I will go out naked today to show my inner beauty :p

@jaiho2009 (39079)
Philippines
March 5, 2012 9:57pm CST
The famous sayings goes "Beauty is useless, character is the best" "Physical looks does not matter, but goodness within matters the most" Therefore, beauty cannot be measured from the outside looks. Not from the clothes we wear, or make-up and jewelries. But from the inner beauty, attitude,character as a whole being. However, whether we accept it or not, physical looks gives a greater impact than the inner person.(goodness within) It takes time to know the real person to appreciate his/her inner beauty- character/attitude, because some people are too good when it comes to pretending. Most people always say "I prefer a good person inside than the physical looks" But- how will you know how good the person inside at the first meeting alone? Is there any incident that your first impression or intuition towards a certain person is totally right? Have a great day everyone jaiho®- don't take seriously 3-06-2012 Tuesday 11:55am PT
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@zaahro (749)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 12
Hii jaihoo.... Such a nice thought knowing the real beauty, the inner beauty is as difficult as the time that is needed, but inner beauty is last no matter what you wear, inner beauty won't get old and weak Not like the outside look, just at the first sight we can know wether she is beautiful or not, but this beauty is just in short time. You'll get old and the beauty is gone. But one thing I can't resist, the first impression is important , because people will get to know you more when they are interested with you.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello zaahro, But one thing I can't resist, the first impression is important .. because people will get to know you more when they are interested with you That makes sense!!! Yes, when we are interested with a certain person, we'll try to know more about them. Inner beauty stays, while physical looks withered with time. Thanks and have a good day
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@zaahro (749)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 12
Ayee,, cz I have experienced that many times so I think it is automatically and generally happen
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Indeed
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• Philippines
6 Mar 12
no need to be naked just to see people your inner beauty. it will come out automatically! i believe and agree! :
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello dhawnah, That's exactly the meaning ... it comes out naturally Welcome to mylot
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@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Waaahhh Oh Em! Hehehe Hello amiga! I'm back :-) for good.... It's been months when I was gone amiga... I miss u and mylot. I am not going online for months too because of discomfort. Early pregnancy amiga. It's about 10 weeks now and I am feeling good than before. Anyway, I thought you will be going to the beach and have an early summer break! Hehehe
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello amiga Oh my...what a good news And, again...I am so happy for you..."Congratulations!".... At long last... Okay, let's go for a swim...:p Please give me more updates and take care always. Take care of our baby (^_^)
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@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 12
Hi Jai sis, at first i thought what's wrong with my sister? Going naked today in Mylot?? After reading the whole discussion, then i realized what your discussion is all about. Indeed inner beauty is hard to see and realized. It takes time to discover the inner beauty of a person. Same goes for my dear sister and dear friends. Well, i had seen the beauty of my dear sister in here, since from the day i get to know you. Do take care always, although i know you are a very busy person same like me.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello sis Thanks for the appreciation- but I am also a brat sometimes (hehehehe) Anyway, the little in me seldom comes out- if only I need to use my horns (just kidding) I agree, it takes time to see the inner beauty. Even the ones we live under one roof- we came to know about them everyday. Take care also and have a good day always
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
6 Mar 12
I have a problem with this! When I see unattractive people i will not give them the time of day! I am sorry to say but alot of people I have met that have ugly appearences are quit stupid inside! There is no way I can see the inner beauty of in ugly people even after getting to know them! I see a very atractive person and most times I can see the inner beauty,after I get to know them. I have alot of trouble getting past the other looks! Some of it has to do with how I grew up. People I have known over the years. Some of the jerks I dated and some people I've worked with. It is just who I am. Like it or not!
