Steps To A Happy Life

@boylopez (382)
Philippines
February 20, 2012 6:50pm CST
"Don't stress yourself with useless people who don't deserve to be an issue of your life". We always want a happy family all the time. But sometimes the people around us makes us stress. How about you who makes you happy that erased all stress?
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5 responses
@mensab (4207)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
i agree with this one. it is one of the several steps to happy family life. there are people who want to mess with our lives. they offer temptations, distractions and disappointments in our lives. we should find every energy to avoid and prevent them from coming into our lives. they may look very enticing and attractive at first, but they bring bad luck and negative energy into our lives.
@boylopez (382)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Thanks mensab of your response. All of us want to be happy specially our family. We want family circle is in solid condition. We have seen more families are broken, because of so much destruction, temptation. But we need to be strong all the time. Have a good day.
@wittynet (4131)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
I strongly agree with you! I know how it feels when you are affected by other people because I used to see so many reps for the past few years. Yes. I worked in call center. Most of my coemployees cannot hold their temper and always yelling at our customers. How can they manage to do that? They put the customer on hold, sometimes, they pressed the mute button and in a matter of seconds, they cursed the customer. I am not that kind of person who will keep grudges in my heart. I also worked for a chat support account. This is worse compare to the outbound/inbound calls that I handled. In this account, all reps are free to say anything they want because the other rep whom they are chatting with cannot hear what they are saying. Sometimes, my coemployees will hit the keyboard so loud that all of us will be shocked, others will resort to hitting the mouse. We're so lucky that we have nice supervisors who understand this kind of issue. But if our Business Manager or Country Manager will see this kind of behavior, I am sure, they'll be suspended for a week or two, worse, they'll be terminated. I do not know why I never do the same thing. I always understand them. These reps whom we're chatting with are talking to our customers on the phone. Meaning to say, they have more tasks to do. So in case there's a problem with the chat or in case the rep didn't provide me complete information, I always understand and ask for more in a very polite manner. People say that I am look younger than my age. Maybe because I always smile and never get affected by people who always want to ruin my day.
@boylopez (382)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Thanks wittynet of your response. I am proud of you friend of helping me in mylot. Although many things that i am not so familiar but you taught me about it. In your response it is a lesson to cultivate in ourselves, specially if you have not seen your customer. Makes life easier, don't cursed anyone. If it is makulit just smile. Just say thank you. Have a good day.
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@wittynet (4131)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
You're very much welcome! How can I forget all those myLotters who also helped me before? They are so many, but I am not allowed to mention any names here for I am sure my post will be deleted. They are from India, Philippines, US, and Canada. If I forgot other countries, I am sorry my dear myLotters, but I know very well your usernames. You are all a big help to me. And because you helped me, I am also helping other members here. It's always good to help one another here in myLot. That way, all of us will be successful here. If all of us are successful, myLot will be number 1! That's true!
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 12
I do agree with you. Sometimes it's hard for me to be happy if it is dealing with other people. I tend to take everything people said to me or the way they treat me. I will be very sad if there's someone saui something bad or treat me bad, and I will keep thinking about it till I get the solution. it could be days or even weeks. I was so tired but I can't stop doing it. that's why it's difficult for me to get happiness. what you said in this discussion is so inspiring. thanks for sharing this good discussion..
@boylopez (382)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Hi humairaku. Thanks of your comment. It is part of our life. You can not please all the people. But just relax and smile. Do not mind what they say. Do want you think is good. If you make good, they can realize that they are wrong. Smile always. Remember always "Smile God's Loves You".
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
I live with happy family and friends. My family is always there when i need there support and they always listen to me when i need someone to talk too but even i have my happy life there are still some people that trying to ruin my life but i just ignore them, all i can say to them is what my friends telling to those people who hate them, and my friends tell to them 'You just know my name but you don't know my story'
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
21 Feb 12
IT's myself. There are times i make myself stressed over nothing, or being stressed by some petty matters. However these stress don't last long, and the moment i wake up the next day, everything is fine again. I'm not one to harp over things, carry over to next day. I don't know if that's a good thing or not because m bf once told me, it's a form of avoidance and the problem is never solved. Much as i tried to find someone who can make me really happy, at the end of the day when i'm alone, i start thinking again.