No Discussions Means No Responses

United States
February 19, 2012 6:16pm CST
Right now i feel there arent many discussions coming out so i have no discussions to respond to. I am bored at home just watching TV and am on mylot hoping to find discussions to respond to, but am bored with mylot now too because there isnt any good discussions to respond to, Now what can i do since im just bored sitting at my boyfriends house. Im laying down in his bed in his room and hes on the couch watching TV while i watch TV in his room. I know doesnt sound right but he says its to early to lay down in bed, but i just wanted to cuddle and watch a movie, that doesnt seem to be on his mind right now either. HMM i guess its just my life. So what can i do to not be so bored?
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• United States
20 Feb 12
I have some discussions you haven't responded to. I would like it if you'd respond to those before you just give up. I have responded to several of yours. We're supposed to help each other. That's how we all succeed on here. Sounds like you need to go pour some water on that boyfriend and remind him you are in the house!
@Darren84 (57)
20 Feb 12
I can't see how anybody can get bored here on Mylot. There is thousands of discussions which you can respond to. If you add more interests you will find more interesting discussions to comment on. This discussion itself is a boredom killer.
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@bostonphil (4398)
• United States
20 Feb 12
Today does seem to be a slow day on all my sites. I was going to start a discussion but I can not think of anything that I feel passionate about. I am glad that you gave me a discussion to respond to. It is slow on all my sites. I have been wondering why. It is a holiday weekend for some in The United States. Is that why? I have been very productive. I finished my taxes and am getting a refund. I did my laundry. I watched a good old movie on TV and a documentary. I am now watching 60 minutes while typing this and soon I will be watching Downton Abbey and Luck on HBO. Actually, it was a slow day for all my online sites but not anything else. I bet tomorrow will be a good day for my online sites. I have noticed that a slow day is followed by a busy day (on my sites).
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
20 Feb 12
happy to know that you could allot time for finishing your taxes and also are getting refund. Great. You finishing laundry work. plus watching movie. You have been quite busy this week end.
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 12
@boston : now in my place, there are monday..and its beginning of the week but like you, i feel lazy now
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@ravisivan (14055)
• India
20 Feb 12
adhyz - beginning of the week means you should be feeling happy to go to work. you are in teaching line, is it not? have a busy week.
@mysdianait (64068)
• Italy
20 Feb 12
No new discussions means that you have time to go back to your own discussions and catch up with commenting on the responses. No new discussions means that you can go check out your friends' profiles and see if there are topics that you missed when they posted them. No new discussions means that you can go to the tabs, recent, new, top and hot and participate in those. Goodness gracious, there is never time to get bored here!
• United States
20 Feb 12
I do that and i go into other places to find discussions to respond to but right now im bored and dont see any good ones to respond to right now so i thought i should start one and get things rolling that way maybe it will help me out right now at least i hope it does.
• United States
20 Feb 12
There is also the ones with no responses at all. But,I find out they are not really what I am looking for. But,have a look anyway you may find some.
• United States
20 Feb 12
I did go ahead and look at those but didnt really find any but did find one of mine i started LOL of course right? Well anyways i did check out the new discussions and found one in there at least i found one and its better than none of course. I really want to make the payout here so im trying to do as much as i can right now too.
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
20 Feb 12
lologirl -- you have done the right thing by starting a discussion and am sure you will get responses for this. You can respond them. I am sure you are aware -- we can go through the old discussions also and out of them whatever is interesting for us we can post our responses. You can do that. When you are in your boy friend's house I am sure he will keep you busy. You can also listen to your favourite music. You may read your favourite newspaper/magazine/book. have an excellent day.
• United States
20 Feb 12
No he doesnt keep me busy at all and hes in a different room as me as well, I know very weird but thats what hes like. I dont really like reading i would rather be on the computer making money and im sure you know what i mean by that.
