Inactive Referrals

Philippines
January 30, 2012 11:21pm CST
Hello mylotters! As of now, I have five referrals in mylot. But none of them are active. What shall I do to convince them to participate in mylot?
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22 responses
@momof3kids (1903)
• Singapore
31 Jan 12
I dunno if this is against mylots rules because I havent done it. You can ask them if you want. You can send them your payment proof to tell them that mylot really pays. Or you can ask (nicely) them to respond to a topic that you think they would be interested in. I saw a mylotter do this. I think its a good idea. Do remember to ask nicely, online jobs are meant to be pleasant always.
• Singapore
31 Jan 12
"I dunno if this is against mylots rules because I havent done it. You can ask them if you want" here, 'them' I meant mylots admin.
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
Actually that is my plan. To show them my proof of payment. I hope it will work. It is really hard to convince people. I guess I have to improve more my strategy on convincing people to join mylot and participate in our discussions. Happy mylotting!
• Singapore
3 Feb 12
Oops sorry accidently pressed on 'post comment' to continue.... so to get referrals who has this vision of earning big online will take you to promote and promote until you have a few hundred of people joining your link.
• India
31 Jan 12
the main thing you can do is to try to motivate them time to time. as i too do the same, because motivation is the key to success. and try to clear their long and short doubts as well because who are new here always commits mistake, as i did when i am new if we keep guiding them then they will surely come up with the large and bumping results. at last we have need to keep our patient maintained.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
I guess you're right. I have to agree with you. Can I you to give me some advice how to motivate them? What do you usually say to your referrals to participate in our discussions and be an active part of mylot community? Thanks! Happy mylotting!
• India
3 Feb 12
i came up with the lots of discussion and share it with them so that they will find their area of interest. and by doing that it would me more intresting to participate in the mylot. and then the slogan of mylot would be like "earn and learn".
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
I like your slogan "earn and learn". It shows that mylot is not only about making money but also a good place to learn. I will try your suggestion someday. I hope it will work. Thanks jaiho!
@sjvg1976 (18404)
• Delhi, India
31 Jan 12
Hello Champoy, I have aproximately 20 referrals and none of them is active since they joined MYLOT.I have tried my best to make them active but could not make them active.May be they don't know what they are loosing or may be still they have doubts in their mind about MYLOT.
@utopia96 (641)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 12
alwasy think positive and hard work friend. if my case ,all my friend tell me, not understand english..
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
Wow you have lots of referrals huh? It is really hard to convince them to be active in mylot. I already told them how to make money here. It is quite frustrating. I think they have doubts on this site. Or maybe they think that it is hard to earn here. Happy mylotting!
@fantabulus (4005)
• India
24 Feb 12
I have no single referral so I have no experience about inactive referrals. But I read some discussion here about inactive referrals I dont understand why they join if not interested in work.
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
I guess they became inactive because they are not having fun in mylot. They think it is hard to earn money here. Maybe they have doubts about mylot. They don't realized that this is a great site to learn and earn. It is not hard to earn here. You just have to participate in the discussions and complete some tasks. Happy mylotting
@utopia96 (641)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
thank you for support to me.
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
My pleasure utopia. That's what friends are for. We are here to support each other. Happy mylotting!
@utopia96 (641)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
I have one referral here but not active,I always send a message to be active but he was not interested in online business
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
I have 5 referrals but none of them are active. Some of them signed up here but never participated in any discussion. I guess they are not interested on mylot. They think that it is hard for them to earn money here. I've sent them my payment proof but they didn't give any response. Happy mylotting to you! Just keep on posting so that you will earn more in a day!
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
You can't force your referral participate enough. I think it would be such a blessing if your referral would be the ones who is really interested to work hard enough. I don't have a referrals on myLot but I can still earn enough through myself.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Yes, I agree with you. We can't really force them to be active and participate in our discussions in mylot. It is really hard to find people who are interested to work hard to earn money online. I guess they thought that this not the place for them. Actually, I earned nothing from my referrals. So technically, I earn here on my own. Happy mylotting!
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
it's there loss, really. if they are the lazy types, well, we can't expect them to be patient enough. People will usually work for money they can see. Online earning takes a lot of faith and dedication in order to earn more. Not everyone can think the way we online earners do. So it might be better if you look for people who are already experienced in online earning, intellectual and patient. Look for more referrals.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Thanks Aja for your response. I will try to find more referrals. I hope I could find those people you've described. I think you are right, they are those people who think they can make money easily online. They don't have the courage and dedication to work hard. Happy mylotting!
@Mashnn (4503)
1 Feb 12
Convince them by proves that you are earning something from Mylot. Let them know why it is important to be part of Mylot community.
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
It is really hard to have an active referrals.You really have a great convincing power for them to be active,even though you have a proof of payment that shows mylot really pay and they will really earn here, they are still inactive.They will sign up but later on they will become inactive.Frustrating but I respect their decisions.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Yes, it is really hard to find referrals that have similar interest and passion with us mylotters. I also respect their decisions though. I just want them to know that this is a good place to meet new friends, learn and get informed, and also earn money. I will try to show to them my proof of payment once I receive it. I just hope that it will work. Happy mylotting!
