he says one thing but does another...

Philippines
February 28, 2012 5:52am CST
So there's this guy who everyone and their dog says likes me and honestly, i believed them because I could see it as well. But after he was texting me tonight and he was telling me all this crapola about how he doesn't like me and that his friends (who weren't even the ones who told me, by the way) were "taking me for a ride", I'm just not sure anymore. He tells me through text that he doesn't have any feelings for me, but I face him in school and he can't stop staring, and can't stop lurking around me. What am I supposed to believe? What I see and what the world tells me, or what he's saying? His words are hurting me so much right now. :'(
5 responses
@swirlz (3138)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Well, he's not worth it for one. If he really likes you, he won't hurt you that way. Ignore him and avoid him from now on. And tell him you're taking him for a ride as well.
@swirlz (3138)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Thanks for the br! I hope we've been of help. I'm sure you can find someone better. Luck!
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
28 Feb 12
It's not about what you are supposed to believe but what you are supposed to do. Why you read text from such kind of people? Delete them out of your life, you are way too good to stick to pathetic people like that. And if people do write or say such things they are bad anyway!
• India
28 Feb 12
Exactly.. If he isn't man enough to admit his love and take responsibility.. I dont think he deserves you. Just tell him to scoot from your life... Nd dear dont worry there are way better men out there you will find a real man.. Not like this disgusting fellow u r talking abt.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Don't be hurt if he does things that really irresponsible. There are many guys out there that is responsible. Talk to him to find out the reason why he tells those words... If he tells you the reason that's the time you decide...
@GemmaR (8527)
29 Feb 12
It is very hard in situations like this to be able to realise just what other people think about you, but I think that in this situation you just have to accept whatever he chooses to tell you, which is that he doesn't like you. However, his behaviour would seem to suggest that he does like you, so maybe he is just a little scared to admit that? I am not sure exactly of what he is afraid, but trying to have a conversation about it might do the world of good because you both need to declare your feelings if you're going to be moving on together.
@vt689586 (585)
• India
28 Feb 12
well i think this guy was only passing time with you and he had nothing for you.but his acts make believes you that he has something in their heart for you.and may be he finds some other girl for him and that's why he texts you this message.and i suggest just forget about him and try to ignore him so that he can also know that you also have nothing for him.