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello blue, I understand your situation, it's your own experiences and no one can tell better than you. I know what you mean, I also met few of those kind. Having the bad looks followed with bad manner (so pity). So,it doesn't mean that,those who are not good looking are humble and well-mannered compared to those pretty faces who oftentimes mistaken as snob and brats. thanks for sharing and have a good day
@allknowing (55092)
• India
6 Mar 12
It is not right to put people in grooves as people change depending on circumstances. When statements such as 'beauty is skin deep' are made it concerns those who are not good within but deck themselves up. Those who dress well need not be bad within as well.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello ak, I do not believed with first impression either. I agree that, not everyone who dress well are bad within, and not all rich and pretty are brats. Sometimes,those who are not good looking ones are also not well-mannered. Goodness within is nature, although yes, some people can change from better to best. Thanks and have a good day
• Calgary, Alberta
6 Mar 12
But on the other hand we live in a very shallow society that cares so much with the aesthetics. But for sure there are some people out there who managed to defy the norm, Its not only inner beauty but also the way we carry our selves. I meanthere are people we wont consider attractive yet they make the 100 sexist list. I remember beautiful blonde women are stereotyped as dumb but I had seen a beautiful blonde woman who is very smart. Back to inner beauty, its something plastic surgery or makeovers cant fix. Inner beauty is all about kindness, love and compassion. (Lol Why am I being cheesier than a cheese factory)
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello Capt, That's where the saying applies "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". We have different preference/standard when it comes to physical beauty. I like tall guys, they attracts me, not necessarily with angelic face (lols). Some like chubby, some like slim, long hair, short hair- etc. I do not believed every blonde as dumb- there are black haired/gray haired who are dumb as well :p I can guess why you become chessier than cheese factory- simple, because you are in love and the one you love is not only beautiful outside- but also inside. That is why you know very well how inner beauty defines
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• India
6 Mar 12
I completlly say it's absolutly right. Because the real beauty is our inside. Out side beauty is discovered People for only temperory reasons. I admired from one person because of his inner heart, but she is also beauty as well in out look. When i admit my Grandma on hospital lots of nurses came there and they are only doing the job not taking care. But she gives care so much. She make me impressed in his first sight.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello Kasiviswanathan, Its a plus when a person is both beautiful inside and out. You are lucky to met one who possess both great qualities of physical beauty and goodness within. Thanks for the response and have a good day
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Yes i had that experience before. And I agree, it may be hard but sometimes we must look past what are eyes can see and focus more on the inner character of a person. First impression last they say, but for me its better to know the person first to know the totality of what is beautiful and what is not.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello hoodedboi, Thanks for being the first to kick this topic :) I also do no rely on "first impression" as we know there are people who are good when it comes to pretending. It's easy to pretend good for few hours to portray a good image-that's why I do not rely on first impression. It takes time to know one. Have a good day
@inertia4 (26878)
• United States
8 Mar 12
Well, being naked and walking around might stop some people and cause some accidents. LOL. No, really, you're right. Beauty is only skin deep. The real person is always inside. I also agree that the outer beauty is the first thing that catches someones attention, but to truly know who the real person is, it does take time to talk with them and learn what they are about. And if you really are a good person, that will come out.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
hello intertia, Sorry for this very late reply :xxx I guess this is due to my one month absence here :xxx You are right, a good natured person remains good and never need to show or prove it- it will come naturally. have a good day
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@inertia4 (26878)
• United States
12 Jun 12
Don't worry about the late response. And you also have a wonderful day. A good persons personality always shows and makes them more beautiful then a nasty person.
@dpk262006 (53689)
• Delhi, India
8 Mar 12
Hi Jai! You have an interesting point to make. We all say that inner beauty is more important than outwardly appearance, yet we get attracted towards a person seeing his/her outwardly appearance. You see when you start talking with someone then only you get to know how s/he is behaving and what are his/her likely traits. Whether s/he is a good speaker or a good listener? Whether s/he keeps narrating his/her woes or talk about positive things also? When I interact with a new person, it takes time for me to understand him/her and it is difficult for me to 'understand' a person in the first meeting. I am slow learner ........lol! BTW, you are beautiful inside and outside both and that is why you have many friends in life. Very Good discussion.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
hello dpk, Thanks and again I will accept the compliment because it comes from you I do not judge the person from first meeting also. Although there are times that, I have this very light and comfortable feeling towards a particular person at the first meeting- and oftentimes I trust my intuition. Nothing wrong being a slow learner- that's being observant have a good day
@dpk262006 (53689)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 12
It means that you take your time to 'understand' a new person. If you could rely on your intuition that is a plus point. Am happy to hear that slow learner are considered as good observers. Have a great Friday.
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Woot! Woot! Okay you're not naked jai And even if I haven't met you personally I can feel that you are beautiful inside and out. I won't say that I am... as I know my outside appearance and inner attitude is not at all perfect. I do think that we cannot actually see whether people are real and good inside and out unless we're always with the person. Sometimes we may feel that the person is evil - when we saw them really annoyed over something. But it could be that they were just caught in a frustrating situation where they need to let their anger and emotions burst out. For me I don't base my judgment on how a person looks. I based it on how the person talks with me or other people. Especially if I am seeing them or talks to them regularly - like an office mate, a roommate or maybe neighbors. And normally I am wrong with my first impression.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
en I hope your first impression regarding me is correct this time (hahahaha) Yes, we can never judge a person on first impression (first meeting) If we see a person for the first time being rude, maybe because he/she is caught under circumstances that is unexpected. No matter how good a person is, when provoked and needs to act differently from his/her natural character- it could happen (we can never tell) Physical looks can be judge right here and there- because we can see how the person looks like. But inner beauty is hard to determine, it takes time to know one. Even with our loved ones, relatives and people whom we live under one roof- there are instances that we are surprised when they act differently- or when unusual moods strikes them. Thanks and have a good day dear
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
@suny, Of course,you cannot choose who can meet your standards or level of understanding just to be your friend. You have people around you...your loved ones/friends who's level of understanding, IQ/EQ is not same as yours- and vice versa. But you don't have any choice but to accept them.
