This is my new life

@nytrisco (567)
Philippines
March 13, 2012 8:29am CST
For the past 5 or 6 months, I didn't had a moment to open my mylot page or even my other social internet sites. These months I think were the most difficult days of my life. My dad evicted me and my dog out of the house due to conflicts and issues that his second wife made. So my dog and I got no place to go but to stay with my relatives. He doesn't want to listen to me anymore, I really don't know why. He chose to defend my stepmom and not me. My stepmom and I had an argument about her bad and boastful attitude, a lot of people do notice her different and not so good attitude towards people esp to me when I am away. And yet my dad chose to stand and defend her. My dad's last words were "How dare you act like this?!!! Leave this house now! I do not need you anymore! You already hurt my feelings especially my wife's feelings. I will not forgive you! You're no longer my son and I won't give any single cent to your name!" he added,"Leave now and stay to your friends house or where ever you want! I don't want to see you again!". I tried to explain to him what had happened and what REALLY happened, but his mind was so close and doesn't want to hear every words I spoke to him. I had no choice but to leave my real mother's house, tears flowed while I packed my clothes, gadgets, and everything that is belong to me. My dog doesn't have a clue of what is happening at that time, he thought I was just playing and after I packed everything, he wanted me to grab his leash, he thought we were just going to visit my cousin's house. I sat on one of the corners of my room, crying and thinking how could my dad do that to me, his own son, and his own blood. Now I live with my relatives and my cousin's boyfriend adopted my dog since they wouldn't allow me to place my shihtzu inside their house and I wouldn't want him outside the house, inside a cage nor on a leash all day. It is very hard to live with relatives, even if you are close to them since you have a different rules and house policies. it is so hard. I wanted to move to an apartment but I cannot afford to rent a house or room with my currently salary. Well this is my life, it sucks.
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8 responses
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Sorry for going through rough times, but probably enduring your situation and having a the right perspective on what direction to take would surely make a better person out of you.
@nytrisco (567)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
That's what my friends and other relatives tells me, to start a new life, move on and go on what direction I really want to take. But I really want to tell my dad everything, every single thing about my step mom.
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
In due time my friend. Let your father be for awhile for he might find out the true color of your stepmom's skin, as well as for his anger towards you tone down, and surely sooner or later, he would realize the pain he has caused against you. So, for the time being, keep yourself busy, and maybe sooner than you think your father will be knocking at your door.
@nytrisco (567)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Thank you for that wonderful advice, I appreciate it. I really hope that he will eventually realize every thing.
@beenice2 (2283)
• Canada
13 Mar 12
It is something unthinkable that you dad did that act of selfishness. I hope for your sake that he had just an emotional state of the moment and that he get over it. Is your real mother still alive? Can you go live with her,is she in a position that she can help you out, find out if it can be done,to have her help.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Your dad's words could be just because of anger. I do hope that in time this will all be put behind and you will both mend this relationship. For now pray that things will go right for them and for you. Maybe you could take this as an opportunity to test your will and strength, develop the attitude necessary to attain means to survive and succeed, and show that you have fallen but risen. Try to live life looking at the positive side but always learning from the negative. I bid you good luck on your journey!
@nytrisco (567)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Thank you so much for the response, I will always keep that in mind. After he told me those hurtful words, I asked myself "Do I really knew my dad? Was he the one who really said that?". It's kinda wierd but every comments here are all positive and I really do appreciate it. But what I am currently feel right now is purely negative, betrayal, anger and revenge (esp to my stepmom). Maybe its just a defense mechanism to overcome this but it is purely negative.
@maratus (184)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
I am sorry hearing your story. There is nothing I can't do to help you. I just that your life is gonna be better and your father realize his mistakes. Hope your life gonna be patient buddy, I hope the best for you...,
@nytrisco (567)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I really hope that my life will be better now, its been 5 or 6 months after that incident but it feels like it was like yesterday.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I am so sorry to hear your story.I don't know what to say about your dad,but, I hope and wish someday he will realize his mistake. I will never choose any man not even a husband in exchange of my son or daughter. Pray that your dad will realize what he had done. Believe that, truth will always prevail at the end.
@nytrisco (567)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Thanks for the response, after that incident I said to myself that in the future I will love my children so much and will never do the same thing that my dad did to me.
@TrvlArrngr (4058)
• United States
27 Mar 12
Have faith. He will learn her true colors and come back to you. I feel so bad for you. It must be heart breaking. I hope it resolves soon. You should not be treated like that. Your dog also does not need to be treated like that.
@bellis716 (4807)
• United States
15 Mar 12
I'm sorry about your disagreement with your father and stepmother. Hang in there. Things will get better.
@marguicha (81792)
• Chile
15 Mar 12
I am very sorry for what has happened to you. Are you studying or working? Maybe that will help you forget a bit all your troubles and start a new life until you can make amends with your father. I know that time will come, but it takes some time.