A mylotter is more all caring of you.

@shibham (16977)
India
February 5, 2012 6:47am CST
Hi everyone. In my more than 3 years journey here in mylot, i have met several mylotters from most the corners of the world. A few mylotters are still active from my joining. So mylotters enter and exit and make us disappointed without informing us what's wrong. So sad. In this period, i have met some mylotters who were too more concerned about me or i can say more all caring of me. When i feel it, that certain mylotter disappears, then another comes, i feel the same and again and again and again. Anyway, i wish to know that do you feel a mylotter is more all caring of you? Gender, country, religion all those stuffs are not matters at all. Someone who is so more concerned about you? Please share.
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
5 Feb 12
Hi shibham.. It really feels good when someone care more about us here. Yes I have noticed that from some friends too. And it really feels sad if someone leave after that much attachment. People can get busy with life but I guess they should at least visit here whenever they get free. Few old friends here not that active now (like past) but some of them used to come after long gap just to say hi.. And that's really feel good.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 Feb 12
b'rather kaise ho? (how r u brother) b'rather - dat ish my new istyle
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
5 Feb 12
Ha ha.. Liked it.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Feb 12
hi love it when all my fri ends here show they really care. I am well again after having been ill all of January and part of ]Dec. so am going to be doing more mylotting again.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 Feb 12
Hi mamu Caring people are rare these days and when we find one, we must and certainly do feel great, I have a few friends here at MyLot who are quite close to me and I am so very happy that I have found them. I always mention - I try to get in touch with them beyond mylot but unfortunately things are not that happening from my end. I have been occupied with something or the other and as always, I get lazy in PMing them There are some whom I really miss. And wonder where they are today. I always pray for them and their well being. Oh of course, you are one of those lotters whom I care for and it is good that we are in touch with each other beyond mylot.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
6 Feb 12
The one on my profile here is on Blogspot (earlier - blogger). The new one under construction (ok, development) is on Wordpress (my favorite).
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
6 Feb 12
Okay.. Is it already online!? I would like to see it.
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
5 Feb 12
Hi bro... Seen your blog.. Is it made under bloggers..
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@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
5 Feb 12
Hi, Shibham, I don't have so long experience here and didn't get the chance to start a close friendship. But I see that many myLotters care about each other, search each other and make lively discussions. Unfortunately I cannot log in every day and I have periods of hard work that keeps me away from here. I wish you to keep your friends and have more. Happy mylotting.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi fannitia.. Your number of posts showing that you are not so new here and i do hope you have some more close friends, just need to find out them with proper judgement. Here no one is alone without a caring friend (at least one) even the newbie too (under 200). Hope you will find out him/her easily and very soon. Have a nice time.
• United States
5 Feb 12
Hello MyLotter Shibham, I want to introduce myself. My name is Cyrus and I live in New York. My passion for business drove me to this city. I work as the CEO of a giant textile company that produces clothing for large retailers including Macy's, Sears and Costco. Writing is a hobby for me. But, when I don't get time to write, I assign my wife to the computer. She helps me a lot when it comes to this site. -Regards Cyrus
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi rovered. Thanks for the introduction. hahaha. you are third mylotter sharing the same with wives as i have seen. Do post more. have a nice time.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Hi shibham, Great to know that you have good and caring friends here at myLot. In my few months here I have noticed how you have many caring friends here. Here, gender, religion and other things should be put aside. We all are equal here and deserved to be respected.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi enelym... You are right. We all are equal and we deserve same respects where all those stuffs are not considerable and at least i dont consider. I am sure that you have also some caring friends but you are unable to guess them out. Have a nice time.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
The one I regularly interacted with are those I consider caring, even we are not exchanging PMs or phone numbers - for me having good conversation and them making me laugh all the time here and gives me good advice are whom I consider caring to me here. Some of them are your circle of friends too...
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
And me?
