Do you ever regret posting a discussion you made here?
By enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
Philippines
January 17, 2012 6:56am CST
Yes I did regret one or two discussions I’ve posted here. Written on the spur of the moment. Out of impulse. I was just hurt maybe. And to release my emotion I wrote it here as a discussion, maybe to get opinions from others too.
Well, days after posting it I realized I don’t hate the person – I never will. I love her as one of my good friend. And that whatever that person made me feel, is just because I was just being so sensitive and childish maybe
. Even if we didn’t have any conversation even after that I just let it pass. I just think that she’s busy with her stuff.
If only I could delete that discussion I will. Unfortunately there is no option to delete past discussion here. Unless it violated myLot guidelines. So now I should think before I post any discussion here. Maybe twice, thrice or a maybe a hundred times.
So is there any discussions you posted but regret posting it in the end? What is it about?
. Even if we didn’t have any conversation even after that I just let it pass. I just think that she’s busy with her stuff.
If only I could delete that discussion I will. Unfortunately there is no option to delete past discussion here. Unless it violated myLot guidelines. So now I should think before I post any discussion here. Maybe twice, thrice or a maybe a hundred times.
So is there any discussions you posted but regret posting it in the end? What is it about?6 people like this
48 responses
@johmenize (1)
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17 Jan 12
i didn't regret here, I am just a new member. I am just confused how will I start posting here. I do not have much information about this site.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi johmenize,
Welcome to myLot!
I would advise you to read this http://www.mylot.com/o/faq.aspx
and this http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx
This links will help you to know more about myLot. I'm pretty sure you will love it here. I am here for 4 months and I'm loving the community and the earnings I made here
I would advise you to read this http://www.mylot.com/o/faq.aspx
and this http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx
This links will help you to know more about myLot. I'm pretty sure you will love it here. I am here for 4 months and I'm loving the community and the earnings I made here2 people like this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Of course I love you mira
Yeah johm is really cute and funny. Make myLot your home, we'll be here to make your myLot experience fun and exciting! (^-^)
Yeah johm is really cute and funny. Make myLot your home, we'll be here to make your myLot experience fun and exciting! (^-^)2 people like this
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
This one made me look at all the discussion i made .
But so far,i didn't have any.
But en,maybe its just okay to sometimes feel that way,at least you know you have done something not so good.You will then be more careful the next time.Sometimes,if you don't make mistake,you will never know if all of the things you did was right or wrong.
Let's say its a reminder so you won't forget to think as many as possible before doing somethings.
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But so far,i didn't have any.
But en,maybe its just okay to sometimes feel that way,at least you know you have done something not so good.You will then be more careful the next time.Sometimes,if you don't make mistake,you will never know if all of the things you did was right or wrong.
Let's say its a reminder so you won't forget to think as many as possible before doing somethings.2 people like this
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Jan 12
hi tamirs and enelym on the other hand your discussion may actually have helped someone else who had a falling out with a dear friend from reading some of the responses. so maybe all is not lost at
all.If we post something that even helps three or four people maybe we did not do so bad after all. and we all do make mistakes so rest easier about it.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi tamirs
Well at least I got you to work and dig up your discussions
Good to know that you, like many others, have no regrets in every post you made here.
Yeah it was something I really regret. I just thought what if this friend of mine learned about myLot and eventually came to know that I was a myLotter too. I know what she would feel if she read those and it will only point to her. That she was the one I was describing there Well if only I could delete that, I really shouldn't do it. The good thing is that we still talk after months of her and I without any communication. So I suddenly felt guilty about that post I made.
Well at least I got you to work and dig up your discussions
Good to know that you, like many others, have no regrets in every post you made here.
Yeah it was something I really regret. I just thought what if this friend of mine learned about myLot and eventually came to know that I was a myLotter too. I know what she would feel if she read those and it will only point to her. That she was the one I was describing there Well if only I could delete that, I really shouldn't do it. The good thing is that we still talk after months of her and I without any communication. So I suddenly felt guilty about that post I made.@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
You are right Hatley,actually,i have a friend who joined mylot month ago.She read my discussion about her "posting her anger on FB and bothering her husband's other woman". She was so offended yet thankful about all our responses.She even commented on the discussion.I thought she got mad at me but after that,she called me and told me she isn't mad at what i did,and thankful that she learned that she really made a mistake.
