My Pals ignore me

Nairobi, Kenya
January 8, 2012 7:02am CST
I have responded to over 200 discussions today alone...but nobody responds to mine...please if you know why let me know...I feel so frustrated...may be I should quit my lot...its no longer fun.
5 responses
@Olleenz (3400)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 12
It might: 1. your friends not active in that day 2. Your topic discussion not catch your friends interest attention 3. Your topic discussion too heavy 4. You don't have a lot friends here 5. You said you already post over 200 discussions but your points (number right on your name) tell differently. It mean your posts sometimes violate guidelines and mylot members don't like it. They tend to avoid your discussions. Is that clear enough for you .... ?
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• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jan 12
Thanks a million Olleenz...you've made my day...you've come to my help in a record time.
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@kundanraj (660)
• India
9 Jan 12
Hey how it can be possible? You have just 74 agianst your name which mean you have posted ( discussion plus response) totaling to 74 but you are telling that you alone posted 200 responses. If you would have done 200 response today then the number must be around there. Are you telling lie. But why? Did you copy paste those discussion which may be deleted. had you done like it. You violated the content of mylot seeking which you are not having 200+ against your name. It seems that you didn't got response from you friends thats why you tricked to get more response in this discussion and you wrote like this IT quite a good idea to take attenion of other mylotter. As already said you have less freinds or they are not interested in your discussions. If you post discussion that are good and got attention of other mylotter then you will sure going to get many reply even if you have no friends. Since it is not like facbook where one got restrcited too see a post. Each and every post here is visible to all mylotteres and hence they can resposne to any discussions. The only thing to keep in mind is that you get attracted other to meaningfull discussion. If pot had good content and it do not violates mylot guidelines the sure other will come to give you reply. It must have proper content so that all can have a slice to add in it. I hope you will do post quality post and get alots of repsonse from all mylotters.
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jan 12
Hi Kundanraj, I cannot thank you enough for your response....I followed it to the letter and now...I am sure you can see for yourself...I have no reason to complain at all!
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
WOW! you have answered 200 discussions? How did you do that? some of us here in mylot only answered at least 20-40 discussions.. if someone doesn't respond to your discussion maybe there weren't online yet or kinda busy with their own stuffs.. Don't get frustrated.. I have the same problem before but you can't please everybody and we can't force them to answer our discussions as well.. I guess we'll just have to wait for them to respond.. I suggest respond to other discussions too.. you'll learn from it also.. or while waiting do some tasks.. Happy mylotting..
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jan 12
To be frank I was offline the internet for three days because I had a retreat in this hotel I just talked about mapping out the rest of the year. When I got back on air my email address carried over 200 unanswered emails. That was about 12 noon today...and its now 11.30pm. ...I still have 88 emails to go and I have not kept my laptop down for five minutes. I must now catch some sleep..tomorrow is another day...But it will be such a busy day...having been away for a whole three days
@owlwings (38865)
• Cambridge, England
8 Jan 12
You cannot possibly have responded to 200 discussions. You MAY have commented in discussions that number of times (though I can't think that 200 posts in a day will have been of much quality). Your profile, however, shows that you have started 13 discussions and responded to 50 and your user rating suggests activity of the same order. Perhaps your discussions are too specialised, not descriptive enough or just don't interest people here. Most of the discussions you have started have at least one response yet you seem to hardly have commented on any of them. If you post discussions and then never come back to take part in them, people will very quickly not want to respond because they get no feedback from you.
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jan 12
Thanks my friend..your sentiments are really of great value to me...I will treasurer them a lot as I continuing Myloting.
• Indonesia
8 Jan 12
Responded over 200 discussion. Are you drunk ? look at your number behind you nick name. Don;t be frustrated, giving hope to yourself and keep earning. Don;t involve your feeling to make post or discussion, you'll down and hurt....
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jan 12
Thanx pal...I can't have enough words to thank you...by your very response and advice you've reduced my frustrations...now I can continue pounding on my keyboard to meet the number 200
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