Do you believe in love at first sight?

@rozilynf (140)
March 12, 2012 2:08am CST
i'm not believing in love of first sight, but others say yes they do ! Lol you cannot love a person just based upon first sight, for me you need to get to know a person, spritually, physically,emotionally and chemistry of coarse. theres a step involving to get lnow each other, May be others can be just sparked quckly by physical apperance and fooled! Or it may be just a flirt.. How about you doyou belive in love at first sight?
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• South Korea
12 Mar 12
I do believe in love at first sight!! hihi well me and my hubby's case we fell inlove during the first time we saw each other.. ok it might not be love at first but were strongly attracted to each other... the funny thing is he couldnt speak my languange and he couldnt really speak english well.. so we just look into each others eyes..we dont even talk most of the time.. during our first meeting he already told me that omg i think i found the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with.. and he ask me if i would like marry him..haha i told him why not I know it sounds crazy maybe were both young and our emotion were not that easy to control haha.. after that we keep hanging out just for a while..and without even a month we decided to get married.. so far were hitting our 5 years now together.. even though we have fights sometimes.. I can say that I am so inlove with him!! and if I could turn back the time I will still say yes to his proposal.. we do believe were soulmate!!
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Lol soulmate or destiny? Hihi.. as you said that you just attracted to your hubby when you met him.. Its still not love at first sight just ang attraction.. It takes time to loves, your so lucky that you have a hubby like that, keep going strong, stay beautiful & sexy.. & ofcourse a being very happiest wife(:
• South Korea
12 Mar 12
thank you chika.. I think its only a matter of choice but your lucky if you made the right choice at the right time..hihi and Im thanking God for that..
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
And yes your really lucky hehe.. Good luck.. Godbless you.. u got a right choice in the right time..
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Nope. I don't believe it. Admiration in first sight maybe but love is a bit more complicated than what most people think it is. Generally, admiration is confused with love because they almost feel the same yet are 2 different entities. I'd probably love to lengthen my explanation but that is as good as that. Admiration in first sight is possible. Love is unlikely.
• South Africa
12 Mar 12
I do not believe in love at first sight..I just think what one feels at first sight is attraction, strong attraction, not love. How do you love something you do not know?
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Hi maneleli.. yes its just a strong attaction, or others called it just a sparked haha.. But not in love.. Because love really takes time to feel the true meaning of love..
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Attraction.. Rather
• United States
12 Mar 12
I also do NOT buy into the concept of love at first sight. I believe some people are very visual so they might be initially attracted to someones' physical appearance. A lot of men are captivated by a beautiful women but the attraction could be lust rather than love. I believe it takes time to fall in love with someone. There are other things to consider such as: compatibility and chemistry. Would I ever want to judge a book by it's cover? Probably not.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Yes falling in love really takes time, they need to know each other perfectly, honeslty i can't say i live him when the time i met him, its just like words, but truely don't have feelings.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Sorry i ( i can't say i love him) rather.. Sorry for the wrong spelling words :)
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
lol im not believing in love at first sight lmao hahaha i believe in second sight :) well better to look him looks and of course his inside ,your`e girl better to think and know if you have both chemistry to each other :) so my answer is no no no no that`s not true :)
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Lol i am not in live at first sight.. To others in live at first sight its kind of crazy and funny, no body love in just first sight..
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Love.. Rather sorry i'm using cellphone, kinda difficult to type (:
• South Korea
13 Mar 12
love at first is for people can't see what inside of a person it means you cannot love a person its like a beautiful place that you wondering when you saw at first time.so i dont believing in love at first sight.
@rozilynf (140)
13 Mar 12
yea maybe its just seeing the inner one.. the physical appearance, so its not love at first sight.. i am believing if the person in love like me, i should get the person first.. i need to test that person if he giving back love to me.. i attractive to the person also you had good looking, a sparked that might me saying that oh wow he is handsome.. things like that. but definitely not love.. love is not easy, when you say love it is a deep feeling that can't explain, but very meaningfully thats it.. right?
• India
13 Mar 12
Yes i am believe in love at first sight.
@rozilynf (140)
13 Mar 12
well its not love, its just a very strong attraction by appearance, love takes time..
@maratus (184)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
I don't believe love can come by just look in the first time. If that's happens that's not love I think maybe it just crush or like. We still don't know how they characteristic when we barely met. That's mean that we just attract to him just because his appearance. And that's not "pure love"
@rozilynf (140)
13 Mar 12
definitely is not love.. its just an attraction by looking her/his by inner looking.. by physical looking, theres no pure love in the first seeing, you have to know each other first, getting to know each other right? maybe the people telling that its about love, its just an puppy love ha ha ha..
• India
12 Mar 12
I do believe in love at first sight. Speaking scientifically, we regularly make up our minds whether an individual could be an appropriate match within the first three minutes of talking to her.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Lol your funny that you do believe in live at first sight? Ha ha ha to tell you honestly do you experienced that? well its just a BIG NO that you fall in love with her, you just attracted with her.. its nit in love. How can you say that it is love? in just upon seeing? Theres no scientifically about there. Speaking in love, its not easy to say LOVE, its so difference on whats on your mind,
12 Mar 12
I think that it depend from some things. I don't really believe in that, but there are a lots of people that believe in it. I think that you can try attraction for one person, but if you would like to fall in love with him/her you have to know what type of person is.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
Yes loves take time, its not just in one seen you fall in love with that person.. others believe & say its true its really i BIG NO! How come that you just upon first seen you fall in love? or its just the sign of flirting, that want to attract her/his..
12 Mar 12
I would not call it love at first sight but rather infatuation. It takes years to establish love between two souls. I've encountered even couples who have been husband and wife for many years do not have a healthy relationship. Why? Because there is no love. Love to me is always selfless, pure and unbiased. If you are married to a person, there are many assumptions I can make. 1) You married the person because you love him/her 2) Because the person is wealthy 3) Because you need to get married You see love is very difficult to define. It is just not so easy to get. It is a rare one, but trust me if you get this treasure, you will feel the heaven. In today's fast society we all take things for granted. We consider a simple smile, a lusty stare or a simple affection love. But in the end it is a hidden treasure which is hard to define and difficult to get.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
thanks for that trouper, it takes time to fall in love but not in first sight, i didn't kind of person who loves in just first seeing, its not love.. its just strong attraction for others..
@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
I believe love at the first sight.. :P Cause I experienced it myself.. lol.. I don't know how it happened, but it happened. Honestly, he wasn't the cutest guy.. but, i just knew i loved him right at the first sight.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
i still don't believe in love at first sight, how can you fall in love with the her/him in just first sight? to me i don't trust first sight may be its not for long relationship, but i do respect your opinion about that.. have a happy loves life!
@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
you mean that one who said i love you, they you believe and start love with him. not believe-able to do so. The yo will have to checkout that now at once but later will take time.