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
20 Feb 12
yes. I understand and you are doing just that by starting a discussion and responding. great. Why don't you listen to some light music or rap music if you like them? Another option -- is to sing loudly in a closed room your faourite song.
• United States
20 Feb 12
Start a few more posts so I could have something to respond to. LOL I am for real because I see a lag in them as well. I think if more people started more we would never feel this way. I am glad I am just about done with my 50 for the day because I want to go lay down as well. Have fun..
• United States
20 Feb 12
You are always on here and do so much. I am always responding to your discussions when i see them. I dont know if i could start 50 discussions in one day. Im glad if i can get 1 done a day LOL. I try to respond to more rather then starting them. Have a great night.
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@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
You can start lots of discussions here, just like what you are doing right now. You might get a lot of responses and earn new friends along the way, Good luck and happy mylotting dear!
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
20 Feb 12
In fact that is what she has done now and if more members are online she will get more responses.
@KrauseHome (34153)
• United States
24 Feb 12
Well, there are Very few times I could honestly say that I have ever been bored posting here in myLot. As I am always one trying to respond back to all my discussions, friends discussions, interests, etc. there is always a discussion somewhere that I feel is worth responding back too. There is no way I could ever respond back to everything even if I tried, but the ones I do respond back too are worth it, and I hope can help inspire someone here as well.
• United States
20 Feb 12
Since I'm involved in a variety of things online, I find that I never really get bored. You should have went ahead and watched whatever movie you wanted without him. I find that watching movies or TV series that I have keeps me entertained when I feel somewhat bored. I also exercise for a bit if I find myself getting restless. That's always fun to do, and it's beneficial to our health. I personally find it kinda strange that your boyfriend didn't want to cuddle with you. I know if I had a girlfriend or wife that wanted to cuddle, I would be more than happy to do it lol. Maybe because I like it myself.
@barkah69 (96)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 12
Hello lologirl, I think you must go arround look new view. Ussualy someone will get new spirit after look around, look nature, trees, animal. That panorama will stimulus homon in your brain and give a new spirit. Basicly the human need nature for life. Because they take and give with others. Try this, I think the world is crouded so need calm situation. Ok, wake up girl
@vt689586 (585)
• India
20 Feb 12
yeah sometimes it happens when there is no new discussion you find to respond on it.and if you don't find anyone then you start a new one like this,so that have more chances to response. and sometimes taking rest also good if you did not find any discussion to respond. and it is totally up to you that what you want means we select our being boar time not anyone else.
@jagjit273 (1740)
• India
20 Feb 12
So what interests you dear and what are you looking for, what kind of boyfriend you have who is just watching T.V , instead giving attention to such a hot girlfriend in bed. Will u like to be friends with me.
@Hatley (163871)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Feb 12
hi lologirl no discussions? have you looked under the top, the interests, new, recent,friends, hot, no responses, new user? I hardly ever run out of discussions I am interested in.but now you have given me a fresh discussion to respond to and'thats really nice.thats not very friendly of your boyfriend or is that that to him cuddle means a lot more and hes not ready for bed? men!! I often wonder what people mean when they say theres no good discussions to respond to specially when I just made one. Maybe som e of you shou,ld tell us poor peons just what is a'good discussion in your eyes and make some for examples. I think we'all a pretty darn good.
@sjvg1976 (16881)
• Delhi, India
20 Feb 12
Hello lologirl, Unlike you i never felt bored from Mylot and never it happened that i have not found a discussion to respond there are several discussions which are left out for me to respond though.I seldom start discussion because i don't get much of the time to comment back and i always like to respond to the discussion than to start my own but its better if you start your own discussion if you are not finding anything to respond.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 12
thats right maybe you can start from making a good discussion
@joystick (1680)
20 Feb 12
I know what you mean, as I am the same, bored.It seems that there are not a lot of things on the tv worth watching much nowadays.I usually look on here as well asa few other sites and then if I get bored go to bed early.I find that there are lots of discussions on here that are older ones that are really great, so I tend to answer those ones.