if somemore break the promise, how will you feel?

Malaysia
February 6, 2012 7:36pm CST
hi friends, how you think about promise? is that promise important to you? for me, i look important about the promise that i made, and also other make to me. so that, promise is very important to me. if someone break the promise, i will feel disgusting, and i wont take those people in my heart anymore. so that, i will try myself to not break the promise that i made to other, if i break the promise, i think i myself will also hate myself too. so how about you guy? do you think that promise is important to you? if someone break the promise, how will you feel? and if you yourself to break the promise, how will you feel?
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@sjvg1976 (18034)
• Delhi, India
7 Feb 12
Hello dorothy172, Promises are always made to keep.I do make promises when i feel i would be able to keep them otherwise i don't do.Similarly if someone promises i expect he/she should keep it and if he/she does not i don't trust him/her for the next time.
• Malaysia
8 Feb 12
Yes, i also agree with that, just make a promise if you sure you can keep it. If not, dont make any promise to other. I wont trust those person who break their promise.
• United States
7 Feb 12
i have had promise broken lately and it hurts to me that is the same has lieing. and when it is someone you love it makes it hard to decide what to do.
• Malaysia
7 Feb 12
me too, my friend broke her promise to me, and make me disappointed. now when met with her, i also not much to talk to her. the only thing i wish is i can keep my promise to other. cause i know how much of disappointed and hurt to break a promise
@br3ndy (468)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 12
I know that breaking promise is a horrible thing to do. By breaking promise we could be dissapointing someone badly. I also tried my best to keep my promise to other because i also know how the feels when someone breaking promise they made to us. But there is one thing we also must consider, that is the reason of breaking promise. Sometimes i'm forced to breaking promise like meeting up with my friends because i have important things to do for my family. I know someone could be not accepting any reason for breaking promise, because i feel the same before too. But since i know there could be something more important for someone breaking promise, i usually waiting for them to explain it first. Happy mylotting...
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
we are just human some of us we made promise to be broken. but i admit that i easily got mad or turn off but later on it will diminish but i will not forget what he/she have done and i will not made promise to them anymore. if i will made promise to someone i actually made it i wont make them mad or disgusting to me.
• United States
7 Feb 12
well i been disappointed so many times people that promise me things and they always lie but i never get that mad . the only time i would be really mad and probably not want to talk to the person no more if i tell them a personal problem and if they go telling everyone i wouldn't be able to trust them. but i always like to keep my promise when i promise a person if i don't i would feel bad.
• United States
7 Feb 12
There are exceptions to every rule, but promises should not be broken. There are instances where plans have to be changed for one reason or another, but they should be agreed upon by the ones who have made the promise so there are no hard feelings and it will not actually be defined as breaking a promise, but not being able to go through with it for some good reason. There should never be se3lfish reasons for breaking promises. I do not have friends who break promises. That is a very poor character trait. Where I USED TO GO TO CHURCH, many of the congregation broke promises--even the Pastor. I began losing respect for the people there. We of all people should not break promises. Promises are very important to me to keep. When you promise something, you should always add something like, 'if nothing happens'. OR DON'T make a promise just say, I will try to do so and so if I can work it out. That is important!
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
7 Feb 12
Well, first of all, I could never hate myself, although I can sometimes be pretty disappointed with myself. I don't like making promises unless I know I can keep it. As far as how I feel if someone breaks a promise - it depends on what it is. I think that the worst I could feel mis disrespect for the person. We all know it's easy to say I promise just to get someone off of our back or to calm someone down. Problem is saying it not knowing for sure if you can keep it, then trying to explain when that person comes to you and says "but you promised!