I invited her to join mylot actually so she can read all the responses
.But i am not sorry i did.
Sometimes there are good points and sometimes bad,but the point is you learned and someone learned out of it.
.But i am not sorry i did.
Sometimes there are good points and sometimes bad,but the point is you learned and someone learned out of it.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
17 Jan 12
No. so far i have not posted any discussion which I later on regretted. Of course two of my discussions were deleted because they were not in conformity with guideline.
One thing is correct. We do not have the option for deleting our postings. Hence we should post after thinking twice.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Jan 12
hi again enelym actually there is a way as I once made a discussion without editing and I was so embarrassed as it was just full
of typos and I felt it would not earn much as it w3as not
quality so I did hit the exclamation point and reported the discussion I had just posted before anyone could respond and
lose money. I told the reason and mylot did delete and notified
me liket this"deleted your discussion per your request. so if
the admins thinks you have a good point they will delete it. buit in your case with you getting a lot of responses the admins might
have felt it would cost too many people their earnings so they wo uld leave it.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Hi Hatley,
Yes there were people who have posted their responses and there were exchange of opinions too. Well I thought I will just leave that now and hopefully not to post something impulsively.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi ravisivan,
Good to know that most of the people here have no regrets in everything they posted It was just me who have a little regret hahah! Now, I feel a bit shy about it
So far I have one of my discussion deleted too. Those were something that I didn't want to be deleted but it was deleted because there were too many people who posted the same thing. It was the problem myLot has during those times and everyone's in a panic mood (^-^)
Good to know that most of the people here have no regrets in everything they posted It was just me who have a little regret hahah! Now, I feel a bit shy about it
So far I have one of my discussion deleted too. Those were something that I didn't want to be deleted but it was deleted because there were too many people who posted the same thing. It was the problem myLot has during those times and everyone's in a panic mood (^-^)
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
At last there is one person here who regret posting one discussion. But well that is not something a personal topic. It was because of a violation It's okay Olleenz, everyone made some mistake sometimes.
It's okay Olleenz, everyone made some mistake sometimes.@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Yeah you better not attempt to do that again. But hey, I think it's okay as long as you're putting it on your words right? So if that is pretty interesting then I'm gonna wait for that discussion from you
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
17 Jan 12
I do not regret making a discussion but how I made it here. Like you said, it was mostly impulsive, and my actions were misunderstood.
I'm obviously speaking of the discussion I made of my Bi-Polar symptoms. I put up a part of Wiki here, not claiming to own any content. I highlighted what I found important. But some doofuses didn't like it.
But who cares?
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi boyuancy,
Good for you there is no feelings of regrets made from your discussions. I think I remember your post but I am trying to search it from your discussions I couldn't find it anymore. Anyway no need to dig up the past. I didn't post my comment on that but I know who's the person you were referring too. We just have to be patient on some people.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Oh okay so that's the reason I couldn't find it. 
Yeah well we just have to adjust with some people. And hopefully you won't encounter them again in your discussions.
Yeah well we just have to adjust with some people. And hopefully you won't encounter them again in your discussions.
@BoboMama (319)
• India
17 Jan 12
I never regret about anything i post here , i'm pretty straightforward and not keen on deleting stuff that what i felt as inappropriate
But there was this certain stuff i requested the admins to delete - well the sentences got mixed up and down and i was in a hurry to go to school and never checked the post
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
That's nice to know that you have not regret anything you post here but mine was something that I regret because it's about a good friend. That's what I felt on that day only and I have realized it after a while that I shouldn't post it there.
