Long Time Love

Philippines
March 15, 2012 11:17am CST
well,my best friend and i have been classmates since we were toddlers. we've been practically together in almost all of our lives. so i know who were the ones that she had crushes on and the ones that actually became her boyfriends. apparently, about 10 years ago, when we were in high school, she had this crush on one of our classmates. they never became a couple though. and though several years have passed, several relationships came and gone, she admits that she still have those special feelings towards this guy... unfortunately though, this guy doesnt even notices her... they are both my friends tho. Sometimes i joke my friend to make things easier for her and confess her feelings. but she promises never ever to do that. ahhh, i can't help but feel like she patiently waits for something uncertain....
5 responses
@vimal1990 (116)
16 Mar 12
ya long time love will every end forever.. though both of them have been splited or some problem between them.. because of that they where not talking or separated.. but there heart will be thinking them only always and forever... Love wont have end..
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
apparently, it's one sided... that feels kind of terrible if you're the only one who's in love and that you would always be thinking about it forever...
@Faith1118 (112)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Best thing to do is to let your friend know that she might need to open her feelings and redirect it to another person, or just be open to possibilities that this guy which she had a crush on for so long might not share the same feelings towards her, he doesn't even notice her so even if it might hurt your friend it is still best to tell her straight so that she would be able to wake up from the long sleep that she is in to right now. And take her life back...you know it is hard to wait for something that you know will not come, even how hard you try, unless you believe in destiny.
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
i so agree with that faith1118... thanks for posting
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
i think it is better if you let her realize her own feelings. i know it is hard to control people when their hearts are involved hehe and i know you are concerned too because she is your best friend. let us just hope for the best for her. someday she will realize it too and she will find someone who will also love her just as much
• Malaysia
16 Mar 12
It is really something we don't know, uncertain. Sometimes we do not know either this is a good thing to be with people that we loved once before. We might not know the ending would be get in the red carpet or just suddenly broke again...but if she means to be, just grab the change.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Mar 12
So let her wait and see if the feelings of 10 years ago are still realistic. You can paint a picture of someone from years ago and still see that person that way. i think it's not of your business to push anyone to show feelings since you also don't know what the result will be. I don't believe we ever know an other person for 100% even if we feel close.