a relationship so complicated? :(

Philippines
March 14, 2012 2:49am CST
what makes a relationship complicated? feel free to share your thoughts :)
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9 responses
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Relationships become complicated when it lacks in communication. If each of the couple is neither open to his/her thoughts and feelings, complications occurs. It causes misunderstanding/misinterpretation. Also, it causes the couple to have doubts to each other, which ruins the relationship because "TRUST" issue comes in too.
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Yes, because communication not only happens physically. It happens inside each other's hearts. The heart understands even without a word. Then, the mind will follow what the heart says.(i think!..hehe!) =)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
oh? i see, so its all has something to do with the heart. how about those broken-heart people who are products of these LDR break-ups? i think the heart is sometimes selfish. hahaha.
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
i think trust really plays an important part in a relationship in avoiding or preventing complications, but how about those in people engaged in long-distance relationships, who ended up parting ways? Are they still included in or a product of miscommunication/ the lack of communication thing? :)
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
i think relationship goes complicated when the partners feels uncomfortable to each other or one of the couple are hiding secrets to his/her partner. Its also become complicated when the couple lost their love for their partner. There are lot of reason why relationship become complicated but the best thing is just be sweet to your partner and always give time to each other and also give trust.
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
i think this uncomfortable thing happens when a third party is involved! based from observations, they are the 1st in the best factors that complicates a relationship. when a third party/person is involved it simply affects everything - trust, loyalty, love was no more. And CHEATING happens!
@padu19 (1441)
• India
17 Mar 12
I would say 'Stop thinking too much!'. The more we think about a relationship, the more complicated it becomes(or probably we make it!). An idle mind is a devil's workshop - this proverb is so true with respect to relationships.
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
how can i stop thinking that much when i am undergoing this stage.. its hard you know.. :(
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Relationships become very complicated when you complicate simple things. They also get complicated when the two of you are misunderstanding each other. I do believe relationships are complicated sometimes but we can simplify them. What i recommend is to buy books about woman/man psyche such as "Men are from mars, women are from venus." That book tells you about each gender's own psyche and you can both understand each other better since it warns you of the male/female (mis)understanding. Well, have a great day.
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
yeah, books can also help in relationships, of which they serves as basic guides. nice one :)
@Sindrum91 (254)
• United States
14 Mar 12
2 different minds, sometimes think different things. Some people are set in their ways and won't change in benefit of the relationship. Most people think that their way is the right way. And aren't open to making sacrifices for others. Lack of communication Creates huge problems as well, thus making relationships very complicated at times. The more you communicate and the more open you are to listening to the other person's feelings the less complicated a relationship should become. Easier said than done. Anyway those are a couple factors in my opinion of why a relationship can be so complicated! Good luck to you! :)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Yeah. you're right. In a relationship, there are only two persons needed, one who listens and one who trust, right? :)
• Philippines
14 Dec 12
It's when you fight a lot! It's one of the reasons why most relationships became so complicated. :)
@maezee (41997)
• United States
14 Mar 12
A lot of things can. When kids are involved, it's instantly complicated. When fighting, mixed emotions, breaking up and making up over and over again, I feel like it gets complicated. There are so many reasons a relationship can get complicated, that I don't even really know where to begin... I could write all day on this....
• United States
14 Mar 12
Relationships can be complicated if the people involved are not compatible enough to communicate with each other. There can also be problems if one or both people have unreasonable expectations of each other and if they make inaccurate assumptions. Often times people who are in a relationship with each other try to change each other and that is always a mistake. When 2 people enter into a committed relationship they suddenly decide that they 'own' or possess each other so they might try to control the other person. Also...lack of trust, respect and love can be a problem in any relationship.
• India
14 Dec 12
Hi friend, we must be loyal to our partner and have good understanding and trust with them, if we try to cheat our partner then our relationship will be complicated. we must avoid unwanted things as well as EGO to have a peaceful life