Are we seeing more homeless people in certain age groups?

@mssnow (9484)
United States
March 7, 2012 2:49pm CST
The reason I am asking is people in my age group 45 to 60 seem to have it the hardest if we lost our jobs. I could be homeless some day. I have looked and looked and looked for a job. Every where I go even McDonalds and Walmart. I can't get hired. How does one pay rent without money. Welfare wont help because my children are all grown. Cant pay rent anywhere. So it may be soon I could be homeless. Right now I am staying with a friend but that wont last forever. Seems people in my age group cant get much help from any source. I have had people say well try this place or that place and i call and they say they cant help me. You either have to have kids or be or 60. Or have a disability.I did put an ad up to trade a room for housework and hoping to hear back. So we will see what happens. Do you think there are more home less people in my age group? tell me why or why not.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
7 Mar 12
I am afraid by now you find homeless people in all age groups. Many young ones over here don't care to be homeless because they want to be free. There are many teenagers already homeless. Whole (young) families are because they can't pay off their houses/debts or their own business is bankrupt. It's hard to get a job, over here already at the age of 21, esp. if you are educated. Nobody will hire you. If you are over 40 it's the same. Being older means: more experiences, more educated = higher income. If you want to clean floors they won't hire you if you are (hig) educated, have a profession. No matter if you have kids or not (over here kids are a burden if it comes to get hired. They will always ask you what you will do if your kids get sick). I don't know if more elder people are homeless by now, I do notice that many kids keep living with the parents, or go back home so they can share the costs/rent etc.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
7 Mar 12
Well Maybe its just me but i do see a lot of older homeless people on the street. I am sure there are all ages who are homeless but most of the younger folks have families to go stay with. Me, I have no family I can stay with. Thank you for your response and i do see your point :)
@wqdayang (137)
• China
8 Mar 12
That is right:more experience,more educated=higher income. The persons who are homeless,in all probability have no professional skill.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
8 Mar 12
wqdayang. i have no professional skill because i stayed home and took care of my children while my husband worked. Now that we are divorcing i get no help from him or anyone else. But i do not regret raising my children they are very good and are all in college. doing well
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
8 Mar 12
Most of the homeless that I've seen range in the late 30s to 40s. Another thing I've noticed is that most of the homeless are men. I know they're out there, but I've never seen a woman in the same position except for on tv in other countries. I wonder why that is.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Mar 12
I think you're right even my age now seems it's already hard to find a job unless I have specific skills and keep updating them I don't have anyone to stay with in case of emergency my only choice is the shelter and they may make people with children priorities too
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
7 Mar 12
Oh they always do make people with children a priority. People like us just are out of luck and i hope you never have to experience homelessness. Even though I am not homeless it is constantly looming over my head.
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• Philippines
8 Mar 12
I'm sorry to hear about your inconvenience. Well, here in my country, there are lots of kids roaming around the streets, either selling something or begging for money. They're between 8 to 12 years old.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
8 Mar 12
Yeah i have a feeling i will be doing the same thing soon if some thing doesn't happen. Thank you
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
In my country, you find people in different age group being homeless because of poverty. Most of them begs, steals, and sleep on the streets. Even educated people has difficulty finding jobs nowadays, how much more for those who are undergraduate or of no educational background at all. Now with your age, I would say it is indeed a very difficult place to be. Employers would want to prefer younger employee for maximum production. Can your children help you? Because in my place, it is much the duty of the children to provide for their parents if they will not be able to support for themselves. It is part of our culture. I really hope they can so that it would help solve your problem. And just continue applying, who knows maybe one day you'll land a job one of days.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
8 Mar 12
no, in the US children might or might not help depending on if they want too and their financial ability. none of my children are in a financial situation where they can help. My three boys are struggling in college so until they ar e out of school they can not help. Thank you i hope so too
• United States
8 Mar 12
Some homeless people have mental health issues and they don't know how to get resources or they might be in denial about their problem. These can be people of any age and unfortunately sometimes we see veterans on the street. In the United States...if you are a U.S. Citizen...people take care of people. There are resources available to make sure everyone's needs are met. There is State assistance for food and medical. There are Care & Share Food pantries where people can get free food. There are federally funded programs like HUD where you can get subsidized rent if you are considered low income. There is also a free cell phone so people who are low income can communicate. In the state of Utah we have a resource hotline. If people need resources they can dial 211 and someone may be able to offer guidance.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
8 Mar 12
Yes i agree with you about the food help in the usa. I am on food stamps myself since i am not working and cant get a job. as far as the other resources that you state. Hud housing and all the housing programs are so backed up I have been on a waiting list for years and still waiting. Because i don't have children and not 60 I keep getting pushed back. There is no program for me I have tried everything. UNLESS you are in the situation then you have no clue how hard it is to get help. Thank you for your reply.
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
11 Mar 12
I've been in your position before and it stinks. That doesn't mean it has to stay that way though..lol What about looking into a live in job that pays a bit and gives you time off? Like a nanny, mother's helper, or care giver, pca etc.? You may have already thought of this and perhaps it's not for you..it just popped in my head when I was reading this so..I hope it helps. I've been on disability since 2005. I live with my mother who is not in the best of health at 71...She had a long hospital stay from surgery in Aug-Dec and still has the visiting nurse for bandage changes. So, now I can't try and go back to work just yet due to taking care of her...and being barely able to work, strength wise due to my own health problems, until she is a bit stronger. And then that's when I can look for work... who knows if there will be a job. If anything happened to my mom... at this point myself, my unemployed brother, and unemployed roommate would all be camping in the woods... Hope something works out for you soon.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Mar 12
With the economy being what it is right now, I think that there are more homeless people in every age group than there has ever been before. I do have a friend that is staying with us most of the time because she doesn't have a home of her own. She is actually a young adult. She is lucky, however, because her children are staying with their father right now so they do have a roof over their heads and she knows that her children are more than welcome to come stay with us if they ever need somewhere to stay as well.
@vandana7 (98826)
• India
17 Mar 12
Oh dear..perhaps you can come down and stay with me till you reach 60. Can spare you a room - no rent. We do have power outages. You would have to pay your share of power bills and earn for your living though. Of course, the standards are not as good as those in the US. But we are alive, right? And not getting as sick as predicted by pharmaceutical companies. So - you might want to consider that. You could easily get a job out here because your English is perfect. You could save up some in paypal for rents in States after you return or even property. I can only be a friend to that extent.