How is it p ossible to love someone and not like him? Puzzled.

@Hatley (164736)
Garden Grove, California
January 24, 2012 7:19pm CST
this was triggered by a comment in another discussion that had nothing to do with this topic. the young woman was talking about treasuring her boyfriend and always loving him but not liking him? I beg her pardon, you love someone you do not like, thats really sending me mixed messages. I liked my husband as he was my best friend but something I disliked something he did. but that was the deed not the person.Maybe this was what the young woman meant? your take mylotters.
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@Mashnn (4503)
25 Jan 12
As for my own experience, I do not think it is possible to love someone when you do not like him. You need to like someone first before you start loving him.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi mashnn thats exactly what I felt. I think she was mixing up something he may have done she disliked with disliking the person himself. I know if I disliked the person I married me being me I would have such a hard time being intimate with that person. I just cannot fathom that at all. I and my husband were best friends before we were lovers and husband and wife. sure I at times did not like something my husband did , but it was what he did I did not like,I liked him just the same as always.I am sure there were times I did something my husband might not have liked. but he never made me feel he disliked me.
@Mashnn (4503)
25 Jan 12
Yes, possible to dislike his behaviors but not him as person.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi mashnn I agree as we often do that to our mates lol
• United States
27 Jan 12
I didn't understand this either at first, but now I think I get it. I always got the sense from my mother that things weren't right--like when we'd get into a big fight, and instead of apologizing, she'd buy me something. After I had my daughter, she'd ask me to drop her off and tell me I didn't need to stay. It niggled my brain for a long time before I came to the realization: she LOVED me unconditionally, but I feel that if we had met at work, she'd have ignored me. It hurt pretty badly at first, but she hadn't received a good example from her mother, my grandmother. And she lost both of her parents by the time she was 11. Now, when my daughter is being a P.I.T.A., I just only need to say, "I'm not liking you very much right now" for her to realize how much I'm hurt by her behavior.
@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jan 12
hi scorpiobabes It does seem like we are sort of conditoned by our pown parents and them by their parents. my mom lost her mom when she was nine so she never had that female guide into clothes and makeup and things female. Her dad, my granddad was a great person but he did not take the place of a mom. I think this young lady in the discussion left out that she had problems with some things her boyfriend must have done, that would explain not liking as in not liking him right then. I managed to break my hubby of the ugly gross habit of blowing his nose with two fingers by telling him that right then I sure did not like him,. He went and got a box of Kleenex and started using it then asked me if I liked him again . I had to laugh,we hugged and I told him I liked him again.We did love unconditionally and thats so freeing as you do not have to starve to lose those five pounds or dye your hair as your hubby likes you the way you really are.
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• United States
29 Jan 12
Now Jim does things without thinking of me, but I know deep down at the end of the day, he means well. Our backgrounds and upbringings were quite different, although our parents were approximately the same age. He's just very set in some of his ways, so when he does something that drives me nuts like not putting his dirty clothes in the basket, I'll just leave them and wash my stuff instead. It took him a year (and having to wear dirty laundry) before he began to grasp what I meant! He needs to change for himself, not me--otherwise, it'll never happen!
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Feb 12
hi scorpiobabes yes thats it he has to do it for himself.I finally realized that with my husband as he did get kleenex and started using them just to please me. but soon was back to his old gross ugly habit.I think our doctor said something to him then and he did quit blowing his nose with two fingers and really did keep on using Kleenex all the time. So I guess he did it for his ownself. anyway I was so glas as thats both gross and unsanitary too.
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@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
30 Jan 12
There have been times during the last year that I've really felt like I love my husband but I don't really like him. The reason that I've made this statement is because of the fact that I love him because he is the father of my children and he makes sure that we have food to eat and a roof over our heads. However, in going through his treatments, he has developed habits that I don't like at all and those habits have changed my overall opinion of him. I guess the right way to say it would be to say that I love my husband but I don't like his habits, but his habits have become a part of him.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Feb 12
hi dorannmwin yes that is it and I think that was what the young 'woman was also saying in her own way. Some habits guys get really can turn you like I said about my husband blowing his nose withtwo fingers, it looked gross,it was gross, and at first he stopped to please me then started again.but I had a hunch he did this in our doctor's office and our doctor let him have it. anyway he did straighten up and fly right using Kleenex all the time. sometimes its just so bad those habits and you love him but wish he would not do certain things.
