She Gives Me Best Answer but Didn't Reply My Response?

Indonesia
January 15, 2012 8:28pm CST
It's freak I think when I got award as Best Response in discussion but the the dscussion owner didn't give any comment back to the responder. Yeah, today I just check to my profile if I had some discussion which I didn't response back yet for discussions or check my response if someone give comment above -I'm really lazy to check my email right now, so I didn't receive any mylot notification.I often receive Best Response after for several discussion, of course I got it after discuss more and more, I mean we had answer-question or really discuss to find the solution and really got the point. So, how could people given me title as The Best Response if she didn't comment above my response for at least asking me "Why?", "How could?", "then how to...." or may be just "thank you...blaaa...blaa...blaa....". In fact this discussion got 6 responses which was not answered by the discussion owner. Anyone have the same experience? What do you feel? Do I have response my own discussion just for saying Thank you for The Best Response to discussion owner? Why? *Note : She may not newbie, because the number of her response is more than 250!
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15 responses
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
16 Jan 12
red" A person who has posted only 250+ can be considered as a newbie. She may not be aware that she will earn only if she responds. It is good your response was selected as the best response. I do thank people when they select my response as the best response. Many members do not thank when their response is selected as best response.
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
well..is it wrong if someone forgot to say thanks to the people who give them best response?? it`s small problem so don`t take seriously about it
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
16 Jan 12
adhyz: I am not taking it seriously. I was narrating my experience and posting my response. I have posted 3800+ responses. I have received best response for 69 responses or so. So I do not consider it difficult to thank people who select my response as the best response.
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
i see..thats mylot make interesting..in your culture, thanks is a polite sign from us to people who give kindness..but in another culture, thanks is not really important.. so mylot is really colourful i think
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Hi redvakaurvaki, Yes I have been awarded 'best response' too and some of them didn't reply to my comment on their discussion. 'Though I have seen the person comment on other except mine but I was still chosen the best out of the other myLotter who responded on the discussion. Sometimes if I see it on email I would go and thank the person under my comment even if the person didn't even left a message. Sometimes I just it be there. There is no need for anyone to explain why s/he gave you that 'award'. It's automatic! The person liked your answer or thinks that you have helper him/her because of the idea that you gave on the comment.
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
but I would be agree with dupremo ( comment below ) if giving BR without response is strange and in my case sheh even didn't reply any single response. so I really doubt if she really reads all the comment or may be just want to give BR because she thinks she has no time and had enough responder -worst possibilities! I appreciate that BR but that make me confuse. she should comments back because we are here to discuss and share
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Dupremo said Best response without comment isn’t strange, giving best response means creator appreciates the response as useful. They sure have read it. So you have to just be thankful and move on. There is no need for anyone here to give all praises to people who have been given a best response. It is understood that she likes your response or found your response useful to her out of other people who gave their response. Yes we are here to discuss and share and you should understand too that she is just a newbie who may not be having plenty of time to come here often. She at least had the time to read and give a best response. Only one person I questioned about this giving of best response. She is a newbie too. And I questioned her because right after I gave my comment, in a few minutes I saw she marked it the best response without even waiting for other people to share their thoughts about her discussion. Usually you should mark it a best response after a week at least. There were only 3 people that time who sent an answer and the next day there are some other people who are still commenting. SO I sent her a PM telling her she should at least wait for others comment before awarding a best response on someone, and then I thanked her.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 12
sorry, that's missread.... but my response is already in the air, so, the only thing I should do is PM her and say thank you?
@Olleenz (3400)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
At least he/she read your post, No one can give BR without reading it first Don't worry, you not the only one who had experience like this. I have some of them. You know what, I believe one or two of my BR give by accident. I come back to discussion where I get BR and I see someone else provide better answer than me but the owner still give BR to me.
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• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
that's the problem. someone should read response carefully, then response back, let discussion work and don't to be hurry about BEst Response.your experience is very funny and once again remind us to be not hurry in giving BR, but however, you still deserve for that BR actually, I'm still waiting if only she reply my response. may be she understand if she read this discussion
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
@ollenz : i think mylot give us special rights as owner of discussion for giving the best respond..it like the decision from referee when referee give pinalty or not
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@Olleenz (3400)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
Yeah, they should read carefully. What can I said, they really not good referee There is another funny story from my BR accident. I already mention that my respond based on another post in same discussion (at that time I only post for money reason). But owner give BR to me rather than my reference post. WTH their thinking .... I already admit that my post just complementary but they give me BR
@megamatt (14327)
• United States
16 Jan 12
Well that might seem strange, but that is not uncommon. Then again, it is up to the poster whether or not they respond to people. Granted, it is likely something that they should do and something that I'd admit I've been lax about given my last couple of discussions, but I'm not feeling those discussions. Perhaps someday I'll play catch up to say the very least. Still no one is obligated to rather respond to responses. Then again, I would rather think that they would have read all of the responses for choosing the best. At least that is what I would rather assume that they would do it. Then again, some people who choose to choose a best response just give the first decent length response, a "best response" and call it a day. So who really knows to say the very least.
