Finding old friends on facebook

@Porcospino (31366)
Denmark
January 16, 2012 7:54am CST
Do you use facebook to find old friends? Did you meet some of them again after you got in touch on facebook? I just found 5 old friends on facebook: One of my former neighbours, a friend from nursing school, a friend from high school, a friend from elementary school and an old penfriend (who became an offline friend when we met) It is a lot of fun to talk to again them. We don't live in same area of the country, and I don't know if we are going to meet in person, but it is fun to talk to them online.
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18 responses
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
I never intend to find old friends through facebook, but luckily I found one, my long lost grade school friend whom I lost contact with for almost 10 years. Indeed social networking sites can be used as one of the tools in finding long lost family and friends.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
22 Jan 12
That is true, social networking sites can be a way to find family members as well as friends. A few days ago I got in touch with two of my friends from elementary school. We used to meet in one of our homes and play with dolls, so that was many, many years ago It is very nice to get in touch with them again, today my friends have their own children.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
I used to do that when there is still Friendster. With facebook, most of them are now on my list so there is no need for me in finding. 'Though there were still a lot of the old freinds and classmates that I still haven';t find on Facebook. I quit searching. The one that I notice enjoying it much is my mom. Now, she used to talk about our old neighbors and her batchmates. She says she can't believe she will still be able to connect with them again coz she hasn't seen there for a long time.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Jan 12
I remember Friendster, I used to be a member of that site. I think that it was one of the first sites that I joined. There are also some old friends and classmates that I haven't been able to find. Some of them have a very common lastname and it is hard to find the right person, because I get so many matches when I search their names. It is great to hear that your mom is enjoying it. I think that my mom would enjoy social networking sites, too, but she doesn't use computers much.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Jan 12
That could be a good way to find a friend if it is hard to find him or her through the normal seach. I think that some of the my old classmates still keep in touch so if I find one, it might be possible to find some of the other old classmates that way. The women are the hardest to find because some of them changed their lastnames when they got married, and I don't know their new names.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Yeah that's true - It's hard to find women. Not only did they changed their last names, sometimes they also used their kids name on facebook instead of their own names. And you won't see their own photos too as they would be putting up usually their babies picture as profile photo.
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@youless (112108)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Jan 12
It is not so easy for me to find my old friends from Facebook. Since Facebook is blocked in my country. I have to use a software so that I can access to it. However, not many of my friends know how to do it. But I did find few of my friends who went abroad. However, it seems that they are not so active in Facebook. I left a message to one friend but I haven't heard from her reply yet. I love China
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
19 Jan 12
I know that it is possible to use sites that are blocked, but I not sure exactly how you do it. It must be more complicated for you to use Facebook since you can't use it the "normal" way. What about other sites like Myspace or Orkut, are they blocked, too?
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@youless (112108)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Jan 12
I use a software to access to the blocked website. It is a little complicated to set it but it is cool to use it anyway. I haven't visited Myspace or Orkut for a long time since I am not interested in them.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
19 Jan 12
It is good that you have found a solution and you are able to use Facebook anyway. I visited MySpace yesterday, I think that was the first time in about 4 years. I don't use the site much either, but I did in the past.
@hdc4free (260)
• United States
16 Jan 12
Facebook has been an awesome way for me to reconnect with people. I found lots of friends I hadn't talked to in 10 years or longer because there was no such thing as Facebook when we moved apart! I even got a job by reconnecting with an old friend on there, so I think it's great! :) It's very nice to have the internet to keep in touch with old friends.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Jan 12
Yes, the internet has made it much easier to keep in touch with old friends. We have possibilities today that we didn't have in the past and I think that is great. Sometimes we find even more than friends like in your case where you got a job through an old friend Some of my old friends and I haven't talked for a very long time, and it is exciting to hear from them again and talk to them again.
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
At first i don't know anything about facebook. My friend just told me. So i tried to join, before, i has maybe 6 friends, but now i have some 500 friends. Whom i really know, Because i noticed that some people who use facebook just add anyone. And yeah, I've searched my old friends, some relatives, some ex-boyfriends, LOL. facebook helps me to get intouch with my long lost friends, but sadly, my high school friends were not the same anymore. They've met other friends. But it's ok. Life's like that, it's great to hear from them.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
19 Jan 12
I also joined Facebook because of a friend. She was a member and she asked me if I wanted to join, too so that we could chat and share things. I didn't really know the site, but I decided to sign up anyway. In the beginning I didn't use the site much, but recently I started adding some of my old friends. It is fun to get in touch with people that I knew in the past. Some of them I haven't seen for a very long time.
@arjunm (439)
• India
17 Jan 12
yes of course ... Facebook really help me to get my old friend.. many of my school friend are just not in touch for last 4 or 5 years .. but after crating a account in facebook we all meet each other.. thanks to facebook..
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
19 Jan 12
I also got in touch with some my old school friends. Some of them I haven't seen since elementary school so that was a long time ago. Some days ago I wrote to a girl who used to be my neighbour and friend. We used to play together when we were children, but when we both moved away from the area where we used to live we lost touch. Now we got in touch again, and that is very nice.
