Is it right? Talkative persons can make new friends easily

India
February 23, 2012 4:19am CST
My friends is talkative but she is very good women. I observed she make new friend easily talk with any new person no feel embarrassing. I feel shave or occur word to talk with any new person. But I like my friend way she is talkative and she not face the problem in any party or in any program she not feel alone. What you think really talkative person never feel alone and always happy with anyone. This is good habit or not a good way. share your view with fanta!
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
i agree with this so much because i am exactly the kind of person who make friends a lot because im so talkative and i would like to explore myself by having lots of friends :) i think it is a good way, you can have fun and someone will help if in trouble. But partly it is bad because some people will take advantage..
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• Philippines
23 Feb 12
hahahha! i know, i now have extra care on that..
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• India
23 Feb 12
Woooooooo you are like my friend make lots of friends good habit. You are right if more friends means more fun. But be careful some friends take the benefit of innocent friendship.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
23 Feb 12
I absolutely agree with you though. Most talkative person make friends easily, and they always make new friends. My cousin is pretty much a sociable person, and he talk to anyone, even stranger. I admire him make tons of friends though. For me, I don't have much friends in my life, and I felt shame on myself sometimes.
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
hi king, don;t be ashame i bet you have a lot to flaunt..:) just be confident and be true to everyone..
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• India
23 Feb 12
Ohhh you are feel shame but king told me when you feel shame while talking with girl or boy hahah...just kidding. I have also not more friends but I like my friends style talking and making friends . Nurseclare saying true dont feel shame if you wants more friends.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
hi fanta, talkative is not the same as a jolly person. i guess it depends on the crowd she/he is in. some people like it silent. some like noisy. some wants fun with less talk. besides, talkative person gets into trouble easily just like she/he gets new friends. have a nice day.
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• India
24 Feb 12
No I not noisy person but I like jolly type person talking and laughing. I think you are also jolly type person because you are laughing in your photo.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
a pleasant day fantabulus, as far as i know, generally, talkative persons built friendship so quickly. as due to their good public relation or what you call "PR". hence, due to this, they can easily open a topic for discussion and they can use this to introduce theirselves and can gain acquaintances that easy.
• India
24 Feb 12
Yes you are right talkative persons built the friendship as quickly as possible. What is the meaning of PR but yes talkative person can start the topic easily for communication and conversation.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
23 Feb 12
Being talkative is generally a good habit and I think that most talkative persons have many friends because their open nature easily attracts other people to communicate with them,but sometimes it can also be a disadvantage,because there are people who talk all the time and this habit can become tiring or even boring for those around.Sometimes when I'm in the company of such an extremely talkative person I feel tired of that person's excessive talk,but I try to be polite and find an excuse to get away from that person.I think those who know when to be talkative and when to give their listeners time to breathe are the most appreciated ones,but this equilibrium is pretty hard to achieve.
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• India
25 Jul 12
But this is face more talkative persons are hiding their problems and show the world they feel happy but in reality they not happy. Yes some time more talking means disadvantage also not always we get advantages of this.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 12
Not really. Muahahaha... I can say I am a very talkative person. I talk all the time with my friends. But actually I like to be alone and I'm kinda person who talk to the point. Sometimes it's difficult for me to even start a small talk. :D However, I have to agree with you that my talkative habit can help me a lot in facing awkward situations. Just put a smile on your face as it can show to others that you're a confident person. Then start saying "hi". It helps a lot, believe me. :D
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• India
26 Feb 12
Woooo you are also talkative like my friend. Hahah...you are right for talkative person it is difficult to keep quiet. I have experience because my friend is same.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 12
Trust me, when I'm among friends, you'd better kill me if you ask me to keep my mouth shut. :D
@banta78 (4326)
• India
23 Feb 12
Hey Fanta! I don't think you ever get bored in your good talkative friend's company. Just kidding. Yes, having a friendly socially active person who likes to mingle and talk with strangers and anyone around is likely to make many more friends than someone sitting in one place or not interacting much with people. If you joke, share a laugh and have good conversation with those around, you are likely to become popular and make lot many friends. Have a Good day, Cheers :)
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@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
24 Feb 12
I do think that this is true in some cases. I do think that some talkative people can make friends quite easily, while some tend to be a little annoying, or something like that. I think that it depends on the person.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 12
Not always right. Some people don't like talkaktive persons. I don't like that kind of person. You know talkaktive persons usually dominates conversations and tend to be bossy. I love silent persons but they have smiling faces.