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@prinzcy (5082)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 12
Like you said, true beauty is inner beauty. Human are blessed with abilities to see what's inside our hearts and minds, that's why physical appearances come in handy. I am not telling anyone to dress to kill but decent outfits is enough. First impression is not always correct but they help to represent us even a tiny bit.
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@prinzcy (5082)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 12
Sorry, I meant to say "Human are not blessed". Typo. Sorry.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello prinzcy, Yes, not everyone knows the real essence of beauty. Some people never mind the character, what matters for them is the physical looks that most of the people admire and adore. I also do not believed with first impression. It's hard to detect who acts natural or who pretends especially when meeting with strangers the first time. Thanks and have a good day
@Kalyni2011 (3503)
• India
7 Jun 12
How long the outer beauty will last, it will be say for 30 years at best, but next what? It will fade out, but the inner beauty will LAST FOR EVER. A person who looks good may look bad soon if you take into account the physical body only, see the soul if you can. hugs from maa
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
dear maa, Yes, physical beauty never last. hugs to you and dada
@salonga (27973)
• Philippines
7 Mar 12
"Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised." Indeed it is hard to know all at once the inner beauty of a person. Chances are..you are will noticed first and foremost the physical looks. If the person is beautiful you will be attracted, if not you will take no extra effort to look at the person again. In most cases it really takes time to see what is inside that person. Sadly, a person with outer beauty does not necessarily mean they are also beautiful inside. In many cases many people are like graves. Outside they are white and well polished but inside... they are decaying and stinking. There are also cases that by mere talking, you can already have a hint of the inner condition of that person even if you have just met him once. When a person opens his mouth with wisdom and in his tongue you can hear the law of kindness then chances are he has the inner beauty that would bless every one. Have you ever met a woman who speak with lots of cursing even while she is only plainly talking and not really angry? Then that woman is already revealing a parcel of what is inside of her through the words of her mouth.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
7 Mar 12
hello salonga, Beauty doesn't always mean they are also beautiful inside. Having bad looks doesn't also mean they are beautiful inside. Some pretty faces possess a good character within while some bad looks also contains bad character within. We know very well that they are also people who soft spoken when mingling with people in public- but an evil once they're back home. Some people are too good when it comes to pretending - they can be a best actor/actress for mastering their role of pretending to be good while in public to create a good image- but the truth is, he/she is worst than any others. Well, people who curse a lot- at least reveals their own character and never pretends to be a good one. Unlike others who are so called righteous and most are hypocrites. Thanks for your comment and have a good day
@Hatley (157527)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Mar 12
hi jaiho eyes are windows to the soul is a famous saying and I have often noticed when meeting someone that while they are smiling and acting pleasant the woman had the coldest eyes I had ever seen. She was really quite beautiful until she looked at me then said" Oh you live there
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
dear Hatley, That's why it's hard to tell the real character of a person on the firs meeting. It takes time. There are a lot of people like the woman you've met. Same here in our country, those ones who called themselves righteous- but denies from their acts. (so bad) I hope you can find a church/congregation that really knows the real meaning of humanity have a good day ma'm
@sabado_dc (1001)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
Sis? are you serious!! hehehe well sis, theortically speaking, inner beauty shines through to reveal your outer beauty.... I am feeling good and pogi now because I am happy.. I am wearing a smile on my face because my graduation is fast approaching... this makes I think my inner beauty shines through revealing my outer beauty.... hehehehe magulo ba?
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
dear brother, I can see it! You're so pogi and it follows because you are happy and excited with your graduation (hehehe) It's same when a person is inlove- it manifest aint? Whatever makes you pogi doesn't matter at all, as long as you know who you are and you always tried your best to a good person to everyone
• India
6 Mar 12
Jane beti, you always confuse me and others here, inner beauty is the real beauty, no doubt, but most are attracted to the outer beauty that may be decicive. Hugs from Dada
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
hello dada, Yes,looks can deceive. Good looks are too deceiving and can betray us most of the time, so we need to be careful. Hugs to you and maa always