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@youless (90513)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jan 12
I also find it confusing, too. In my opinion, "love" is the further step after "like". So you shall like someone at first, then probably it will lead to love at last. It is hard to believe that you love someone but you don't like him/her. This is quite weird. I love China
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Jan 12
that was the thing that confused me. She said in her comment' I will treasure him and love him but not like him" did she really mean likke him or dislike what he had done sometimes?? I could not love someone if I did not like him first
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@sid556 (31006)
• United States
26 Jan 12
Hi Hatley, I really don't know. I kind of understand it as in the case of the first responder here. I think we sometimes give family members a little more wiggle-room because we do in fact love them. I have a couple of family members whom I think I probably would not care much for if it weren't for the fact that we were family. Maybe a better example would be that of one of my own daughter's. When she was a teen, she was horrible. She was quite popular because she treated her friends wonderful but her sisters and I...well, that was another story. She was out of control and into things she shouldn't be and making bad choices in her life. I remember clearly sitting there one night in tears and thinking, she is so so lucky that I love her so much. IF she were just some kid that wasn't mine...she would not have been allowed in my house even let alone my life. It was LOVE that caused me to not give up on US or on HER. Not sure if this makes much sense unless you've been through it. Have to add ....My daughter is a close friend of mine now that she is grown and out of that stage. As for a boyfriend...I don't know...that's a different kind of love. I'm wondering if this girl was in an abusive relationship where the "love" was tainted and sick? I was in an abusive marriage and I remember wishing that I didn't love my husband so much because I sure didn't like him a whole lot. It was complicated and took councelling to sort it out but it was more like I was always trying to go back to the time when we really did like and love each other. In romantic love, I feel that there is no question about it...you have to really like the person or it isn't really love...something is seriously wrong in the relationship if you don't like your boyfriend or husband.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Jan 12
hi sid yes in romantic love I think also there's no question you like and you love so I think she is coming to her senses and saying she will treasure his love but not like so I get the idea that there's a whole black segment that she hates to face, you are so right it could be abuse too.I know I was so lucky as we liked and loved each other and he was there always for me, that I h ave missed although I have been widowed now since 1991. my son is like that too 'he acts like a back up if he thinks I have trouble. maybe I depended on my hubby too much b ut it felt good to know if someone gave me trouble I had a husband and son who always backed me up.oh my son saysMom you can do this or that but just the same if he thinks I did not really do it,he just steps in. lol.
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@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Jan 12
Well... I think, the lady is confused about her feelings... It happens at times, you see. One is not sure how one feels and things are so mixed up .. This happens especially when things are outwardly complicated and the results come up with unexpected speed... You can help her by letting her analyze the situation on her own, by guiding her to different points... That way, she will realize whether she is into it or out of it... Thanks dear... Take car.e..
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Jan 12
hi mrpearl yes I think she is totally confused. To me in reading her discussion I felt like several large chunks of her story were left out as though she did no want to admit them even to her self. she called it her sweet little love story about the pendant she wanted and did not think he could afford.He surprised her and she said her joy was marred by wondering how he got the money for it. she implies stuff but does not add it so am just guessing. then they had a fight and he had tears in h is eyes as he told her that he had worked for two weeks running errands to buy that as it meant he loved her so much. so we had all said trust him and treasure his love, she commented that yes she would treasre his love but not like him. okay I am totally confused.
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@saundyl (9690)
• Canada
25 Jan 12
Im not sure what she really would have meant unless she was replacing the word respect for like. I can love or care about someone but i dont have to respect them or their actions. For example certain cousins i totally dont respect or like their actions...their choices and how they treat others in our family...but i still care about them if theyre sad or in trouble...