So was your discussion deleted by the admin? For me, I think I wouldn't request for it to be deleted anymore as there will be other responders who might get affected with it. And I don't think my reason to delete it won't be accepted.
but mine was something that I regret because it's about a good friend. That's what I felt on that day only and I have realized it after a while that I shouldn't post it there.
So was your discussion deleted by the admin? For me, I think I wouldn't request for it to be deleted anymore as there will be other responders who might get affected with it. And I don't think my reason to delete it won't be accepted.1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
I really should I thought she wasn't my friend anymore. So I made a post out of hurt maybe Well it's good if it wasn't seen yet. If it was commented already I felt responsible that people might get angry for me for starting a discussion that will be deleted later.
I thought she wasn't my friend anymore. So I made a post out of hurt maybe Well it's good if it wasn't seen yet. If it was commented already I felt responsible that people might get angry for me for starting a discussion that will be deleted later.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Jan 12
Hi!
I normally do not start any discussion on impulse.
I give a careful thought before starting a discussion.
I do not regret or have regretted about starting any dismal on any topic.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Jan 12
Hope now you will be more careful in starting a new post.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi deepak,
Good to know that you don't do things I have did in the past. I guess I should start to be like you - and most of the myLotters who have already gave their personal experience on this. I should be more careful while starting a discussion and never write on impulse.
I guess I should start to be like you - and most of the myLotters who have already gave their personal experience on this. I should be more careful while starting a discussion and never write on impulse.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 12
HI sis!!
Hmm..Let me check my discussions first.I just have a few of them-29 discussions only and all with so-so or unimportant topics but I think I don't have any regrets on it. Is it because they are not important, I don't really know~ I just think it is fine as it all about myself. That is why I haven't start any new discussions now, it's has been quiet a while. I don't want to feel regret, even if I haven't feel so yet. I will think more htan twice to post or not to post and at last I just say comment to others first, my things put aside or left behind.. When I read other people problems I will come to think that mine are not that tough or difficult than what others have and it will cancel my plan to post the new discussions. I don't know will when I will come out with the new one..(^^)
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi sis
I think it's really better to talk about one's self most of the time here, Or about simple topics that are not too personal and won't include hurtful issues. At least we won't really feel much of a regret later on. Well, I post seldom lately too. Today I just want to end up this thoughts and guilty feeling that I have been keeping for months already through this post.
I think it's really better to talk about one's self most of the time here, Or about simple topics that are not too personal and won't include hurtful issues. At least we won't really feel much of a regret later on. Well, I post seldom lately too. Today I just want to end up this thoughts and guilty feeling that I have been keeping for months already through this post.1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
That's great and something that I should also try to learn The problem with me sometimes is eventually when I get comments - it is through my responses from those comments that I may actually reveal more details.
The problem with me sometimes is eventually when I get comments - it is through my responses from those comments that I may actually reveal more details.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
17 Jan 12
So far I have no such experience of regretting for posting any discussion or any response I have made.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
You being here for a year already. It's great that you have no discussions and even responses made that you regret posting.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
17 Jan 12
Hello enelym001,
Yes it happens with everybody as no one is perfect in this world.It happened with me too as i started one of the discussion over here for which i thought i should not and just reported it to the admin to delete and i think admin found the reason valid to delete it and the discussion was deleted next day.
And literally from that day i just think twice or thrice before starting a discussion.
Yes it happens with everybody as no one is perfect in this world.It happened with me too as i started one of the discussion over here for which i thought i should not and just reported it to the admin to delete and i think admin found the reason valid to delete it and the discussion was deleted next day.
And literally from that day i just think twice or thrice before starting a discussion.@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi there sjvg
I agree with you no one's perfect so we might commit a mistake any time of the day. We are human too and we feel a little emotional at something sometimes. Well, good for you my friend that you have immediately reported the discussion you made and it was deleted as well.
@sids, chocos
what's it gonna do with that?
I agree with you no one's perfect so we might commit a mistake any time of the day. We are human too and we feel a little emotional at something sometimes. Well, good for you my friend that you have immediately reported the discussion you made and it was deleted as well.
