Do your lover treat you well?

January 15, 2012 8:50pm CST
If he or she suffers from some troubles such as criticized by his or her leader,will he or she transfer his anger to you? Or if you are a girl, and you make some mistakes, will he comfort you or blame you?
9 responses
@eynj_17 (33)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
to be honest...no...we haven't been talking lately...because of the age gap that we have...were 8 years apart but i do love him for real... ^_^
18 Jan 12
can i ask you question??? is lack of sleep causes hot tempered???
• United States
25 Jan 12
my lover treat me great shes the best person i ever find. I love her if she gets anger with me we talk it out we never fight
@meozard22 (872)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
lovers should comfort each other, not blame each other.
@SIMPLYD (86525)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
My husband is hot tempered, but i learned how to tame him for that. I would say to him "Hey, you are high blood again!", if his pitch seems high. And he would smile. The other night,just as i was about sleep, he teased me. I get irked by his joke because i am already sleeping and yet disturbing me. So, i answered him angrily and he said "hey, you are high blood again!". I really burst into laughter when he imitated my one liner to him. Thus, we ended up laughing and tickling each other.
@franne32 (695)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
My husband treats me with love and respect, and whenever he's stressed out from work he would ask me my opinion on certain problems but he wouldn't vent his anger towards me. I comfort him when he needs me and he does the same for me. It's a give and take situation between us.
@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Right now, I can say that my boyfriend treats me very very well. I am contented right now with our relationship and how he is as a boyfriend. Well there are some things which I need him to do more, but its okay if he won't, because I will still love him the same regardless..
@Annrose21 (161)
16 Jan 12
Hi yinsailian! Did you have some truoble with your lover? Well for me, if your lover love you truly, then he or she will treat you well. He will not transfer his anger to you, in the first place, you were not the cause of her anger, no blaming or screaming. Same in you, when you needed some comfort and advice, if your lover really loves you, then no matter how far the distance or how busy he was, he will make himself available for you to comfort and calm you out. But anyway, if that lover of yours did not bother to gave time for you or hurt you in any ways, then he was not in love with you. For love comes with understanding and caring, that's what it's all about.
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
i think you right friend. i will transfer my angry to my girl friend or my family. because no anyone can be a place to my angry. but i think she will comfort me not blame me. because she love me true..
@alicia812 (648)
• Australia
16 Jan 12
Hi yinsailian. I am lucky to be married to a man who is not hot-tempered. If he's got problems at work, he won't turn his anger or frustrations on me. He is well-controlled when it comes to issues like that. If I make mistakes, he corrects me and explains his view about the issue. It is not a good thing to turn one's anger and temper to his/her partner. That is not fair at all. Welcome to Mylot.