What are the common problems during the PREPARATION in Wedding?

Pasay, Philippines
March 10, 2012 8:54am CST
I am actually a member of femalenetwork forum so which is in other terms that is girltalk. So I was able to read the post regarding the problems during preparation in wedding. I just noticed that the common problem here is the MOTHER of the soon to be bride. Honestly it is because they are becoming STAGE MOTHERS during the preparation of wedding that they demand everything. If they don’t like the set up chances are they will scold her daughter and say such thing. Another thing is they also demand to invite everybody even if they are not close friends with the couples, but then the mother didn’t even bother to shell out for the wedding. In my opinion for this matter is that I think mothers should leave the responsibility to their children especially if they will be the one who will take responsibility for all the expense. Okay I understand they just want best for their daughter but honestly that is already overrated that can suffocate their daughter. So in your case what are the common problems when you had your preparation for the wedding?
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12 Mar 12
I must have been incredibly lucky as really there were no problems with the preparation. Mum was brilliant and just let me and hubby get on with it. She did ask for some old family friends to come to the ceremony and reception, but Mum and Dad were paying a proportion of the costs as well.
• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
That is really nice to hear that from you. Because not all people are lucky enough to prepare peacefully. I mean not all people can afford to have grand wedding and they even accept the fact that they can't afford to make it but the only thing they are wishing for is to plan peacefully which indeed it is also a nightmare. I hate it when other people interferes that much as if it is their grand day or they are going to get married all over again.
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
I smiled upon reading that one of the most common problem are the in-laws, particularly the mother as you mentioned. Well, those are part of the things that the couples must overcome. Most in-laws can really be a problem when they insist on what they want for the wedding. More than that, I think there are other things to consider as a problem but can be solved. One of them is who will be the main sponsor, the main man, the officiating official, and some other things. But a big problem would be when one of the couple about to wed hid something and during the wedding, it becomes known that he or she has another relationship with another person. I hope you'll have a great wedding.
• Pasay, Philippines
14 Mar 12
I don't have any plans to marry yet. But of course we are already dreaming and yet that is just a simple. We don't want to make it a GRAND because it is not even in our personality to make it. But then in the last sentences that you have mentioned, I've read that kind of story as well but good thing that is not always been the usual. Not unless just because they weren't able to post it. In terms of that case of having relationship with another person I think that is valid to discontinue the wedding. I mean I know how hard it is that you prepared then it will went into nothing but just think of the consequence as well if the two of you have tied the knot already. It is also hard to untied it and another money to spend just for the annulment. So we must be really WISE with our decision in choosing the partner that we want to spend for the rest of our lives.