how is it guys don't care?

United States
January 6, 2012 9:14am CST
How come guys can go from one girl to another with out caring. The show no emotion and just go on like they don't hurt any one. I don't get it they swear up and down they love you just to act like nothing ever happened at the end! why? I don't get it! what do guys think? why do they do this?
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@chillpill90 (1937)
6 Jan 12
As people before have commented not all guys are like that. I think it is just the guys you happen to have gone for if your going from experience. Most guys as girls are aware are after one thing and say what they think girls want to hear in order to get this, they will swear on anything etc and sleep around. Its these guys who give guys as a whole a bad name. I would say im not a normal guy, i tell people what guys are after and try and help them to avoid getting hurt. I am 25 in a 3 year relationship and would do anything for my partner. Some guys are emotional I think it depends on their past experiences I can be emotional at times talking about certain things due to my past. Guys who go from one girl to another have no respect for girls as if they did they would not treat girls like that, most guys think that they can get away with it and see it as fun and thats wrong cos your playig with peoples feelings. I think that when guys get to a certain age they start to learn from their past and realise they cant keep messing around, saying that some realise this and then settle down with the first girl who is interested in them, so look out for leaches like this.
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• United States
6 Jan 12
I think i was being harsh. I know what has happened is my fault for being to nice. I should not try to help every one who comes my way. thanks i need to be reminded of how people are for better or worse.
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• United States
15 May 12
No man should use you in any way. Feeling of others should always be taken into consideration. Because you are "too nice" is not a reason to mistreat or to use a person. A real man like the one above will treat a woman how she should be treated. I would like to consider myself one of those "real" men. I wish you the best in your search for a real man.
• United States
17 May 12
Yeah well hopefully have met a "real" man. we shall see.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
6 Jan 12
Hi Miss... You seem to have generalised things done by a few.. Ask me about devotion.. I devoted my life to a girl.. I gave her all she wanted and what did I get. She ditched me after draining out every penny of my hard work.. I fell in love again and I still love her... I am so devoted to her... But we were oceans apart and she could not wait for me... I lost her tooo.... I have been true and am proud of it... You can't blame every guy miss... There are some good guys too... Take care...
• United States
6 Jan 12
I wish i could find a good guy but apparently that won't happen for me. I am at the point were i believe i am the modern day calypso. I wish i could but i think the fates have something else in mind.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
6 Jan 12
Don't worry, you'll find a good guy too.. Keep your eyes open for a true fellow... Such people generally forget to care abouy their looks.. They are simple and their tastes are simple too... When they attempt to impress someone, they fail, stupidly... Look out for such guys. Good Looks spoil the boys... When they realize that they have options, they are prone to become bad guys... All this comes from experience to me. I'm 29, quite too young, to speak with such autnority, but studying human nature has been my passion. The results I proclaim are from such studies... Good Luck!
• United States
6 Jan 12
thanks to be honest i normally go for "smart guys" some one i can talk to about anything some one who is opened minded. but i don't know what i was thinking with the last guy...
• United States
15 May 12
Some guys try to forget the last relationship to avoid continued conflict which could overflow into the new relationship. Some men "real men" have the balls to try to repair the relationship before it goes to far astray and if they cannot they at least try to remain friends. At least this is how I feel about it. If you feel like you love some one and it all goes south it is a big hit to the emotional psyche of a person and most men can't take it. But I am not trying to justify this act in the slightest. Men should be monogamous, faithful, loyal, and devoted to the one they love. If they truly love them then this shall prevail. I found someone and I won't let anything stop me from showing here that there are still some good men out there. We do exist....I am living proof of that. :D
• United States
17 May 12
I hope you mean what you say for her. But i have grown a little from when i wrote this and know now that i need to work on some things. I am not perfect, but i have fond some one good and i need to remind my self that he is trying hard to be there for me. That not all guys are bad and cheaters. Thank you.
@vandana7 (56610)
• India
6 Jan 12
Not all guys are like that. It is necessary to differentiate. Some may be trying for a stop gap arrangement. Others may be looking for serious commitment. You got to look at the whole picture. You would know. :)
• United States
6 Jan 12
thanks some how you always find a way to make me smile and see things in a better light i thank you. i'm so glad we get to talk. thank you so very much.