helping/concern or destroying

@leinrix (489)
Philippines
January 16, 2012 10:44pm CST
last week my cousin and a family friend went to our house to borrow something ( both boys) from my father's tools because they said they need it to fix something on their work i am all alone at the house so i always prefer to have close doors and windows (just for protection because we are along the highway and bad guys were everywhere) so i open the door and tell them to look for it because i dont know where it is and they just said the borrowed it before after a day my aunts grandma and other relatives went to out house scolding me and accusing me hiding someone in our house they said that my cousin saw someone a guy in the house and never let them in to check and to think that i even tell them to come with me inside and look for that tools they are looking for i get angry because of what i heard are they really concern about me or they just try to make some stories to destroy me do you think i should let them check and allow them to check all part of the room even my personal bedroom
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3 responses
@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
i wonder why some people would do things like that? telling lies and for what? you did let them in the house and if they are concerned about you, i think they should hear your side of the story also.
@leinrix (489)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
its good that my aunt believed me coz that cousin of mine and his wife has already made a bad impression to our grandma and they want to to erase that and make me bad to all my relatives just like i have said because we are living peacefully
• Belgium
17 Jan 12
Im always staying save. We have a camera at our door so we can always see who is at our door.
@beamer88 (4267)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
It sounds like you were framed or something or they're really just making up stories. Do you have a rift or quarrel with your relatives? Well, you have the option not to allow them to check your house. It's your property so unless they have legal grounds to do it, they can't do anything about it. My concern however if the cousin and his friend who supposedly borrowed some tools might have placed something in your house so your relatives can accuse you of hiding it.