Hi all...update for today....13Mar12

It makes me mad. I wish she could find a place for her daughter so she isn't right there with her disrespecting her. I have lived through this recently with my granddaughter and i know how frustrating this treatment can be. And they don't even realize it bugs us and thinks we are so horrible for saying something about their behaviour.

Yes, it is really very upsetting that gifts are being back, it shows that the child is not happy with the gift. It makes you sad but try to understand the kid and be patient because he/she doesn"t know yet the sentimental value of gifts or whatever things being given. Let the child understand that whether he/she like the gift or not, still must accept and keep it.

Thanks for the updates, Bjc! As for KK, I see a lot of comments but truthfully, much of that was, in my opinion, Gifts spoiling her. I've been talking with Gifts about this for as long as I've been on here. I had a daughter that was very troubled and it is hard...very hard. But you have to put your foot down and if you don't, it gets worse. In my heart, I can't 100% blame KK though she is responsible for her own actions. Gifts is too. They BOTH have issues that need to be addressed.

I'd been gone for awhile and hadn't followed all of her discussions. I know she's private abotu some of the things she has to deal with as well she should be. I am hoping though that she gets better, I know her child just needs to be out of that house. She's causing too much stress. On Gifts last discussion where she was talking about doing that, I told her that Adrian loves her and she shouldn't leave him because of all that is going on with her daughter. Her daughter needs to wake up and grow up. Anyway I am hoping Gifts is doing better, and that she'll be able to come home soon but as I said before in your other discussion this gives her a break to be away from her daughter.

I know Gifts has been so stressed out is becasue of her daughter! No wonder she wanted to take a handful of pills! I wish she would wash her hands of that b*tch!! The more I read,in Gifts discussions,how disrespectful she really is! She just doesn't get it or want to get it!! I really don't think she cares about your mom or cares what she has done to her! I would not put up with that sh*t if my son acted like that!

I´m so sorry that gifts is again at the hospital. I suppose there´s nothing to say about gifts relation with her daughter as she will not listen. Unfortunatly she is ruining her life and all her chances of being happy. Please keep us posted, bc. Thanks!

Wow, quite a shock. And her counselor did not want her to put her out at 18. Hmmmmm. I hope things go more smoothly. I know she also did not like to take all her meds as they made her sleepy.