@sids, chocos what's it gonna do with that?1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi varier,
Wow at least you can control your self not to share those things. Sometimes I don't. But lately I was trying to control myself not sharing something. But when I was really new here - I share everything because I thought I wouldn't last long here at myLot. I thought no one will ever be close to me here and treat me as friend.
Well at least there is something you also did regret here I have a few which only have 1-4 responses
I have a few which only have 1-4 responses1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Well we really should! I am actually thankful to that one person who commented on my very first post here. At least there is one person who is kind enough to response on my first post
Well yeah sometimes if it's not under the right interest - it won't get a comment. If it's not in the right time too - while everyone's busy on holidays well expect it to get few responses too. We should also write something that will interest every myLotters That way we won't have regrets of posting a discussion.
Well yeah sometimes if it's not under the right interest - it won't get a comment. If it's not in the right time too - while everyone's busy on holidays well expect it to get few responses too. We should also write something that will interest every myLotters That way we won't have regrets of posting a discussion.
@li123456li (101)
• China
17 Jan 12
No,I have no post that I regreted with temporarily.perhaps I will meet some things as what you've posted here in the future.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi li,
Good to know that you didn't regret anything you posted here too. Well, I do hope you won't do that in the future
Well, I do hope you won't do that in the future
@Kalebtheman (530)
• India
17 Jan 12
No i dont regret any posts i made.because every post i made was helpful for me.really.! (love fail etc) And everythin is a blessing here,vry post
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi Kalebtheman,
Yeah I see your discussions are normally getting opinions and help - so every responses you get out of your discussions will really be helpful. That is great!
@angelako (280)
• Italy
17 Jan 12
I dont ever regret yet posting some discussion here.ITs so impormative here maybe in your situation you regret because it about someone else.Yes its really regretable because it seems too personal.when it takes about our feeling,i think its not good to share here also specially when its about other person
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Hi angelako,
You are right, it's really about someone else and what I felt with that person. Actually I found myLot a place where we can get a lot of information and share our feelings too - whether it's an annoying experience, happiness or sadness. In my first two months here I usually post too personal discussions about myself and my friends. Well, I am now trying to just chill and enjoy the discussions here.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Hi smurfy,
Yes myLot has been evey myLotters place to burst out our emotions because sometimes we have no one to tell these things. Keeping it to ourselves only won't be too good as well. So most of us here try to vent it out by simply typing the words here and asked for good advises. Well, the good thing about that is there were many ideas, insights, opinions that are truly helpful. People usually hit the spot and made us really think that they are right and this is something we should think about and do.
@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Many people really wants to rant most of their problems in here. And I guess, this has proven that this site is somewhat a place where they can burst out and say their problems towards a person..or their experiences.
It has a good effect since it will really help you in de-stressing yourself. But it should not come to a point that you will gonna regret it in the end.
So, I should say that, we definitely need to think about it before posting not just once but many times.
Have a great day!
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
17 Jan 12
My dear friend...the succinct answer is NO! I can't "unring" a bell!
I truly hope you DO NOT have tooooo many regrets, as realistically those were your TRUE emotions at the time you posted your discussion. It met all guidelines.
Do NOT harbour rue..or regret for being true to yourself! I, of course, am assuming you received NO disparity! So be kind to yourself, turn the page..and move on!1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi Bluedoll,
Yeah no eraser allowed here So I need to just accept that my mistake of writing that will be included in myLot history. Well, if they're gonna delete some discussions here to put more spaces for new discussions I would volunteer that one to be erased
So I need to just accept that my mistake of writing that will be included in myLot history. Well, if they're gonna delete some discussions here to put more spaces for new discussions I would volunteer that one to be erased@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi my dear pergammano
Yes there were only one of it that I truly regret posting The next day itself I feel completely different and regret ever posting such topic. I am gonna make sure not to do that anymore and it is better to think it over first, clear my head before writing it down. So silly of me! But of course yeah my dear I will have to move on now that I have written my regrets on it. I think I have freed myself
Yes there were only one of it that I truly regret posting The next day itself I feel completely different and regret ever posting such topic. I am gonna make sure not to do that anymore and it is better to think it over first, clear my head before writing it down. So silly of me! But of course yeah my dear I will have to move on now that I have written my regrets on it. I think I have freed myself
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Jan 12
Hi godmom
I dont have a brain large enough to think what I did... So no regrets anytime anywhere... I dont hate anyone, dont feel angered with anyone and I love all ... A misery that many a times my dear and near ones think this the other ways and make me feel miserable... but then... as I dont have a big brain... I forget, forgive and move on.
