that you didn't try.
@xien2xien (1383)
• Philippines
28 Dec 11
i think it is worth to try for. so, you wont have any regret. And i think, maybe she also thought that she was not important at all at that time when you left because you hadn't contact her that was why the reason she did the same thing. I think if your relationship with her before was mutual, you'd better talk to her and clear all the issues. i think fate intervenes between you and her to continue the romance before. i wish you good luck.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
So far I have never experience the same situation. Only thing I can think of for you to do is go and talk to her. Try to ask her first why they suddenly left for a long time and how was she and her family. If she seems angry at you, try to know what's the reason. Coz I'm also thinking she might have a bit of hate on you since you disappeared for a month without even telling her about it maybe... Or at least if you have sent her a letter you might also know that she;ll leave the town with her parents. If you learned that she still loves you then I guess it's just right to relive and start the relationship you have with her before.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Try to set up a time wherein you and her can talk. If you think that is not easy to do, then wait for the moment that she will pass by. Just get the right timing. I see nothing wrong if you do it. Have trust to yourself. Do everything you can do if you want to bring back the past. If not, accept whatever it will be here decision and move on with your life.
• India
27 Dec 11
relationship which everyone wants to discuss these days i do not know why? anyway, as you are still missing her and afer almost 3 year she is here in front of you again be patient do not show over excitement in front of her, just starts with anormal discussion and do not discuss about her relationship allow her to responds first,if she initiates and may be in three year she has changed herself alot so try to accept her in her general nature. be patient one in a while she thinks about past too. cheers
@laydee (12813)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
You just need to try your luck and approach her. But don't approach her as if you are in a relationship with her, instead be her friend and ask about how she is doing. Better know now if she's already in a relationship than pursue someone who's already taken. Remember that things happen for a reason and all we could do is regret if we don't do anything when the right time comes. Have a great MyLot experience and a Happy Holiday!