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
5 Feb 12
well i am really too new to comment but i hope to feel the same as you one day after i get to know some of you, and feel that you are all caring and friendly. so far i feel like it's a great place to chat, i've had no problems and don't wish to have any. i have to make some new friends anyways, getting tired of the same old internet friends, most just want to play on facebook now anyways. i'm just not into that stuff.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi there.. Welcome to mylot. Here, most mylotters are really friendly and caring but there are some certain mylotters who take care of another certain mylotter. You should try to increase friendship and later on you will find that mylotter who is really caring to you. Have a nicce time.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Feb 12
Hi shibham, I think those mylotters who cared me still caring me even though I am not regularly participating here, when I am 'in' they are showing the care. The sad part is, many caring people left from the site. But I am lucky to get in touch with them at least once in a while.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
7 Feb 12
Busy with TIGERS? Where from came this big cat?
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Hi sree... I know that most often you are busy with office or tigers. lol. Have a nice time.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
8 Feb 12
Rajib, lol, he is telling about my sons.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Hi Shibham! It's such a great feeling to know that someone cares for us, and you are very lucky that you have found people who cares for you, I think most people here in mylot do care for each other. They give advises, they make us feel that we are cared, they comfort us...I have proven all these in my years of stay here in Mylot. I think Mylot is really a great place to find good friends, there are times that we are not able to communicate with each other here, but it doesn't mean that we already forgot about our friends here, just like with me, even if I am not always here, my Mylot friends will never be forgotten. Actually I miss all of you already!
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Surprise surprise! I told you, I might be away or not responding to discussions, but I am always around looking for my friends here... or rather stalking? lol! She's fine and very happy with her little angel who ill be turning one this Friday. Sunset prepares a party for her baby and of course I will be there!
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Thanks. So sunset junior is about turn to one on coming friday. Oh, i shall miss the party. Post a picture of junior if possible.
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
What a nice surprise. A missing and caring friend to me who were disappeared for a long time and whose name is Mrs. dagatan has come back to caring me and other mylot friends. ooowwwwaaaauuuuu. Hey, what about sunset? and her baby? hope both are doing fine. Anyway, its true that we miss them after creating a good friendship when they disappear and it really gives immense pleasure when they come back like you. Have a nice time.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
7 Feb 12
Hi shibham. I too have completed three years sojourn here on mylot and have above 650 + friends. Of of them only a countable portion are on the act and the rest are like the tortoise; loving to have more breaks than actions and again. Now if I am delete them half of the list would be empty. But I am hopeful that they would come back when spring breezes touch their cheeks. For caring myloter, I can say yes there are some. Who are more concerned about me and my being than others. I do not wish to divulge their names here, after all all are friends.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Feb 12
Hi boss, I have already deleted some friends from my list as i have found that there is no chance of their comeback. Thats why i have refined it and added some new friends. Its hard to expose as well coz some mylotters may find disturbed without having their names. Have a nice time.
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
26 Feb 12
I agree because they don't judge you right away. They say what they want to say based on the given instance not by bias.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Feb 12
Exactly and they are playing a vital role on our cyber world. Without them this world would be monotonous. Have a nice time.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
I think I know what you mean. I miss one lotter who really cared about me when I was having troubles regarding my work. But I haven't seen her for a while and I don't know why she left. I just wish that the reason is that she found a more stable and higher paying job offline. It feels great knowing that some people here really do care about you and your posts. Most of the time, I just want to listen to impartial ideas of people I don't know. Sometimes sharing your thoughts to people in you offline life is not as good because they judge you ~ which hurts sometimes because you actually deal with them face to face. But, it's easier to share to strangers (well, strangers who later on become some sort of your friends ).
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@shibham (16977)
• India
11 Feb 12
Hi glorycam... Yes, you have understood the meaning. Well said. I do trust and cherish myself more here than real world. I am saying always that i have no real friend in real life and thats why i find mylot as best place to share my thoughts and problems. Its more safe that the real world, at least i can think. Have a nice time.
• Singapore
7 Feb 12
shi... I think that's why we can never really go far away from mylot. There is just too much to miss. I know I have not been too active recently but even when I came back after a lapse of a long period, I still feel the warmth of friends here. I think this is a caring place and this is a great topic!
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@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Feb 12
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Hi moon... I think that now you are regretting why you were absent from mylot and we had all the fun here. lol. Yes, we are ready to welcome our friends when they come back. Thanks for the comment and have a nice time.
• Singapore
8 Feb 12
I wish I have more time but sometimes there are just too many things demanding attention. I miss the fun but I will always get it again once I come in.
