Mom give me five years, I will eventually find someone to marry geezzzzz!

@leighz (457)
March 3, 2012 4:38am CST
Have you had a discussion with your mom or any family member about someone you knew who just recently got married? and then they turn the table and put you on the hot seat?. It's too early for a midlife crisis, I'm just 27 but people around me are so concerned if I even want to go in that direction. What is wrong with these people? When I was younger, I followed their rules, no dating until I finished college. When I was working I found out, it's really hard to find someone out there. Anyway, I'm happy being single, there's more freedom and time to do the things I longed to do. Besides, women these days marry late so why fret?. As long as we're happy and fulfilled then were fine, right?.
2 responses
26 Mar 12
Hi! This kind of stuff really crazy. I'm at the right age to getting married, but i'm still single & happy. i do everything i want as long as it's legal. My mom also told me when i get married. i told her just wait if it's time to be married then i will married. I also told them that its not easy to enter on a relationship when both side are not yet ready. They always say that please look for a partner. ohhhh boy i always say. "ok i will be married but the 100% that i give attention to our family will lessen." hehehe they just a little silent for awhile. hay this generation it's not easy to enter on the new chapter of our lives. bf & gf sometimes not working also coz its hard to found a mr right & ms. right. So i think you better have more fun in your life for a while as long as your not found the right one. in time you could found someone..
@leighz (457)
8 Apr 12
You're absolutely spot on. This is not the 1960's where its easy to find a partner who will commit to you. These days, we really have to be careful in dating someone. Besides, its more important to establish ourselves financially before settling down.
@Mashnn (4503)
3 Mar 12
I would definitely tell them to give me a break. You should marry only when you are ready and if you find the right person to marry. No one should decide for when to get married.
@leighz (457)
3 Mar 12
I agree with you there. We have free will. Let's practice it wisely.