There's a quote I've read before

United States
February 19, 2012 2:31am CST
If he tells you your hot, he's looking at your body. If he tells you your pretty, he's looking straight at your face. If he tells you your beautiful, he's talking about your heart. But can you still believe him after you've caught him quick glancing or staring at girls when he thinks your not watching??? Of course a guys vision is normal there eyes do wonder off time to time, but what a girl just feels is disrespected not looking good enough to keep her man concentrating that the only girl out in public should be his girl.
6 responses
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
I think it's normal for guys to look at other guys once in awhile. It's okay if it's only for a few seconds. As long as he is not staring and seemingly more interested in the other girl than me. To want a guy to glue his eyes on us alone is unrealistic. They are men after all. Umm... I don't know about you people, but I usually beat my guy to girl watching. I try to be observant, and when I see some attractive girl, i would look at my guy and see if he is watching too. If he is, I would tease him. then punch him lightly somewhere. That's my way of dealing with this thing. Hmm... we be absolutely sure if a guy is faithful to us. I have been fooled before so I can certainly say I have experiences when it comes to disappointments and heartbreaks. As long as my guy is taking care of me and is showing me love, I'm happy. And then, I would be more happy if he gives me food and treats me to many other things, like a good boyfriend would.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
I mean it's normal for guys to look at other girls once in a while!! Gosh, that was so stupid.
• United States
19 Feb 12
I so agree!(:
• United States
19 Feb 12
it is normal for guys to look at other girls everyonce in a while but sometimes a real man knows how a girl feels when they check out another girl in front of them it makes them feel less.... i forgot the word but you know where im going right?
@smacksman (6074)
19 Feb 12
Now don't be greedy! haha We men admire beauty and if I had you on my arm I would not be suprised if other men looked at you admiringly. I would be pleased for you and if you were pleased then it would please me. I wouldn't be greedy and want your beauty only for me. Your body and soul? Well yes - I would want that only for me and then we would be one. Go on - let your man admire beauty and revel in the fact that he is yours.
@smacksman (6074)
19 Feb 12
Oh! and welcome to Mylot.
@Dominique25 (9475)
• United States
24 Feb 12
Yeah guys might look and perhaps make a comment. But I do think it's disrespectful for a guy to stare or look at another woman for a longer period of time. If he cares about the person he is with then his attention should be on her and not making her feel uncomfortable.
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
yes... we cannot believe on those... sometimes i dont know why they tend us to hurt us and keep on looiking at different girls... and they would simply answer u because they are men... isnt that fair??? why what is the difference of men and women when it comes to love? sometimes its not good... men tend to abuse us...
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
For me, It is normal that guys look at other girls for they are guys and guys are like that. But of course, i will make sure that my guy will only look at them but not stare at them completely. Then i will divert his attention to me so that he will forget the girl that he saw and i will not let him look the same girl again.. :)
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
This is just normal. When guys looks at the girl in public it means he is admiring the girl. Does not actually mean he doesn't see his girl friend or wife attractive. It just means he is a guy who admires good looking girls. Better to catch them looking at girls than guys But it's a different story if we see the guy talking with a pretty or sexy girl and exchanging his number. That time you need to really worry about it.