Men or women friends?

United States
February 23, 2012 10:02pm CST
do you have both gender friends? do you like the male friend better than the female friends you have? I have both but I find male friends easier to talk to and I'm guessing it's because I always compare myself to my female friends and we are always trying to out do one another at something and I feel as though when there are any males around us we are trying to get thier attention to ourselves and keep it from the others.
14 responses
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
I have both friends.Female and male.But for me i feel enjoy if walk with male friends.Coz they are always care of me.I think male more strong than femal so i feel save if i walk with my male friend.They always protect me,and give me suggest if i feel hurt coz of love.But not all of female secret they need to know.Have great day.
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@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
25 Feb 12
oh friend, good idea of you. I self like female friend but that friend which that for lifefriend now with out this, now i have no female friend, and i love with someone and i determind that i do most which i can and in my last strength to get that friend for live time but dont i will get that or not?
@leighz (457)
5 Mar 12
For me, I have both but I like hanging out with the guys more. There's just no fuzz with them, they're funny too and they don't seem to carry their problems around. Thus, it's less stressful being with them.
@GemmaR (8526)
25 Feb 12
I have more male friends than female, because I find them much more straightforward to be friends with. The thing about women is that they can often find far too much pleasure from talking about people behind their back, and this is certainly something which I really don't like about women. I am not like that, because I have been hurt by people who spoke about me behind my back far too many times in the past and I just know that I would never like to put somebody through that kind of pain like I had to go through myself.
@Cranos (273)
• Belgium
24 Feb 12
I have a lot of friends from both genders. I prefer my male friends though. I've never had as much fun as I've had on guys nights out. We get in all kinds of trouble, do the most stupid stuff and just have a laugh all night long. When there are women present, everyone acts a lot more serious. Even the things we talk about are much more serious and often boring after a while.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
i have both...though male friends are less complicated to talk to than the female ones but of course female friends are the ones you can shop it nothing beats shopping with female friends and gossiping endlessly with them
24 Feb 12
i have both gender friends male and female but i thing male are better, because a male can understand you much better and a male does not gossip as much as a female. but a good friend can be female or can be male it doesn't matter.
• India
24 Feb 12
I have many friend. They are male or female its does'nt matter to me. But defferent gender every times attract you its true even. I am not a exception.
• India
24 Feb 12
I don't think there's any kind of difference between male and female friends. It just depends on the way you think. It's just your own mind which discriminate the same.
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
They weight the same to me. I don't have that gender preferences when it comes to friendship. I enjoy the companies of my friends may it be men or women. I know others may prefer a particular gender but I guess it will be more fun if you have an opposite gender friend within your circle of friends.
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
hi! for me, i find boys to be more good for friends because they are more trusted and they are not that type that when you have some misunderstanding they will not tell anyone of your secrets. at least they help me also to understand some about them. honestly, i have more male friend than girl friend.
• Lenox, Georgia
24 Feb 12
I have always had male friends more than female. I feel like girls were always very dramatic and I am not like that. I always played sports and just liked hanging out which my guy friends were perfect for. I was never into shopping and things like that so I didn't have much in common with females.
@vt689586 (585)
• India
24 Feb 12
yes i have friends in more gender but in life the number of friends are more than female.because it is very easy to talk with male and understand their feeling.male friends are more open that female friends.and when i am talking with any female friend then i am very careful about my words.because one wrong word can make them uncomfortable.but it is not happens when i am with my male friends.
@yugasini (12839)
• Anantapur, India
24 Feb 12
hi ladylonewolf, once again i am writing to you,now itself i have sent a response to you,means i have typed and submitted,but it was not worked out and once again i have to post the same matter,both male and female friends are equal to me,i am having more than 700 friends in mylot,but i am not finding any transperancy in friendship means online, saying something doing some thing,that is they do not do what they say, what about you,have a nice day
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
I'm a female.I get along well with my female friends since we share almost the same interests & we understand each other better since we are of the same chemistry but there are things that a guy friend can do that my girl friends can't do.