......I Thought It Was The End,.......

Japan
March 5, 2012 5:14pm CST
Holla there mylotters! It's been two weeks that I was gone and after sharing my problem/trouble with my husband, a huge fight night and a devastating days. I thought everything will be end after my husband didnt went home that night and messaged me that we're going t divorce. But not, instead he went home the next day with a two flight tickets and hotel booked for us hahahaha I never expected him doing that and I really thought that everything is over between us. We went to go vacation in Singapre and really had a great 1 week over there. Just like nothing happened like a huge fight, everything went so romantic hahaha me and hubby was very happy. I was so wrong assuming stuff, he told me that he don't stop me to do anything I want unless I wont do anything bad haha But yea I am happy now me and hubby are talking more about stuff. Everything has change Thank you for all the mylotters who gave me advices. Thank you so much.
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22 responses
• India
6 Mar 12
It is a very happy news to us. Enjoy your life fully. Best of luck for your trouble and future.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi Tamosree welcome to mylot Thank you and I know we will be happy together
• India
6 Mar 12
Thank you for welcoming me in the mylot. I think it is a good place for me.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
You're right Tam, you'll enjoy mylot. Keep lotting
@stanley777 (7177)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
It's good to hear that all had been settled between you and your husband. Yes, the best way to solve a problem between couples is to settle it when both have cooled down. Disagreement between couples is a natural thing because every individual differs from each other.After all have been settled most of the time, the relationship will become more stable.I'm happy for both of you my friend.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi Stan, I absolutely agreed with you, I would never said something that could be serious when I am mad. It was a lesson learn for both of us. It help us become more closer and bonded
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Yeah, sometimes couples are tested for their capability to cope with problems. And after this trials the relationship even became more stronger.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
I agreed with you Stan, I am very happy that we didn't end up divorcing.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
I think it's normal for husband and wife having small arguments sometimes due to some basic misunderstanding. It's good for you that your husband think about it to cool the heat between you and him...That's really a best relief to see your husband give you a travel to find out what really matters in your relationship. Have a safety travel, my friend...
• Japan
6 Mar 12
You're right aerous. Everything was settled and I am happy to know that my husband give importance to our marriage and relationship.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
That's a great thing, my friend. At last you know that your husband still loves and you need to kept on that and never be bother anything with negative perception which sometimes deal us into delusion...
@Metatronik (5899)
• Pasay, Philippines
6 Mar 12
Sounds like there was really a huge fight that happened. But then in a brighter side at least he had forgiven you and surprised you a big thing.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi metatronik, I know right? Yea it was a huge fight that almost crashed me out but right now I forgot about that fight anymore. I am happy and I know my husband feel the same way too.
@ecaron (678)
• Canada
6 Mar 12
I AM GLAD THINGS WORKED OUT FOR YOU!! Good luck, My lot, friend!
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Thank you ecaron
• United States
6 Mar 12
Glad things have calmed down. People often say things they don't mean and huge fights have a way of making people think the worst. The important thing is to talk to through what caused the fight and make sure all issues are settled so they do not cause problems in the future.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi cdecker welcome to mylot You're right everything should be settled calmy and not talk while being mad coz it will just make everything worst.
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
6 Mar 12
I think that that is all that you really needed. WE get so caught up in out daily activities. WE dont take time to make the relationship work. You guys just needed to fell the passion of being in love agin. Im so happy for you.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi Jaz, Our vacation gave us the big break through in our marriage. It help us feel the passion of being marriage. We even forget about the fight.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Congratulations! At least everything endz up well. Keep the relationship intact like the first time and keep the love burning. In every relationship- there are lot of trials to come. So many struggles and you are lucky to overcome one. Have a good day and keep holding on
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Thank you Jaiho. I am happy that everything was settled down.
@rose1717 (190)
• United States
6 Mar 12
I'm so glad that you and your husband worked everything out and talk more. Communication between husband and wife are very important.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi rose, Absolutely right. Communication are very important and we are starting to be more bonded and closer now.
@Hatley (158030)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Mar 12
hi kyle2krystel I amn so glad for you that you had a romantic week and have really mended your marriage. It hurts so bad when a person and her loved one have had a fight, but you now have the right idea'good communication can save a marriage that and respect, trust and love.I am glad you and your mate are okay now.sounds like the real beginning of your marriage.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi Hatley, I was astounded with my hubby surprised. I never expect it coz of our fight. The vacation made us even more sweeter and we feel like it was our honeymoon again haha. It gave us a big break through. I was lucky enough to have a husband like him
@zaahro (749)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 12
Hii kyle2krystel...Welcome back Aww,, I am happy to hear that what a sweet husband you have got, marriage is different with relationship, we can't get over it easily. Hope you'll have your next vacation without fighting first
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi zaahro, We're looking forward for our next vacation and there well be no fight going to happen before the vacation hehe
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
It's normal for couples to disagree once in awhile.Well,now that everything's fine again,keep it up.Don't let anything come between your good relationship.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
I know kat, Every relationship has ups and down and I should know that by now.
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
6 Mar 12
It's great because you and your husband passed the troubles. Woman often think about an issue importantly. I think that we should calm down to solve problem when we stick into a mess.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi tkonlinevn, It was a lesson learned for me, it was a great break through in our life as marriage couple but everything went back as bf/gf when we're on vacation
@SinfulRose (3524)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Mar 12
I am happy to hear that you are doing well, kyle2krystel. I may not have taken part in giving you advises regarding your relationship with your husband but I am glad to know that the both of you are doing fine. I hate to see families breaking apart because of misunderstandings and arguments because I believe no problem is worth more than your family--because they are your treasure.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Oh Sin, It's ok atleast you are here right now:P You're right I don't want a failed marriage too I was just very lucky that my husband went an extra mile to make everything work out.I am very happy right now
@espoir (184)
• China
6 Mar 12
Your husband seems very understanding and with a big heart. You should treasure each other. I am glad everything works out for you two.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi espoir, welcome to mylot! I know I am very lucky with my hubby. It was our most memorable moment together. After the huge night fight went on vacation like nothing happened haha
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello, Good to hear that both of you did not use pride at all. Well, you are really lucky to your husband because he is not the type of guy who giving up for a problems. In this situation you will enjoy because after all you are still together. Just always remember that everything can talk with a calm voices and calm self. alright? So, enjoy your vacation!
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi Tiina05, I am very lucky that my husband is not type of high pride person. I have learn a lot from our fight and now that we're good and everything was settled down.
• Indonesia
6 Mar 12
wow,, glad to hear that evrything is ok betwen you and your husband now. Some says that fight is the sweetness of relationship. Wish you will end together forever.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
welcome to mylot mrswhitfield I agreed with you, our big night fight made us more even sweeter than before We are both happy now and I know we will be together forever
@Mashnn (4503)
6 Mar 12
It is very good to hear that you had a wonderful time with your husband after the fight. I hope this can be a start to new and better things. I wish you luck.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Yes Mashnn, It made us even more closer when and after the vacation. We both happy together
@larish (2196)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Kudos to you and your husband, you have survive another trial in your marriage. It really helps to have a vacation to patch up things. Your husband is so sweet and buying tickets is his gesture how important you are to him.
• Japan
6 Mar 12
I know Larish, I never thought of him buying a ticket after a big nigth fight. Our vacation changed everything. We get even more closer to each other.
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@shrike (123)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello! wow, nice to from you.. congratulation.. keep it up..
• Japan
6 Mar 12
Hi shrike, welcome to mylot Thank you and I will keep everything up with my hubby