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@Hatley (164486)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jan 12
hi megamatt I hate it when nobody comm ents back on nmy responsers as it says to me and probably to others I the maker did not read or like your response so goodbye farewell. this is laziness on part of the discussion maker if he or she had not got time to commenbt back on the responses then do not make the discussions. we also do not have to respond but we did now its the makers turn to be courteous and comment back on our responses. I thinkits suggest you rcomment back on all in the g uidelines. to me amnd some others its damned rude not to acknowledge and give input on our respoonses. so you might have to do this in sevedral days so go ahead and do it. for one thing you make zero money on our responses so if you don't comment back you miss a golden opportunity to make good earnings.
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
@ megamat : may be uncommon and we can find many another strange thing here. I try to understand if only she's newbie and may be someday she has similar experience and feel this way. and obviously she can decide which one is more important : giving response first or giving best response without appreciate to comment back. but I really appreciate the BR from her, I hope she gives me because she really attend to my response @ hatley : I hate that kind of laziness in mylot. I must confess that I'm not in mood in replying response everyday but at least I always remember to response back after days because that's what we really have to do and this is the value of mylot. you are right, hatley, the have miss the golden opportunitu to make good earnings here!
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
I did a quick check of the rules and regulations of this site and have found nothing that says that we have to reply to a post if we are going to award it as best response. I guess she understood your argument/opinion clearly so no further clarifications are needed and as a sign of Thank You, she gave you the honor of having the Best Response. Some things don't need to be said. Don't make it such a big deal my dear. :)
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
thank you for remind about TOS and it's fine if you think that way and I don't make it such a big deal, it's just not worthy to get BR without replying your BR so why or how could you give that BR to her?? Mylot is place to discuss, right?
@r3jcorp (1384)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
I think I had done something like this in the past and maybe the person you are referring too experienced the same. Usually, I browse the replies on my discussion before I answered it and then rated one as the best answer. Then suddenly, phone calls interrupted me and I have to be prompted to work again or maybe I have to pick up some documents at the other offices. Then, when I came back to mylot the browser was off and I forgot the last discussion that I read. And sometimes, I would be back at mylot on the next day forgotting everything. But everytime, I rate as the best answer, it is because that everything that I would want to hear and say is in his/her response. You see, mylot is the only social networking site which I could access in the office during office hours and there are lots of interruptions.
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• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
well, I understand your reason, but as we know that this is our place to discuss anything... so that the most important thing is our communication to have fun and fnd the way out. when something interrupt you, you don't have to be hurry. you can reply tomorrow, the next days or anytime you are not busy. for me replying discussion is much more important than giving best response.or at least after giving best response you come back after days and give lately response.it's not a matter for me,but n this case, my response is about two weeks ago and I see no response from her, just best response, other on that discussion also didn't get response...
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
maybe she want to be kind to you..and thats her sign that she want to be friend with you.. btw, my prediction is right..your favourite team was lost.. of course it will make all team were happy except Milan of course
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• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
but she did wrong just by giving me best response but forget to response back my discussion... my team was lost, they just out of lucky. right from the start Milan is dominating the game, but Inter is very lucky. but actually, my team just want the race to be much more interisting. my team don't want to be the winner too soon. my team want to be the winner in the end Roma match is suspended, what happen? I hear that the game was stop when the score is 1-1
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@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
actually she didn`t understand the spirit of Mylot mylot is designed for the placing for discussion..how come you can give the best responds if you never discuss each other..it`s really weird..but she is newbie even like you said, her post reach more than 250.. yes, the game between catania versus roma is suspended because bad weather and the score is 1-1... but iam still happy because there are something club can stop milan..
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• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
that's what I mean and the reason why I said that she's freak to give me best response.... just what I said, Inter is lucky. based on statistic my team have 67% ball possesion! it means that Roma vs Catania will do re-match?
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• United States
16 Jan 12
Sh is still new and she does not have to respond to give you that. I think you should just be happy and move on. I gave best response before and did not respond back. It will not hurt anyone. Take care.
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@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
16 Jan 12
well gifts, your post told it like it is...I guess the 25255 posts surely gives you an insight the normal person like me may not be aware of... Nothing like getting right to the point and telling it like it is... LOL Enjoy your night!!!!!
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• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
so, this is something normal for you? I'm happy for the best response but actually I confuse why she gave me best response while she didn't response me back and this make me don't know if my response useful for her or not..
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
16 Jan 12
GSB: How are you? How is Adrian, KK. Hope you are keeping yourself busy with your selling work. In your case it is ok to not reply all responses because you initiate large number of discussions. I think a person who initiates a discussion should reply unless he feels it is not worth replying.
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@SIMPLYD (82837)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
I always experience that my friend. And today somebody gave me that, yet she/he didn't give any comment on my response. But i saw others' boxes as commented by him/her. Anyway, i left her a Thank you for the BR!