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi saundyl she sure left me confused. I tried thinking about my own marriage, I have long been widowed.I disliked that my hubby had the very unhygenic habit of blowing his nosw with two fingers,know this is totally gross, and tossing it on the ground.yuck but I may have disliked him for a few moments but not for all time. He got some Kleenex and then blew his nose cleanly and asked me if I now liked him. Of course yes. but I think she meant that her boyfriend in spite of her rosy title my cute sweet little love story did not always do things she liked but as she did not fill this out I do not know if it was some petty thing he did she did not like,or if he actually did some things much more serious as she commented back to us that yes she would treasure him and love him, but not like him. She had given a picture of her and him having a fight and her tossing down the pendant he had surprised her with. He picked it up and with tears in his eyes he told her that hed had worked hard for two weeks to get the money to pay for the pendant.he said it was his memorial of all his love for her. so we all told her to treasure him and love him and trust him. she commented that she would always treasure him and love him but not like him. this confused me. I think she implied a lot she never stated and I got the picture he might not have been a very nice person myself. I am just supposing though.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi saundyl a key word nose and I misspell it!typo nose not nosw.hope people can read my stupid typos.sorry bout that.
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@saundyl (9690)
• Canada
26 Jan 12
Someone blowing their nose like that would ewww me out! I wonder what happened that made her not like him. I had a boyfriend...when i was with him i though i loved him. I've since discovered i was in love with the idea of him...not really him. And I treasure the time we had together...we were good friends. However...I will never be friends with him again nor will i ever trust him again or like him again because of things he said and did when he broke up with me. If he just said that we couldnt see each other anymore due to distance that would have been fine. He decided to be petty.
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@himzey (1321)
• India
25 Jan 12
It might be... afterall, its possible to be unaware of what you actually want. You can ignore and pretend to hate someone on the outside but there might be some different chemistry going on the inside. It happens when you try to show off yourself too much. Trying to blend into something you are not leads to such type of hallucinations..
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@himzey (1321)
• India
25 Jan 12
Or when your head is swollen too much...
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi himzey in telling about her so called sweet story all through I felt ;like something was missing. she told how he surprised her with a beautiful pendant she loved but did not think they could afford. after he gave it to her her pleasure was marred she told us as she wondered how he found the money to buy it,she implied she was afraid he had done something illegal. so she ends u p saying yes she will really treasure him and love him, then adds but not like him so I am going what? how can you really love a person ypu do not like? Did she mean hes a crook or what? puzzled for su re [em
@himzey (1321)
• India
25 Jan 12
I think your friend desperately wants to return the favor but not with money. Instead she thought of something she can afford. Love him but don't like him... looks like you friend is very cunning. Trying to keep her options open.. Portraying herself as an experienced one when it comes to love and relationship but not knowing how foolishly she is acting .. I think its going to be a situation like "how to loose a guy in 10 days..." the only difference being that you your friend isn't doing it for some magazine article. Or your friends definition of love is pretty strange..
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• Jacksonville, Florida
25 Jan 12
I actually say this sometimes, not about my husband though. I say it about my father. Let me explain how I mean it when I say it. I love my father because he is my father but I don't like him as a person. Another words, if he wasn't my father I wouldn't like him at all. I do love him though because he is my father and he took care of me all my life. I just don't like his temper, how he treats people, his lack of patience, his attitude towards new people, how he treats my son and so on... You love the person probably because your supposed to (putting it bluntly) but if you didn't have to you most likely wouldn't be around them often. Now I don't know if that is how the other person meant whatever it was she said but that is how I feel about my father. I hope I explained it at least a little.
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@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
25 Jan 12
I love you Ms.Hatley
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• Jacksonville, Florida
2 Feb 12
Thank you so much Hatley for the best response! =)
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jul 12
hi lovingmyhbabies you are most welcome.