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@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
6 Feb 12
I too just come and go. During the really cold winter months I take a huge break from my business and find time to be in here. Thank goodness I can afford it! I've worked hard enough for it and it's nice to just kick back and relax. So if you find I do not respond to your discussions just remember, I have entire seasons I'm doing something completely different.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Hi there... Oh, thanks for the prior alert. I know that no one can live in touch with mylot everyday and even me too. I open mylot when i have spare time and get connected with friends. Have a nice time.
• India
6 Feb 12
I must say you are quite lucky to have found some good and caring friends in this virtual world. As is it said, "To have a friend, you must be one". I am sure you yourself must have been a kind, loving and a caring friend and this nature of yours must have captivated people here. As for me I am quite new here. I have made a few friends here, but to be honest they are only "friend lists" friends. I am not in contact with anyone outside mylot. I feel that friendship grows with time and interaction. Lets see if I too get lucky to find some trustworthy friends here.
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi inderjeet... i dont know whether i am caring or not as its considerable by opposite side but i put my all efforts to maintain a good friendship here and try to enhance and nourish it as much as i can. Well, i am pretty much sure that you will be able to close with some mylotters as most are loving and caring than we expect sometimes. have a nice time.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
All the best in searching. lol
• India
6 Feb 12
I too look forward to some close bonds here.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
6 Feb 12
I have felt a great closeness with some of my friends here. I also feel like I have people here that will support me and really care if I am having a rough time. It is disappointing when the ones we grow to care for leave.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi jen... Nice to hear you that i am also the one that you considered as a close friend, although you have not mentioned. Have a nice time.
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
your very lucky to find a real friends here in mylot. with the long year of being friends with them. you become closer to them and highly give high regards to there comments through their concern and helpful advices. i appreciate they you found friends here who have a good intention and not encounter those jealous one. this only mean you get back what you just plant. with your nice treatment you also receive the same things as respect and loyalty.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Hi flower... You are true. I have created some good, caring friendship here on more than three years but unfortunately some veterans are missing and i am worried about them. Its hard to get caring friends here but not rare, we just need to nourish and enhance the relationships. Have a nice time.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
6 Feb 12
Hello Shibham, Good to hear that you had some caring friends here on MYLOT. I too have lot of friends here on MYLOT who are caring and help me when i need them.Definitely country,religion,gender have never been the constraint for me to make friend here.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi Sjvg... Yes, if we consider all those stuffs in case of friendship, then to hard to built a close friendship as its an universal truth. Have a nice time.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
6 Feb 12
hi shibham, Great to know that you have caring friends. So it is natural on your part to worry about the disappearance of their closed ones here. When it comes to friendship online we are not choosy about their age or gender, country or religion may be that’s why it is said ‘friends are born and not made’. For me it will be too earlier to comment on the caring or closeness of mylot friends but yes, so far I am in touch with only two mylotters over phone/mail and they have all appreciations for their friends and yes you are there in that list. I also find many of the names in your responses. It’s definitely a pleasant thing or it is the caring thing that i do get responses from the friends / non friend but my lot members for any discussions started by me. Have a nice time.
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi viju.. If we consider all those stuffs regarding friendship, then a friendship, better can say trustworthy friendship cant be born. So, we must ignore them. No, i dont think that you need to be more active here to comment on this issue coz sometime experiences are earned rapidly. I am feeling glad that i am listed by your two friends and feeling proud too. have a nice time.
@indi15 (888)
• India
6 Feb 12
I joined mylot 2 months back only but i feel that mylot community is very warm. i spend most of my free time here only discussing things, posting comments on various discussions and it is fun. Some times i feel related to other's problems and issues.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Feb 12
Yes you are right. Its a warm family and most members are supportive. I have gotten all the solution here when i get a problem.Thats nice to hear that you feel good with other's problem and try to solve it. Have a nice time.
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
i can say that mylotters are caring.u know what?simply bcoz they responded my postings here.meaning they are not ignoring me here.so i feel happy for that.they all love me so much.thru their response,ive learned a lot and feel they relly cared me...
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@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi there.. Welcome to mylot. As you are a newbie, it will take some time to find out the caring friends, who really do care. I can say that i have phone numbers of my caring friends even from abroad. Is not it caring friendship? have a nice time,