I dont have a brain large enough to think what I did... So no regrets anytime anywhere... I dont hate anyone, dont feel angered with anyone and I love all ... A misery that many a times my dear and near ones think this the other ways and make me feel miserable... but then... as I dont have a big brain... I forget, forgive and move on.1 person likes this
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Jan 12
Being super emotional is great. No doubt about that. I too have posted about one or two comments on discussions bluntly. But then, I cannot play handkerchief for all the tears that people spread here... and I have realized this. Bad you might think, but I always believe - I am here for my enjoyment, your enjoyment and everyone's enjoyment. It is our busy day from where we get time to MyLot and I will not take any crap back with me.
Going with your discussion, well, if this friend was a close one, I would have PMed him/her right after the response saying Sorry and explaining why I typed that. Then... upto him/her to decide. And I agree with that decision. Good for Both.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi godson
From now on I will try to forget, forgive and move on Well I hope so I can do that successfully Me being (a little or super) emotional. It's the reason of putting up this discussion - for me to just put this out of my mind. I just feel a little responsible that I have said some words here that might hurt my friend. 'Though it wasn't rude words - it might hurt her still. I'm glad she wasn;t a myLotter.
From now on I will try to forget, forgive and move on Well I hope so I can do that successfully Me being (a little or super) emotional. It's the reason of putting up this discussion - for me to just put this out of my mind. I just feel a little responsible that I have said some words here that might hurt my friend. 'Though it wasn't rude words - it might hurt her still. I'm glad she wasn;t a myLotter.1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Yes she was a close friend. The good thing is that she don't about it - and do not know about anything. I vented out my emotions here before just so I can get over what I felt from her. But then, I felt guilty too eventually.
Well it's good that you are for everyone's enjoyment. I am here to have fun too. The time I wrote I was new here so most of the things I wrote here were a little personal
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
17 Jan 12
I don't have such discussions. But I think that you shouldn't regret. You needed advice and I'm sure that you've got plenty of responses. Maybe they have helped you to change your mind. Instead of regretting you could post another discussion and describe your feelings now. MyLot is a place for sharing. Happy myLOtting!
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
You are right I should never regret such thing. It was silly of me to even think about it Guilt might have taken over me. And again you are right - I really needed an advice that time and people have been really helpful of me. I have talked about the same thing with my bestfriend and she cleared my doubts too and made me realized that I might be wrong on what I felt for this good friend. So now, I felt the guilt. And yeah this post was made to describe my silliness about that old post I made.
Guilt might have taken over me. And again you are right - I really needed an advice that time and people have been really helpful of me. I have talked about the same thing with my bestfriend and she cleared my doubts too and made me realized that I might be wrong on what I felt for this good friend. So now, I felt the guilt. And yeah this post was made to describe my silliness about that old post I made.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hello friend,
Since I started here a year ago never regret to my posted topics maybe because I'm sure what ideas and in mind to put on. Even no or few responses recieved I never regret it. If my discussion no responses I've learned from that so by next time posted change the ideas and format.. Bottom line all of my discussion were i proud of. see you around
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi visavis,
Great to know that you don't have any discussions you regret posting and that you are proud of every discussions you made. Yeah we actually should accept it and be proud even we have few responses only. We can learn from it and the next time we try to make a good discussion which lots of people can actually relate on.
Yeah we actually should accept it and be proud even we have few responses only. We can learn from it and the next time we try to make a good discussion which lots of people can actually relate on.@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
Blockbuster!