• China
25 Jan 12
What the young woman talked about is a bit self-contradictory.How could she talk about loving him without liking him? Liking someone is a prerequisite for loving he or she.I guess the young woman didn't put her meaning across very well.Perhaps She wanted to say she loves her boyfriend but dislikes his shortcomings.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi changjiamgzhibin 89 Yes that was my thought that she might have been up set with what he has done but I think she just fudged on spelling it out for us. I know I loved my own husband so much but I did not like his complete naiveness when it came to sleazy sales people door to door. I rescued him unknown times from really awful sales but unfortunately was not able to do it all the time. ha ha but I did not dislike him b ecause he trusted 'all people. I grew up around a father who trusted nobody, felt all people were out to get him. that I hated and no I did not l ike him,He was mean, unkind, sour and hated everything.
• China
26 Jan 12
What a fun!Your husband and his father-in-law had completely different nature.One was kind-hearted and trusted everyone; the other trusted nobody. I think your Dad might have suffered untold tribulations ,therefore he acted with caution all the time.Your husband actually had the defects of his qualities.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jul 12
hi chang oh my husband just cou ld not resist door to door salespeople and some of the results were almost funny. the chair thing we bought for our son was su pposed to be a desk later, well the dish for the high chair was guaranteed not to beale to be tossed on the floor. The first time I used it and put warm baby food it zip and it was on the floor in fou r pieces then my son tried to stand up in the contraption and somehting' pulled loose and flung him out on his little bottom. now food all over his face, he was bawling and I was nmuttering a few choice words.the sales man p;icked that time to come for thefinal payment.myhusband brought him in to show him what allwas wrong, and the salesman wrote out a check for us in the amou nt we had paid. he said the product was inferior.lol lol
@celticeagle (117268)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 12
I think you can love some things about a person and dislike others. It is not the norm I would say but has been done. i loved my ex but there were things about him I didn't like. Again, it isn't the norm and I don't think this happens often but it does happen.
@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi celticEagle its early yet but think you deserve a BR as I think what you just said may really cover what she was feeling. oddly its what she left out that made me think he was not always such a great person.for example in her short sweet love story she also admitted that her joy at being given a longed for pendant was also dampened with wondering how he could afford it. she seemed to imply she was afraid he did something illegal to get the money.then she went on to tell that they had a fight. she threw the pendant on the floor in her anger. he picked it up and with tears in his eyes he said" this is my proof of all the love I h ave for you.I worked for two weeks carrying messages to buy this to show how much I treasure my love for you." we all told her to trust him more and love him then she came back "I do treasure him and love him but not like him." so I am confused yet I think you have the real answer.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jul 12
hi celtic a little late but you are most welcome.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
25 Jan 12
Love grows from attraction. Someone fall in love with any person because he or she feels attraction to that person which have no explanation. It is not necessary to like everything of the partner. Love is just a emotion.
@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi bhanusb yes there has to be an a ttracton but love is much much mo0re than just physical there's so much more. I disagree but with great respect as you have also valid opinions too. for one thing I always find you are extremely intelligent in all your posting. but I think you can like a person but not like some of the things he does.yes love and like are both emotions but oh what great emotions do not belittle them. I have been widowed for many years but my love for my deceased husband is always there and it comforts and warms me too.
@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jul 12
hi bhanusb yes first love will stay with us forever even if we love and m arry afterwars. the first will be with us foreverl
@bunnybon7 (35533)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Jan 12
not sure i ever felt that way about a man, but i did feel that way about my mom. maybe its a young imature thing? ive heard lots of people say it about different people
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi bunnybon I am hoping maybe she meant sometimes she does not like some things he does like at times when though I love my husband to'pieces there were the times when I saw himn blow his nose with his fingers,I know its hideous, then I would yell I just do not even like you when you do that. He went in brought out a handful of KLeenex then came to her, now" as he blew his nose with the Kleenex, do you love me again? He was grinning and oh my gosh yes I did love him again. ?So you can like the person you love and hate a disgusing habit he has. may be this is what she meant. I did feel'that way all my life about my dad though. I re spected him but disliked him as a person. he was my dad but I could never again love him . He tore my childhood up when H e molested mw once at age 8 and destroyed that precious trust we have in our parents or should hbave all our lives.She is quite young from the way she talked in her discussion.
