Can you feel if someone doesnt like you?

@Timeout (419)
January 11, 2012 5:25am CST
Ok there's this woman that is the grandmother of the kids I am looking after, she comes once in a while and she does not like me, she has not said anything, I just can feel it. And the best part is that she dislikes me for no reason. I wonder why a person should dislike another for no reason. Yes I am a quiet girl and she is very energetic, but I find it stupid. Has it happened to you any time?
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@sumatix (258)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Jan 12
yes timeout it happens.. Have you heard about "AURA" or the "human energy". This is the one by seeing someone we automatically react in a particular way. These are in generally termed as wibes or waves. from some person even if you dont know them positive wibes comes while from some one extremely negative.. The aura is the energy circle which one carries around him. I have also seen persons in my life to whom you smile even if you dont know while some are there whom you dont know then too you hate them..its natural..
@Timeout (419)
11 Jan 12
Yes I find her vibes very negative, but some neighbours like her, and I don't, the cat doesn't like her either.
@megamatt (14327)
• United States
12 Jan 12
There are times where it is almost like there is a chill for certain people. I don't know what I could have done for the person. Some people are strange. Then again, some people would consider me to be strange as well. In fact, there are all sorts of strange people, to the fact, where being strange is the new normal, but I'm getting off on the tangent. I just think there are times where a lot of people just go based off of a first impression that they might have gone off of you or perhaps they have just made of their mind without even bothering to even make a complete opinion formulated. But I guess that is just the way things are go. I'd rather them just not make an attempt to like me, if they obviously are that judgmental. Its just something we have to deal with.
@victorkrish (1522)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 12
I very jovial person and sometime only quiet when in meeting room, haha:). For me, i really cannot feel because i the person who flying here and there and not easily make other upset.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Yes, one telltale sign is when I start to dislike seeing them too. Because their faces are distorted in some way when they are around me. They avoid me and don't talk to me. Fine by me. Usually the feeling is mutual, ain't that convenient? LOL!
@kukueye (1761)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 12
Yes it is the same feeling and opposite how your can feel somebody likes your, however in this case somebody does not like you.Basically these people are means , disrespteful to your when they talk to you.Some even basically avoid your which is the best , however those who sabotage and pass bad gosips and rumours is the worst time of people who hate you.
@yanzalong (10174)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
Of course it's easy to know someone who doesn't like me. The way she or he behaves usually reflects the truth. But I never care about it. I still treat him or her as a friend and when we meet in the street, I always greet him or her. My religion teaches me that if someone hates me, I have to treat him the opposite--like him or her. In the long run, he will change, I am sure.
@sjvg1976 (18407)
• Delhi, India
12 Jan 12
Hello timeout, It happens with every body sometime people just don't like you for no reasons.I remember one of my friend's mother did not like me reason i don't know why but still i wonder why she disliked me may be i used to keep his son in play more and gave lesser time to study.
• China
12 Jan 12
Yes. When someone does not have favorable impression on me, even if he or she does not say it or hide their feeling or even pretend to like contact with me, I will feel something is wrong and our communication is like an acting, and that would make me feel very disgust.
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
11 Jan 12
Hi timeout, yes that has happened to me many times in my life..but its simplly because they don't know me...But the thing about that situtation is that when I know that I have not mistreated anyone in anyway, it dosen't matter how they feel about me...ESPECIALLY when they don't know me. My life is too important to worry about how others think about me...As long as I try to live right and respect others I just keep it rolling.. After all we can't be everything to everybody and people will be people... Live your life and let other live theirs weather its liking you or not.....
@spasoo (121)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 12
Hi... yes,it happen to me as well. Even now I also can feel that my friend dislike me.She did not talk to me almost one year. she dislike you for mo reason and sometimes I smile and her and she just perfunctory you.
@wongchoiyee (7417)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 12
Yes when I was in high school, most of the students in the classroom did not like me, I can tell when they did not talk to me and stare me with unpleasant eye. It feels down everytime they did that and they made me depressed over the years. But now I had recover with medication. I was diagnosed with depression plus a bit of schizophrenia.
• Southend-On-Sea, England
11 Jan 12
I think sometimes we just don't, on an instictive level, feel a rapport with some other people and like this woman is behaving towards you, maybe some people misinterpret lack of rapport as something to dislike. As for you being quiet, I personally feel that to be a good quality in a person as the world these days is far too loud, and the worst noises made in it are by noisy people. I have had people take an instant dislike to me, albeit not many (as far as I'm aware), but there is one person who does spring to mind who just didn't like me at all, for whatever reason. Just as well I felt the same towards her!
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I can identify too when I feel that someone doesn't like me. Because if he or she likes me, he would make friends with me. If a person doesn't likes me, I would not mind it. It is not my problem because this is me.
@cupkitties (7461)
• United States
11 Jan 12
Yep. An ex' s brother who believed he knew just everything there was to know about me. That I was just the biggest b1tch in the world. He'd never even spoke to me except one time and that was to insult me. Things changed one day however when he just happened to end up hanging out with me because he was with a friend of a friend so he actually got to find out the real me rather than whatever my ex was telling to him. He apologized for wrongly judging me and being rude. He also ended up having a crush on me, but we just remained friends.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Yes sometimes when someone doesn't talk to us. We may feel that the person doesn't like us. Especially if we are a quiet type of person. Sometimes we just feel it but maybe you can try to talk to her sometime.
• India
11 Jan 12
Hmmm it happens timeout.. It happended a lot to me in my college undergraduate days.. The guys in my class were not rude to me, but I could just tell that they dint like me either. I was from a very reputed school in my city and they werent and hence my english was pretty good.. They probably held that agianst me that I spoke in English more than the regional language and hence really was hated , albeit discreetly, for no fault of mine.. 4 yeas went by , but I really could not connect with any of them becasue of thier preconceived grudges .. But i got into one of the best B schools in the country for my MBA and made some really good friends there and had an awesome time last 2 years
@sumanadep (1230)
• India
11 Jan 12
Yes .. it has happen to me as well.. sometimes people just don't like someone .. but there is always a reason to it.. it may not be because of you but it could be what they think about you... I believe the best way to tackle this is to speak to the person and know why they behave that way...
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hello mylotter friend, in your situation that the woman do not like you for no reason. Actually, there is one of many reasons she dislikes you. You are a quiet girl and old woman don't like that. She only waits you to talk to her with formal approach. When a person becomes old their ways to feel others is very sensitive and wants to be appreciated the way they are. I have tried that before and just like you I am a quiet guy.