Maybe it caught their attention because they might think or even dig up their post and see whether they also posted something that is regrettable for them. Great that so far most of the people here don't regret any post of them, I've found a few of them only that says they regret one or two of their discussions too. But anyway when all is said (typed!)
and done - we can just take full responsibility of it.
Maybe it caught their attention because they might think or even dig up their post and see whether they also posted something that is regrettable for them. Great that so far most of the people here don't regret any post of them, I've found a few of them only that says they regret one or two of their discussions too. But anyway when all is said (typed!) and done - we can just take full responsibility of it.
@Sum1PassingBy (419)
• Jordan
17 Jan 12
I posted some discussions that didn't get many responses, so I thought they were just silly and thought it would've been better if I haven't posted them in the first place. But later when I think about it, I believe that even if my discussion got one response then that is enough to classify it as a worth-posting discussion.
Have a good time myLotting.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Yeah that is how you should think about it. There is no worthless discussion here even those without any response. It's just that sometimes some people who might have an interest on it wouldn't really notice it at the time you posted it.
@Pushhyarag2000 (1416)
• India
17 Jan 12
Hi ene! This got me thinking for a while if I really had one on here and I took some time to reflect if I did. Not really regretting having made any post as such but I think the one I made regarding about a wrist affliction due to long work on computer sometimes makes me think if I had posted that in a bit of a hurry.
Why are you being so sensitive ene? It's OK. May be you had momentarily felt annoyed. Yes, it is always better to get attention away from the issue that bugs you too much any time, take some deep breaths, get some fresh air and come back with a clean slate! That way one is less likely to pour out something impulsively. Good that you let it pass. No looking back. On with lovely time here! 
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Jan 12
Hi Pushhyarag
I made regarding about a wrist affliction due to long work on computer
And why do you think you did a wrong when you posted that information? I have found that discussion quite useful and has helped me reach you. Okay, I agree, many a times our discussions do not get an expected number of responses but I must say that all the Interactions I have had with you until now have been great. And I also can always say - I look forward to participating on your discussions.
I made regarding about a wrist affliction due to long work on computer
And why do you think you did a wrong when you posted that information? I have found that discussion quite useful and has helped me reach you. Okay, I agree, many a times our discussions do not get an expected number of responses but I must say that all the Interactions I have had with you until now have been great. And I also can always say - I look forward to participating on your discussions.1 person likes this
@Pushhyarag2000 (1416)
• India
17 Jan 12
Hey thesids!, you have a very kind & large heart and your words are very encouraging. 
I too have loved your discussions. The reason I felt I posted it in haste was not so much the response count but because I felt I created an unnecessary scare without in depth assessment.
Thanks both thesids & ene for boosting my spirits!
, you have a very kind & large heart and your words are very encouraging. I too have loved your discussions. The reason I felt I posted it in haste was not so much the response count but because I felt I created an unnecessary scare without in depth assessment.
Thanks both thesids & ene for boosting my spirits!1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Hi Pushhyarag
I agree with sids there, if you regret your discussions because it might have got very less response - it is just fine. As long as you have helped a few people it is worth posting.
Yeah actually I have been thinking about that for the past months that I have posted that Maybe becoz I was so guilty of being judgmental with a friend. I must accept people have different traits - she might be different with me and with our other friends. But well I was the one who got hurt but I then realized it might not be intentional on her part. So I really need to move on, forget about it - this is the intention why I put up this discussion - to tell myself I have to put an end on those guilty thoughts =)
I agree with sids there, if you regret your discussions because it might have got very less response - it is just fine. As long as you have helped a few people it is worth posting.
Yeah actually I have been thinking about that for the past months that I have posted that Maybe becoz I was so guilty of being judgmental with a friend. I must accept people have different traits - she might be different with me and with our other friends. But well I was the one who got hurt but I then realized it might not be intentional on her part. So I really need to move on, forget about it - this is the intention why I put up this discussion - to tell myself I have to put an end on those guilty thoughts =)1 person likes this
