cool off

Philippines
January 31, 2012 1:00am CST
what will you do when your partner ask for a space or a cool off thing ??
6 responses
@sishy7 (27594)
• Australia
31 Jan 12
Then you give him space. You'll never know, things might actually get better after some cooling off period. If it meant to be, it meant to be.
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
you actually have a point here. That's what my friend needed
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Well, when you say cool off, you're not officially break. But two person can flirt with another person.. When time comes when that he/she realizes he/she loves her/him, they would go into relation again.. When you say of space, you're not officially break. It does not mean you can flirt with other people. She/he would give herself/himself a time to think and have a good time.. This actually happen when one has a problem due to family, life, self etc.. And finally break, well you're finally break..
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Thanks for clarifying it :)) sorry for the mistake.
@kaeirole (669)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
i'll ask for the reason and i'll try to talk about it seriously..then if my partner won't change his mind, then i'll give the space he/she asked..
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
It happened to me, he was confused, we had an issue together with my sister. He ask for cool-off and I let him even if it hurts. A few weeks we are still back in each others arms. Just a few weeks ago I was the one who's asking for break-up, he wouldn't let me. I can't escape him but now we are in back again. Communication is important to work things out before deciding.
@kedves (728)
31 Jan 12
wow need space or time to cool off is your partners way of saying they are not that into you any more and want some time to look around see if anyone better comes around.. so if they say to me .. then i say bye bye and go play mind games with someone else not me !!
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
31 Jan 12
It depends on what kind of cool off or space he wants. I assume in my situation it can only be for a day or so, since we don't live together. If he means for longer it's the end of our relationship. If this is what he wants so be it.