@bunnybon7 (35533)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Jan 12
so sorry Hatley. that is probably why your dad did not want you to marry. he must have been jealous. ive heard of this with bad people like that. my mom would have likely done that also, had she been a man. just to hurt me anyway, my dad was a very good man to me. i always knew he loved me and strangely he never molested me like my mom said he would if i went to live with him. he was very good to me.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jul 12
hi bunnybon I am so glad you had a very good man as your dad, as most little girls do so look up to their fathers and I had wanted'to til he destroyed that trust.
@nfrenciz (99)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
HUh? loving someone and not like him? Puzzling statement indeed. If you love someone, liking him/her is included indeed. For loving someone is starting in liking first.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi nfrenciz thats what I always felt , I know my hubby to be was first best friends with me then I fell in love. I think maybe she pulled a hatley, that is she forgot to put in a word or two as'the statement does not make real sense.I am so guilty of going too fast and leaving out a crucial word that must be there to \make sense.
• India
25 Jan 12
This is never possible to love someone without liking him/her. The girl must be in big misunderstanding. Its possible to like someone without loving. There are lots of persons who you like but you don't love. Liking is the basic step before loving someone. One can be a best friend before they become lovers and after they become lovers though there is a bond of best friends as well as best lovers.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
Yogesh you are outlining just how I and my hubby to be did, we first became best friends then lovers, we did love each other at first sight but second sight we were really best friends and thus we were for 33 years, best friends and lovers and married. its so wonderful to know you can tell your mate anything and he will never yell at you as he is your best friend and your husband too.some people do not think you can love sometone and be best friends too but its so true. I think the young woman just left out a word like also friends maybe she meant to so and not just friends or something like that. I cannot even fathom how I would have been able to love and be made lovce to by someone I did not like? no no way, its too intimate todo with anyone but the one you like and love.
@megamatt (14331)
• United States
26 Jan 12
Yeah that is something that puzzled me as well. I think that it is possible not to like the actions that someone did, even if you love the person. That has to be the reason, otherwise the alternative would indicate a rather twisted relationship in many ways. I would think that liking someone would come before loving someone, at least that was my interpretation of what that would mean. Of course, it would seem to have to do with the actions. There are just going to be a lot of times where those we love the most tend to do actions that are going to drive us up a wall. We tend to be rather agitated from their actions but it is not the person, rather the actions of the person that causes the dislike. At least that is the sanest explanation to me as well.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Jan 12
hi megamat that is my interpretaton that she does treasure his love but dislikes something he has done but she just said not like, I thik its his actions, all couples I think occasionally do something to make the other one hate what they did but still like the person who did it.what she left out might have helped me to make better sense of it. she sort of intimated he did not always qct honestly when she worried after he gifted her with a pendant that she wanted but did no think he could afford that he might have done something dishonest to get the money.when in a fight she threw the pendant on the floor he retrieved and with tears in his eyes he told her he had worked two weeks running errands just to buy tha to prove how much he loved her. we told her to trust him. so in her comment she wou ld treasre his lobe but not like him. okay confused.
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
25 Jan 12
Good question! I can't understand or believe you can love someone and not like them! You'd have to like the person before you love them,right? I have been with guys I really didn't like but never loved them! I thought I liked them but once I got to know them I hated them,like their bad habits and other things! So I have no idea what this woman is getting at!
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi blue65packer Yes I am totally confused unless its what she left out but implied is that this boyfriend she loved but also hated what he did, but she never said this. she called it her short sweet love story. He and she had window shopped and she saw a pendant she loved. He surprised here with it as a gift. she said she loved it but her love was marred because she wondered how he managed to get the money to buy it. she implied she was afraid he got the money illegally .then they had a fight and in anger she threw the pendant at him, He picked it up and with tears in his eyes said"this is a monument to my love for you always." we all told her to trust him and to love him and treasure him, she commented bac k" I will treasure him and love him but not like him maybe we gave her wrong advice? but you cannot love someone you dislike in a romantic situation can y o u? confused confused indeed.