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• India
24 Feb 12
You are right some people not like talkative person and they feel irritated if the person is not keep quite for some time. But talkative person can start the conversations with anyone. I love both persons silent and talkative because life has only two parts sad or happy some time sad or some time happy so I love both.
@zirram19 (13)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Not at all times it is a good habit.. some people don't like talkative person. They sometimes find it annoying when someone you meet for the first time talks so much. Or maybe it depends on how talkative the person is. If he/she talks a lot but has sense then that would be fine but if he/she talks so much about non-sense matters then that would surely be annoying.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
I'm a talkative person too which really helps me to gain friends easily but I'm a good listener too.Most of the time, being talkative could really help to gain friends easily but there some instances too that some people get annoyed to people you are talkative,those people who just wanted to be alone or wanted to be quiet. In my case, it really helps too me and make the people around me enjoy my company and sense of humor.
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• India
24 Feb 12
Hahha...great you are good listener also but some people are only talkative and not listen to anyone. But I like both silent person and talkative person.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
23 Feb 12
Yes that is sometimes true. I am the type who doesn't readily go up to just anyone and start a new conversation or even small talk. I was kind of brought up that way and then have had a shy demeanor all all my life. It sometimes has gotten mistaken for me being snobbish, but all it really is is a lack of confidence and feeling like I say some stupid things that people will just stare at me for, etc. It has happened when I thought I wasn't saying anything stupid, so that might be why i have that feeling. I wish I knew why the people in my town are so unfriendly alot of the time.
• Ireland
23 Feb 12
I'm a very talkative person, I could strike up conversation with a wall. It's not always a good thing though. I tend to say things and divulge information or my feelings without thinking. Being talkative, I make a lot of acquaintances. I would not call them friends as such. I don't hold too many people close enough to call them friends, but I talk to a lot of people. All the same, I sometimes feel very alone because although I say a lot, most if it doesn't mean a whole pile and despite being surrounded by people I often feel alienated.
• India
25 Jul 12
Woooooooo it means we are same friends talkative persons. Yes some time more talking is not good but some time we got lots of benefits from it. More talking means hiding our problems.
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
yes it is true, talkative people can make lot of friends..
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 12
Hi Fanta, indeed i see many of my friends and even my sisters are easy to make new friends as they are talkative. I see them so easier build friendship with strangers and easily become their friends. But, we must be careful as not to make friend with the wrong people. Because friends have many types of character. So, better to stick around with people of same character and understanding. Hope Fanta have found some good friends through here as well.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Feb 12
I've never been talkative ... most of my conversations consists of plenty of witty one liners and i do not wish to expose this side of mine to strangers!Its good to be talkative to an extent,beyond which you would stand a nice chance to be treated like a stupid person who talks and talks lol.As of the art of making friends,its quiet different to that of being talkative,say one who smokes will have many friends compared to the one who doesn't.My thoughts though.Great day
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yes, i agree with u.Talkative person can find friends easily coz they dont feel ashame to talk first to the person whom they dont know.
@erjnsimon (1191)
• Makati, Philippines
26 Feb 12
i agree with you. i have a friend, talkative, he can easily mingle with others. LOL. funny
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
I think it's okay to be talkative when both parties already have a comfort level with each other. It would be weird and awkward if at first meeting, one person would already talk like they've known each other for a long time. It would just seem strange. However, there are people that are natural with mingling with others right off the bat. Only a few people can pull it off without the other being awkward at all.
• Indonesia
1 Mar 12
Being talkative doesnt mean that u will easily make friendship with new people. You need good, and alsmot are ,charming personality. Someone become talkative when they have many friends to talk with. Before they start talk to other, they will shown the good personality to attract new people they meet. You can feel it when you need new person, you can feel his/ her charming aura and feel like you want to make friends with them. It's just about how you show your personality and your attitude to others.