i miss to share with my best friends

January 12, 2012 9:18am CST
i have some best friends. we've been together as best friends since in the senior high school. we still keep in touch although we had moved to other town. if there is a long holiday we always make such a rendezvous. we talk, share, laugh and everything. even we do our hobby together like watching movie, shopping and cooking.but now all of us have married. it seems that we are so busy with our new life.on weekend we are busy to spend our days with our husband or our family. i know that the condition is different now. i realize that i haven't met some of them for a long time. i just keep contact through a cell phone and facebook. i miss my time with them. i wish we had a free time to do something together again, but it seems a little bit hard to do. so, mylotters, how do you keep in touch with your best friend? what will you do if you miss them?
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5 responses
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
yes, like that.. how much your best friend? where do you live now?? and where is your best friend live?/ my best friend in senior high school (in my opinion) had changed when he had married..and i dont think i must make bother him again with an useless question, like how are you and so on..he is richer now and he had a good career in his office... i had been offended in his wife, but i dont want to clarify,..i just let it my heart but since that, i dont want to communicate again with him because iam hurt because of his wife statement
13 Jan 12
i have five best friends. they are all females. i live in madiun and some of my friends live in surabaya and malang. it's not too far actually if i want to visit them. but they are also busy people. i think that they are more success than me, richer than me but that won't bother us. my friends are very humble person. how many best friend do you have adhyz?
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 12
i dont know how many best friend that i had.. before graduation, i think i only had 1 best friend..he is my school mate from senior high school and university.. but after his wife comment, i dont think he and me is still best friend.. he did not save my number, and so do i.. i never ask his condition and so do he... and we never add each other in our facebook.. but after that, i try to search any people to be my best friend
13 Jan 12
well it seems that your relationship with your friend has broken up. the point is still make a good thing. yes you are right that you can meet new people and making friends from people around the world. maybe through this site is only one way....
• United States
12 Jan 12
I left high school early due to an accident so I wasn't there at the end (yes I still graduated) so I did not have a lot of contact with people. I moved to Miami and I got back into contact with my friend Lolo and we talk every day online. I do not get to see her as much but we know everything going on in our lives practically..She only lives 2 hours away. She comes down here to go to Miami Heat games and we go together. I need to make an effort and drive up there to see her..
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 12
do you always contact with your old friend by online?/is it enough when you miss your old friend??
13 Jan 12
hi flirtykumquat, how nice is your relationship. at least you try to keep in touch with your friends. i think when the condition is a bit hard to make a gathering with friends, internet will be fine to use to get along with our old friends. i did also adhyz.... but still deep inside my heart i 'll miss the time to meet them
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 12
yes i think someday you must make reunion with them nonik
@myzhian (586)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
My best friend in senior high is working in Dubai, we only see each other when she comes home for a vacation. we often chat at face book out of our busy days! It is really missing someone whom you good memories shared.
16 Jan 12
hi myzhian. it's good for you that you still keep in touch with your friend although you are separated with a distance. i think that it's better than nothing...
@myzhian (586)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
I treasure my friends just like they do to me! I treat and love them as my real family!....Good for you also that you have nice friends like mine!
@jeslin (147)
12 Jan 12
I understand how you feel. For me, i would do this, at least once a year, we set a date, to all meet up together to spend some time and share our stories for the past year. Usually we have a sleepover in some hotel apartment for a few days and do fun things together, reliving the younger days when everything was so fun. You should try it too. =)
13 Jan 12
hi jeslin...^_^ what a nice idea! i never think about it. i think that my friends seem very busy with their work, but maybe i'll ask them to arrange it. have you ever done this thing?
14 Jan 12
hi eunice_speaks.... have a good time with them. tell me the story if you did it... ^_^
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
13 Jan 12
This year is my final year of high school and I'm worried that my friendships with my school mates will fade away. My group of friends are pretty close but even when we try to go out and hang together, only half of the group would show up or none would show up at all. My friends are very unreliable. I'm worried that after high school is over, I will no longer have my connections with my friends and we might not hang with each other anymore. It's so nice that you do everything with your friends from cooking to talking, how sweet is that. I'm amazed that you guys still stuck together even after school. I hope I'll be able to keep a connection with my school mates. I'm going to really miss them once this year is over and my major exams are over.
13 Jan 12
hi triple0 first i wanna say good luck for your study. i also felt like that before. i feel worried that my friend will change adn everything will not be same anymore. but thanks God it never happened. the key is keep contact. i and my friend still send a message each other. when they have holiday then we arrange a gathering. so... do not worry. as long as you still care with them, then i believe they will care with you also.