• Nigeria
18 Jan 12
yeah, facebook is actually a good way to find a friend and i must confess, it really really helps
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Jan 12
Yes! I have found a lot of old friends . . . even down to those I knew in kindergarten! Old school friends, old college friends, old co-coworkers, family members . . . you can literally find people in an instant - that is, if they are on Facebook. I have met up with a few of them . . . but the rest, eh, we just catch up and kind of leave it at that and they are faces/names on Facebook (which is fine too of course). It's easier for me to keep in touch with everyone online as I don't have time to go out or chat on the phone (or travel) - so Facebook has been great for this sort of reunion!
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Jan 12
I think it is great that we are able to talk to old friends online. I know that I am not going to meet all of my old friends in person. We are busy with work, they live in different parts of the country etc, so it wouldn't be possible to meet, but that is okay, it is nice to talk online and hear what they have been doing since our last meeting. One of the oldest friends that I found is a friend from elementary school, it is fun to talk to her again. Today we are both married and a lot of things happened since the time that we went to school together.
• United States
16 Jan 12
That's neat! I'm glad you found them! I found my old neighbors on Facebook. It's funny to see them grow up, especially since they kind of grew up for the worst. Most of them aren't in college and drink a lot. But hey, I remember when we were young kids in middle school!
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Jan 12
Yes, it is funny to see people that we used to know. I found one of my old friends on Facebook and through her I found the profiles of her brothers. They are in their late 20's today, and when I first met them they were about 6 years old! It is interesting to see how they look today and it sounds like they were been quite successful.
• Indonesia
16 Jan 12
Yes i also experienced what you feel, some time ago i discovered my old friend through facebook. Very enjoable and memorable. However i must thank to facebook
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Jan 12
It is a great feeling to get in touch with an old friend again and I am happy to hear that you have also experienced that. Some of my old friends are hard to find because they changed their names when they got married, but am I happy that I have been able to find some of them. The oldest friend that I have found is a friend from elementary school. We used to play with dolls together, so that was many years ago
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
Facebook can be consider as one of the easiest way to communicate and updated with each other and find friends or people as well.I do used Facebook to find friends that I look for and wanted to be updated and communicate with.It really helps a lot in so many ways as long as we use it in responsibly and with respect.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Jan 12
Yes, Facebook can be useful in many ways. I am very happy that I have gotten the chance to talk to some of my old friends that way. It is interesting to hear what they have been doing since last time we met, and I might even get the chance to meet some of them again one day. It is not possible at the moment because we don't live in the same part of the country, but maybe one day
@jeslin (147)
16 Jan 12
I found loads of friends on fb. I have been moving around a lot. So my friends as you know, come and go. My mum used to nag at me to get off facebook everyday as i enjoy my time chatting with my friends. Now guess what, my mum is the one talking about what she and her friends chatted on facebook the other day and stuff. Haha. So in a way, although facebook might be time consuming and everything, it just depends on how you arrange your time. =) happy mylotting.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Jan 12
I guess your mother suddenly discovered the pleasure of online interaction with friends. Chatting with friends can be fun. Yesterday I chatted a lot of with the old friends that I have found again. It is was very nice to hear from them again. I have been a Facebook member for a long time, but in the beginning I didn't use the site much, I only started looking for my old friends a few weeks ago.
• India
16 Jan 12
Yeah i became frends from my old school. we used to be best frends in 2nd standard. he changed a lot. thanks fb!
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Jan 12
I am also trying to find some of my old friends at the moment. I found one of my old friends from elementary school, but I hope to find a few more friends in the future.
• Vietnam
16 Jan 12
Precisely! Facebook is a great way to meet many your old friends, even many new friends. Our life become more interesting thanks to Facebook. The feeling of meeting one friend that you haven't keep in touch for a while is very exciting. Especially, Facebook is the great way to invite your friends to your wedding if you don't know their phone number.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
16 Jan 12
Yes, it is very exciting to hear what our old friends are doing now and what happened in their lives since we last met. Sometimes it is a bit of a challenge to find the old friends because someone of them have gotten married and have changed their names since the time that we met, but I am happy that I managed to find some of them. I have also found new friends through Facebook and that it is very nice because I really like meeting new people.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
You right my friend even if we can't talk to them in person the good thing was we can chat with them and regard with them how's their life and everything
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• India
18 Jan 12
Really one of the best question i read on mylot. Facebook is really a friend searching god to me coz i found many school friends with whom i had not contacted since very long time but i found them on facebook and let me tell you one of the best thing because of which i made facebook my god, I found my old lover with whom i had lost connection from very long time from school days but now we are again together and now am going to marry her. Thanks to facebook for giving me back my old lost love. I love you facebook may you live long and successful.
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@myzhian (584)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Thank you to Facebook for letting as find and be connected with our old friends again, It's helping us to trace and be reunited with long time friends and relatives as well. This is the great advantage of social networking and technology today!
@Craydz (65)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Facebook really gives us an advantage in life. In make us updated and connected to people whom we know and met our long lost friend. It happens to me also. Thanks to social networks it makes us connected.
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