@May2k8 (6870)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 12
it seems we can not get them active, I also have a few but active only shortly they were busy and never again participate in here.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
That's a little bit frustrating but we just have to respect their decisions. I hope one day they will come back and the realize that mylot is the best site in the internet. It is good to be part of this community online. Happy mylotting to you.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 12
I also have a few referrals, there is sometimes active, there are only registers. is difficult, to get active referrals. problems like these, many are experiencing.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
I also experienced that. Most of my referrals only registered here but didn't participate on any discussion. Maybe mylot is not the place for them. It is really hard to find referrals. It is quite difficult to find those people who have similar interest like us. It is great to be part of this online community. I just hope they will realized this someday. Happy mylotting!
@wmaths (536)
• Italy
31 Jan 12
unfortunately you can obbligate them to write here on mylot. perhaps it had been difficult to convince them to join this programme. once they did, it is much more difficult to involve them working here. . . sometimes our friends just want to be polite with us, even if they are not really interested.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Yes, I agree. It is really hard to convince people to join in mylot. You can to tell them all those encouraging words before they can decide to join or not. It is even harder to convince them to participate in our discussions. Sometimes after they make their account here they don't come back. I hope we could find those people who are willing to be part of mylot community. Earning money online needs patience and dedication.
@derek_a (10902)
31 Jan 12
In my experience, this is not easy. I have many referrals and none are active now. Some people sign up to things and then immediately lose interest. I don't know why this is, but it seems to be a fact of life on the Internet today. I have got some a little active now and again by sending them messages etc, but it hasn't lasted. I guess a person is either communicative and likes to write, or does not. I am one of those people who loves to communicate, and most people who are active on here loves to do so also, unfortunately it is difficult to find such referrals. _Derek
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Yes, I guess that is what life in the internet today. Not all people like to write. It is quite disappointing because they loss the opportunity the best way to ear money online and at the same time meet new people and make new friends. I am not also fond of writing but I like to stay in mylot. Not just because of the money that I can earn from here but I enjoy sharing my opinions and gain knowledge from other mylotters.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
31 Jan 12
You can take a donkey to a pool but can you make it drink? No offence. Its very difficult to make people understand.People think its easy to make money online. They are looking for some magic wand to make money. I have tried to convince them but to no avail.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Yes, you are right. They think that they can make money online easily. I guess they don't know that they must have the dedication and determination to achieve their goal. I've tried to tell them how we can earn here. Unfortunately, I failed. I hope my next strategy would work. It really needs good convincing power to convince them to participate in our discussions.
• Chennai, India
31 Jan 12
I too thought why they have gone inactive. I think that's because we have just referred them without any hint. If we can prepare a brief about mylot and then refer them here I think they might have been active. Most people don't have the patience to go through the entire website when they join any site looking for money. That's another reason. I took 2 years to join mylot. Though I had been hearing about mylot for 2 years, I joined only after making myself clear about what I was doing. If everyone does the same, they may be active. (Not the 2 years I meant. I meant about making clear about what one does.)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Actually, every time I receive a notification that somebody is in my referrals, I usually tell them to read first the FAQ and guidelines so that they have an idea how to make money in mylot. I guess they really don't have the patience. Maybe they think that they could earn fast easily.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 12
Hi, You can send message to your referrals and tell them how to make money from myLot. Maybe this will help them understand more about myLot and they might get started to be more active in myLot.
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
I already did that. I told them how to make money on mylot. I shared to them the ways how I earned. My next strategy to show them my proof payment. I hope I can convince them. I'm hoping that it will work. Happy mylotting! Thanks for dropping by!
@chiyosan (30206)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
well i have a few referrals who are inactive too, i think i have not known these people very well myself and now they are not very active themselves. i wish they would just come back to mylot and participate... =( how do we get referrals anyway???
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
I don't have any personal connection on my referrals. I just met them on the internet. I promote my referral links to them. I guess they are expecting that they could earn here very fast. I hope they will also come back and participate on our discussions. Happy mylotting!
@FireHorse (294)
• United States
31 Jan 12
I think that's why the Creator made tasers .... just kidding .... sort of .... I think. Good luck and best wishes anyway!
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
I am a good person.Like an . LOL. I am not forcing them to be active in mylot. I just want to convince them that this is a great place to earn money online, make friends and get information about anything under the sun. Happy mylotting!
@adhyz82 (36263)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 12
well..i had many referal mostly of them is inactive referall but we can`t push them some of my referral want come here because want to improve their english so it`s useless if we give them payment proof i think we can tell them that they get many benefits when they are active here, their english maybe will be better if they are active here
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
Yes, this is a good place to improve our writing skills using English language. Actually, that is one of the reasons why I like this site. I've already told them how to earn money here. I guess it was not enough to convince them to stay active. I will try to make a list of benefits that we could get in joining mylot. Thanks for your suggestion! Happy mylotting!