is it possible to fall inlove in the person you didn`t seen yet??

@kini03 (222)
Philippines
March 11, 2012 11:38pm CST
in our world ,socializing is the best way to communicate to many people ,but have you ever try to fall inlove to someone you didn`t seen yet? is it possible??
5 responses
@Mashnn (4503)
12 Mar 12
You need to know the type of person you are falling in love with. I will refrain myself from falling in love with someone that I do not know well. It is hard to know whether someone is trully falling in love with you or just pretending to be unless you spend sometimes together.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yes your`e right but sometimes i think it just creating ,imagination that there is something ,when both partners , respond in their messages to each other ,yes thank you for you`re advice , honestly its happened also to me but i don`t know if this going to be true or our relationship will be worked out . long distance relationship is very hard .but i try it before ,until the day he do his promises ,to come true,but when we spend time together ,i realize that chat is different in real,i was expecting that person i chat through web is same attitude but i was wrong .. :(
@Mashnn (4503)
12 Mar 12
I agree, you are only to able to tell the real person in real life reality but sometimes through chatting or internet, things may be very deceiving.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yes :( but im thankful because i know now how to handle myself and make my self not to be inlove again so easy because i learned a lot now. on bases on my experiences i hope everybody can sure there feeling well and think about it,and better to be inlove in person not truoght in chat in any site ,because they no one will be suffer but you ..
@crystal11 (158)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 12
There is no such thing as love at first sight, what more with someone whom you haven't seen yet! Love takes time to develop and mature, culminating in both parties spending their lifetime together.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yes your`e right but sometimes i heard about the love problem of my friend she was inlove to the person she didnt seen in real .she just see it in camera only talking everyday ,like dating through internet.sounds funny but im really curious about the people who easy to beloved ,maybe because they just a good sweet lovers so they are easy to develop ,but i guess its more important if you met your`e partner in real right? because sometimes chat is nothing is true right?
• Malaysia
12 Mar 12
Oh, I see, she met him online only. That's very dangerous! How sure is she that the guy she is chatting with is really who he says he is? For all you know, he could be some kind of pervert, pretending to say those nice words. Tell her to be cautious. There are a lot of crazy people out there using the internet for immoral purposes. You are right, it will be better if a relationship starts from actually getting to know another person personally. Even if the meeting is for the first time, she should not go alone. Never go alone!
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yes i tell her also don`t give her whole trust in the guy,because im telling her for example ,he didn`t see what hes doing of his bf because it was very far he can also do cheating to him and compared to the lovers in real,they are still cheating each other how about of her situation his very far and there`s is nothing possible to do if you want it ,honestly i realize this also but i just try and prove that love one in real and in chat is really big different ,i share about things i realize after i met the guy. andi found out that trusting is very important but need to be careful and just give only 50% of love dont make it whole ,but still my friend still dont want to listen me,well i guess she was inlove deeply blind inlove lol :)
• India
13 Mar 12
I think it is not possible.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
i respect you`re opinion :) everybody have their own idea and feel about this,maybe because you never try to fall in love, dont you ?
@Zer0Stats (1316)
• India
12 Mar 12
It's not called love,it's just plain stupidity.Otherwise how can one fall in love with a complete stranger? I think it does only happen in movies,not in real life anymore..
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
i respect your`e opinion my friend.but for me i guess its true i know its such a fool thing to the person you just creating in my mind ,but honestly i one of the victim of this love problem,but im trying to share it to my friend but they dont believe me ,that`s chat and in real lover is very big diffrent its just base on my experiences ,thank you for your comments my lots :)
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
BIG NO! its just communication.. just texting,calling or chatting, etc.. First think of it! You don't know if where he/she is, you don't really know if that person saying the truth and with all her /his heart.. i can say that you just hurting your self, because theres comes in a point that, you will hurt as much as you can.. always remember that it is easy to have communication, others make it just for fun, what if that person make for fun? be very careful about falling in love, its not easy.. be careful in everything..
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yes ,i know ,this is really hard situation,to fall inlove to the person you even not met personally ,it sounds crazy and miserable,but chatting look keeps alive.i know sometimes its just for fun but i believe sometimes is it possible because look if you heard some stories that about a couple they tell us they met only in the facebook.etc.. hehe funny i guess its depends on the person ,but your`e right i must be careful with ,my heart :) ..