Relationship With Other People

Philippines
February 24, 2012 3:14am CST
We meet a lot of people in our lives. Some of them are pleasant to be with. Some of them are enjoyable to be with. Others are inspiring and give you values.Others are offensive and hypocrite. Some we choose to keep as our close and dear friends. Others we prepare to ignore, or keep it a distance. Some we choose to stick coz they bring happiness in our life. Whenever,wherever we go we can have an interaction with other people and converse with them, we are guided by the values that are rooted deep in our hearts. because of these values, we choose the thought, we pay attention to the words we use and action we do.
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• Thiruvananthapuram, India
24 Feb 12
People behave according to the background, culture, and the way they have been brought up. We see a lot of people with different characteristics. Only those who does matter to us do keep a trail in our lives and other just pass by without ever having us known that they were ever with us. Good friends will always set certain standards of behavior in which we grow with them while the bad ones will not make any impression in our hearts and minds or make any value in our lives.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
welcome to mylot my friend..be active here of course people behave according to their background, and their culture but remember, the society had a common rule and common behave.. and we must follow the common habit or common background related where we live...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Exactly! Because no two individuals are the same in all ways. They say, birds of same feather's flocks together- but still there were clashes that happens along the way. We learn a lot from each differences. We learn to understand why some are rude, why others are hypocrites, why he is choosy and why she is bossy. We also learn to adjust ourselves in every situation and how to deal with them.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
thats right jaiho you had explained with good example..i like it
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
hi! sure we do meet many different kind of people where ever we may go. the thing is they all leave a lesson to us. i do hope that of all the people i meet, they are all like you who keep their values in their hearts, who choose the right words to say. if all people will do like that, i am sure, misunderstandings will diminish.
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• Philippines
24 Feb 12
First of all, welcome to mylot. Thank you for that wonderful words of yours. I'm flattered and touched
@SarahAlyx (181)
• United States
24 Feb 12
That is very true but many people fold under peer pressure and forget their values. Sometimes the people we surround ourselves with influence us to ignore our morals and values some do it intentionally others don't even realize that their presence makes a difference. If only everybody would do the right thing, maybe not all the time ;p because then it would be a utopia buuut still if only people will hold their values and morals close to them there would be less crime amongst many other things.
@Ernnesto (180)
• Slovak Republic
24 Feb 12
That normal interaction between people. Every person can leave something in you. That the great thing about life. Unfortunately, sometimes that traces are not so good, and not everytimes that leave good thoughts in your mind. But better is focus on pleasant thoughts.
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@azi1147 (21)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
Normal pattern of a person's life is interacting with others. But how we interact is another thing since we all are individualistic in our own ways. Yes, others can be grumpy and some are nice to be with. We should also need to know our ways of interacting,if we are being logical or not. True to what you've said that "we are guided by the values that are rooted deep in our hearts", from what we we're raised from and how we have grew up as individuals determines what kind of person we are and how we interact with others as well. In addition, we need also to be sensitive in everything we do to our family and friends and even to people whom we don't know at all but makes us think of negative things bout them due to superficial judgement..:)
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Feb 12
I believe we can learn from every single person that comes into our lives, even learn from other peoples mistakes, good or bad there are lessons we can learn.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
and God never created us without good planning..trust that God had given like that so we can know the real meaning of life life is not easy but God had solved with many solutions..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
thats right blink sometimes there are people can motivate us and colourful our live sometimes there are people make us really boring and hate them.. the world is so unique i think
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
that's why individuals cannot be judge by anyone because we created differently and were unique in solving problems and deal the life that we chose.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
25 Feb 12
yeah you are right this world is full different thoughts and no two person are same in behavior.and if we want to achieve something in our life then our relationship with other people plays great role in it.because our relation makes way for ourselves.it up to us how we make our relationship with whom.and this things decide our status in society also.
@boylopez (382)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
Not all the behavior of mankind is just the same. But if we have friends like that, bossy, hypocrite, etc., we must deal them in good ways. We must know how to deal this kind of friend.