What is one thing you learned from your lastrelationship?

India
January 14, 2012 2:31am CST
Mine is not to put in 100% effort when your partner is putting zero. Also, f**k cheaters!
9 responses
• United States
14 Jan 12
I learned a lot from my last relationship but the thing I really took from it, is how I will never be naive again. I won't ever just accept to be treated less then I deserve.
@angelako (280)
• Italy
14 Jan 12
I learn a lot from my past relationship,i learn that its not that the person loves you that much it means it will stay forever.People feeling change.Maybe now he loves you so much but when time past this feeling might gone.So when you inter into relationship,see to it that the person you married is committed to you.Committment is the most important in a relationship because this the foundation of successful marriage.If a person knows he is already committed to someon even there are many trial and temptation he will learn how to avoid them all.
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
hello there.it seems that you were betrayed. I'm sorry to hear that. i was also betrayed once in one of my previous relationships. it really hurts but life must go on. there are more fishes in the sea. explore life my friend.
@Jhovarie (1168)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
i learn how to become patient and i learn how woman thinking now i know how to adjust my self if i have any problem with my gf we just talk about our problem so that it will not be continue as a problem. now i know that me as a man i must understand what woman's feeling and thinking because their feelings and thinking are far different with man.
@Annrose21 (161)
14 Jan 12
I have several relationships in the past and each one of them, I learned so much valuable things. Like not putting yourself into someone's pedestal. Move on and do not look back to what was ended. Get things into straight and be patient enough to wait for another chance of gaining your trust and try to love again. And if that time will come that you were ready again, know the person better and come to think about consider things about him that you will regret in the future. Do not go into a passing grade type of a guy, go to a guy where your qualifications suited and always consider to value yourself more than him.
@seemared (771)
14 Jan 12
I have 2 current relationships and no ex'es and I never learned anything bad but to love and enjoy life and face obstacles with a smile..
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
I think it is the same as yours. My girlfriend cheated on me once with his first boyfriend. She broke up with me even though I was really trying hard in the relationship. But she came back to me because the other guy had a girlfriend already. I guess I learned also to take care of myself more, and to be forgiving. We are doing well now, despite the incident. I think the incident thought me that you should not expect relationships to last. You just hope day by day it gets stronger and live it one day at a time.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
14 Jan 12
i learn not to trust people easily and to learn to love yourself. we should not let people degrade or abuse us..if that is the case in a relationship better to end it..
@jeslin (147)
14 Jan 12
Well i learned to be more patient, and tolerate people more, but in another way, to never, ever believe in love again. =) Not going to be in a relationship for a long long time. haha