@ramonah (213)
• Romania
25 Jan 12
Well to be honest the term is unclear.. And it might have been used wrong. The case is maybe she got to love him but now he changed and she doesn't like him any more, but the old love is not something you can just wipe off. Maybe it was an episode, she didn't like him then just because he did something wrong, but she'll get over it. The love still conquers. Or maybe she really loves the person he is but doesn't really like him physically but that might not count that much for her in her choice. Anything is possible, she knows best what she meant.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi ramonah her discussion seemed to hold something back, just hinted but not explained. she said she had a sweet little love story okay her partner gave her a surprise a pendant that she loved but did not think he could afford. the sweet surprise she said was marred by her fear of where he got the money. she said they had a fight and in her anger she tore off the pendant and threw it on the floor. He picked it up and with tears in his eyes said" this is my memorial to our love, I worked for two weeks running errands to prove to you how much I love you." we all told her to have more faith in him and love him. she commented yes he was to be treasured and loved but not like. this floored me. hope she mean his actions not him as a person.em]shocked[/em]
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
dear Hatley, Yes,I agree with you. It's the deed/action that we dislike and not the person. That is why, no matter how it hurts (sometimes) we still forgive that someone- all because of love. Uhmn, that really sounds odd- how can she love someone and dislike?
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi jaiho in her sweet love story of me she I think left out something that might have explained this, now he gave her a pendant that she had loved but did not think that he could afford. He surprised her with it and she said her joy was marred b ecause she wondered where he got the] money so she goes on we had a big fight and in anger I threw the pendant on the floor. she said he picked it up and with tears in his eyes told her this is proof of all my love. I worked as a go for for two weeks in order to buy you this. It is my monument to my love for you .now she responds to our comments, Yes I will treasure him and always love him but not like. I am still going huh? how can you love someone you dislike? so am still so confused.
@GardenGerty (96787)
• Marion, Kansas
25 Jan 12
She may abstractly treasure or respect some of the things he does, but be very annoyed by some of his habits. This almost sounds like a discussion I was having with a young lady I was working with tonight. She has an ex boyfriend, that she still loves, and a current boyfriend, that she has nothing in common with, and is seeing someone else, and oh, she has an eleven month old baby. Whattttttt!!!!! I kid you not. She will not be seen in public with the current one, because she is "country" and he is "emo or goth", and he likes screaming metal music and she likes country. He likes "comic books" (probably anime) and she likes drag racing and mudding on a four wheeler. I told her to take a vacation from all men for a while until she gets her head straight. I do not think she will take my advice.
@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi gardengerty she had made a point of callin her discussion a sweet love story mine then she tells of how he bouth her a beautfu; pemdant that she had murmured bow much she liked when they were together window shopping then how she had mixed emotions as she let the wondering how he got the money dull her excitement til once they were having an argument and in anger she tossed the pendant on the floor. he told her dont do that with this as this is my token of all the love I have for you I worked during errands for ten days for this. So in ending she tells how she will really treasure his love and will always love blah blah but not like, huh that brought me u p short.so I am not sure she really does love him down in her heart of hearts. shes left something out of the equation indeed.
@thesids (22362)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Jan 12
Dear Ms. Hatley Well, for me too, I cannot think of love happening without liking someone. Maybe the person you mention here feels that Love is the Physical part and Like is the emotional part.
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@Hatley (164736)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jan 12
hi thesids I had not thought of it in that aspect I mean love as the physical part as lots of young people now days do put a lot of credence on the physical part and like the emotional part] but I liked my hubby but detested it when he would not blow his nose with a tissue but used his figures yuck.I think I yelled" I don't like you do that yuck but later I liked him fine again,. so I am not sure.lol.