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
16 Jan 12
SIMPLYD : How are you? You are in Phil. good. I also send a thanks note in the discussion itself adding one or two points.
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@SIMPLYD (82837)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Hey rav. How are you? Why, was that you who gave me the BR? I really can't remember because i had received a lot already.
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
may be I would say thank you for BR too for her after days, and check if only she reply my discussion
@Hatley (164486)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jan 12
redvakaujrvaki hi I hatley hate it when I get no comment at all on my response, I do not want a thanks I want a comment showing me the poster read my response and shares his or her input on what I said. to begin with this is common courtesy to comment back even if you do not have a lot of time you can start out and do what you can commenting back, then come back another day and finish it. if you do not want your discussion discussed why make one as the object of a discussion is to further it by all our input and your the posters in put. I try my very best to always comment back on all responses input, it is common sense and also the only way you make any real earnings on your discussions.it is fun when we all go back and forth on a discussion as we get to know more about each other and we all have some fun , it becomes enjoyable as well as making some earnings.
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
that's what I think about! that's the value of mylot. after response a discussion we should get response back and not only BR. I even not sure if she has read all the comment since she really doesn't reply any single response. may be another response in that discussion is better than mine or containing complete information. she didn't ask why or how could about discussion further.I don't know if she might not enjoy the spirit of mylot and how funny to be here and discuss anything together while having extra earning.I try to appreciate this but of course I also hope she response back...
@arjunm (439)
• India
16 Jan 12
It is the sign of positivist. she is very low speaking girl. she does not likes to expend more words to anyone. it is her habitual thing. you call be nature.
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• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
but remember, we are here to discuss and share. I find many people here who says that they are speakless in reality but can say anything in mylot, that's the reason why they were here. so, she have no reason to not response back...
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
I am not surre if I've experienced this before. Most of the time, I don't open the discussion again. I guess I have to open it again and thank the owner. Maybe the reason why she doesn't answer your comment is that she has been blown away by your response. She has nothing more to say. She's speechless.
• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
No...no...no.. I'm not made such as poetry in reply her discussion and I think all the response had make great comment for her, but get nothing, she didn't give any response to anyone. what do you mean you don't open the discussion again?? you response and go? don't care with what happen futher with discussion? don't you turn on your notification so you can response back each time someone give comment above your response?
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
No, I do comment back if somebody responded my post. What I meant is that I don't open the thread again if somebody gave me the BR. I like long conversation. It makes me feel that the owner is interested on chatting with me.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 12
hmmmm.... that's good, I like long conversation too. long converstation indicates that we had make very good two way communication here. It's like we had done the good job...
@annavi23 (6306)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Hello redvakaurvaki! well, let's just say that this kind of person maybe one of those who just start discussions which she didn't want to comment back. it's just a bonus that she picked best respopnse but then, it's her loss if she wanted to earn here, she have to post more and more. and yeah, it's hard to be too much affected there cause you might cause heart attack if you always take this things seriously. there are really people like that. just start new ones or worst, start dozens of discussions at the same day then never even comment on response they get. there are really people like that in here. well, there can be others who don't have much time to accomodate all responses and are too busy with offline so they only took first few to comment on and leave the others for the next days to comment back again. anyways, don't think too much for that cause you might have heart attack... take it smoothly... ^_^
• Indonesia
9 Feb 12
I think I've forget her and my response too. It's quite long time and now I'm having fun again. you're right, many people with different character here. they may have good attitude to response and comment, but several just response or started then leave.I understand them enough and how hard we discuss, it may never changed them.may be sometimes I will tell them, but may be I'll leave them.we do so much fun here...
@francesca5 (1344)
17 Jan 12
that's happened to me once or twice too. my theory is that you have given the person that started the discussion the answer they wanted, but that it may be quite an emotional issue for them, and therefore they are giving you best response to say they agree with you at a deep emotional level, but at another emotional level they can't respond to you. its a very big compliment, and don't worry about the lack of response, its just humans being human.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 12
but, in fact she didn't give any response or comment to all the response ( 6 responder ) and for me it's freak since this is my first experience. she should reply even it just short explanation to make me know if she already got the way out or not...
@shaggin (37596)
• United States
17 Jan 12
I think you should just be pleased and excited that you got a best response. I find it very nice when I get one. It makes me feel really good. I dont respond back to all the people who leave comments on my discussions. I try but sometimes I just dont have much to say and mylot doesnt want us to simply write a short reply like thank you they want us to only write quality discussions and responses. Anyway congrats on your best response :)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
I'm very appreciate for BR, but the value of mylot is to discuss and made two way communication so response back is very important. I always try to response back to all mylotter who comment on my discussion even it takes time and mood to write. I think it will disappoint someone if miss time to reply them even it just short sentence -but of course not only say thank you-. you really have to reply all the response you get, you dont have to reply all in time, but you can divide your concentration. It's great to have discussion with 30-50 response and we can response back to all the comment and we really had make a discussion running... anyway I never had about 40 responses but I will be glad to response back if I get them..