Love in the past

Philippines
February 16, 2012 2:50am CST
If you have a love in the past that still distracts you until now..will you go your way to find this person?
13 responses
@shaieen (258)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
No, because I don't want to bring back the tragic experience that I had experience with him before. I love him until now, but we are just casual friends - I know that's all we are gonna be. Well, I'm happy that I found my first love in his person, and I will never forget him in my whole entire life history.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
16 Feb 12
I agree completely with you. Sometimed we may love some dearly and hed always have a place in our hearts but like you said sometimes the.pain caused by that person is too much for us to go back dispite the love we still hold.
@shaieen (258)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
Same to you, Jezebella! For me, love is not just being in love with that person; it's being wise and mature enough to realize things that is better for you and everyone else. Like for my experience with him, there were a lot of challenges especially that my boyfriend's parents didn't like me. His love was not that strong to fight for our relationship that's why we ended up broken. But I'm happy we broke up, even I loved him that much. I was glad that I was not stuck in that situation, and was able to moved on now. Thank God, I'm happily single now. :-)
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
16 Feb 12
I have a love from my past who is still on my mind at times. I do still love him dearly but I dont think I would go out to find where he is now. He broke my heart one to many times I couldnt trust him to not do it anymore dispite what he says.
@soulist (2986)
• United States
16 Feb 12
I also have a love from my past that keeps coming back from time to time. He always has the habit of telling me how much he loves me and wants to win me back. But no matter how much I love him and have always wanted to hear him tell me that, I have to keep my distance. He hurt me too often that I cannot trust him anymore. There are times when I think about if things were different, but then I remember how much I love my boyfriend (soon to be husband) and I forget about the past and look towards my future.
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
I would say no because everything should be left in the past including the person we loved. Everything comes and goes... I'd rather let that person come to me instead I come to him. If he will not come then it means we are really not meant to be and he might has probably forgotten me as well.
@vt689586 (585)
• India
17 Feb 12
if i have love in the past and it is unable to forget or ignore that then sure i will go for my love by any means.because this will be my first priority to find my love again and start living life with my love.and there is no doubt it.
@kamalvv (42)
• India
17 Feb 12
hi jeanpearl , its never easy to forget someone whom u really care..even if ur mind say to move on with your life your heart will never allow you to move on.. every now and then you will feel the pain...but this pain is nothing compared to the pain you will feel when you realize that, all this while she never cared what you felt.. so better dont go back ..sip that beautiful memories you had with her and cherish it....
• Nigeria
17 Feb 12
hello , my dear friend, i have seem a lot this happen to people and including myself, where i went back to my past love but he took me as a fool and when around to sleeping with other ladies, then i have learn my lesson ,. my friend is better to move ahead not backward.
• United States
17 Feb 12
No, as there are plenty of other ghetto talking, psychopathic, self-centered, self-proclaimed goddesses in the world if I so had the desire to add a tormenting annoyance to my life. :)
@fenirose (46)
16 Feb 12
I don't think i will go back to that relationship just because of a distraction i will just forget the past and move on try to find a new person.
@bingskee (5237)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
hi, jeanpearl. i probably wouldn't because i am happily married now. they may sometimes appear in my mind but it's just nice remembering but going beyond it, i wouldnt. it would just complicate things.
@sayo13 (414)
• India
16 Feb 12
well i believe that everyone has their past and it is not an easy job to forget your past affairs but it is not impossible also to keep those things away from your present life. i always believe that its better not to hang on your past and ruin your precious present and future. i believe that past s there to remind us of our lessons and not to influence our present happiness. i would not allow any affairs of my past to effect my present life no matter in whatever situation i am or with whom i am.its just that once lost can never be the same for me. i would rather prefer to stay alone in my present than finding the person and depending on him in any way or the other.
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
I think I'll go find him.. hmm.. I may get annoyed but I think I would rather find him and see how he was going.. I also love asking myself this question.. and honestly I have been day dreaming sometimes about looking for him.. or just seeing him accidentally. I also keep thinking of what would be my expression.. I think it will be fun if I will see somebody who belongs to the past.. this is only on my own opinion.. c:
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
If the break up is not enough I don't like to find that love again but find the right person that really love just as I am...
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
in my case i won't allow that distraction to ruin my present life. i mean i was there before and that past was trying to win me back but i could feel that he is not sincere woman's instinct..hehehe.in that scenario i wont allow him to hurt me again. i already found my happiness. and i'm married for almost 3years... :) have mylotting:)