Falling in love with Mr. Playboy.

Philippines
March 17, 2012 7:46am CST
Hi guys, I just want to share something about love. Well, I have this friend of mine who really likes the guy. And the guy likes her back. This guy has looks,the intelligence and the money, but then he is somewhat a playboy. He make the girls fall in love with him then ditched them whenever he like. There was also a time when he ask a girl to be his girlfriend because of a DARE.You know the truth or dare concept. Then it was our prom He asked my friend to dance then he said they're just friends. I don't know where this relationship will go. I'm just keeping my mouth shut cause I don't want to judge the boy. Maybe he's changed.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Mar 12
Well this has nothing to do with judging but if I were your friend I'd keeo my distance from him and my options open. That's a pretty cruel thing to do to somebody what he did to that girl on a dare. In fact you know what I am going to judge, truth is judging isn't a bad things when the facts are glaring at you, and the facts can spare you from getting hurt. Fact#1 He thinks he's GOD's gift to women clearly, he knows he's good looking, he knows he's smart, he knows he has money and he knows he can get girls to fall for him and then ditch them. Fact#2 he asked a girl to be his girlfriend on a DARE? that's the most arsenine thing I've ever heard. Could you even imagine the emotional highs and lows that girl must've gone through???? He's a complete @ss Fact#3 and this should set off some bells in your friends head, he asks her out then tell her "we're just friends" so he sets her up to let her down, WOW, again he's an @ss. Tell your friend to run from that sham of a relationship, 'cause he ain't ready and playboys don't normally change just like that, but it's her heart she's taking a chance with. I just hope she doesn't live to regret her decision.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Mar 12
*keep*
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
Thank you for your comment. Yeah, he asked a girl in a dare, even for a girl like me, learning about the truth about the dare, it's really hard to take. Well, I think it's because of pride as well, you know, the feeling of being respected. Yeah, I also agree with you, asking the girl to a dance then just saying they're friends. That's a downer. I think I'm gonna suggest that. I really don't wanna see my girl crying.
@jd107nette (1458)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
Why o why are boys like this always seem so attractive? I mean, some of the girls are even aware that he is a playboy, yet they risk a try hoping that they may be able to change the guys behavior. Ugh.... ive had friends who were also victims of playboys and i feel really bad whenever they cry over them breaking their hearts.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Mar 12
I'm probably the most heartless person on this earth, cause I don't feel sorry for them and I'll tell you why. I'm a very practical person I watch,listen and observe and if a man is player 9 out of 10 he's gonna play you. Women like to go into relationships thinking that they can change a man WRONG. But my big question is why would I want to risk getting my heart hurt when the FACTS are staring me in my face???? Like I said I'm a practical person, and if any of my girlfriends got involved with a playboy after I advised you not to, my sympathies for you flew out the window the moment you let him into your heart,because you're grown and knew what you were getting into.
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
If he is certified playboy, for sure he is famous and your friend is aware of this guy's reputation. Maybe you are right, maybe he has changed. Even playboy has a heart, they also fall in love, the problem is, when they fall in love, sometimes it is the time the turn around goes back to them and feel the pain they've caused to others. Just cross your fingers for the best, and wish your friend good luck.
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@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
You mentioned about prom, so this means that you are only in high school. If that's the case, then I suggest don't get seriously with the relationship. You are too young, focus on your studies first.
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@maratus (184)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 12
Maybe he really change, we should give him time to change and prove that he change to be a better boy. But do not really fall for him, because we still don't know is he really change or just playing around (acting)..., just be careful with playboy they are silky and the most dangerous man in this world..,
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• India
27 Jun 12
I commend you for not judging this guy and for not saying anything against him to your friend. You think he is a playboy of sort because of the things you have heard. You do not have solid proof of his true nature. Also, you do not know the reason why he ditches girls. Maybe no one just knows him enough.
• India
18 Mar 12
All Boys are not bad and all girls are not Angels :) Believe and love until they are honest with you ...for any reason you observed change ..then think and act on the situation :) If play Boys start love they it will be so deep :) you are unable to estimate it :)
@myzhian (586)
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
This is actually a natural characteristic of man in nature, to be more dominant and engaging in nature than for us women. Some man have more stronger dominating behavior that others wherein they prove their masculinity by having many girls around them, It is a natural masculine ego. These men uses different kind of strategy to make a girl fall into their desires. The most common behavior they use as their attractive mechanisms are sense of humor and gentleman effect to make the girls feel comfortable and especial with their companionship and soon fall in love with them. I have known some people who have this characteristics and some of them are my close friends. But even though they have this attitudes, they still have their one and only especial girl in their life. And they are more afraid of losing that girl, and this is the kind of weakness that is so much harder for them to face.
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
Just tell your friend to be cautious with the guy.You wouldn't want to hear that ths guy has broken her heart & some other girl's heart.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
i understand your concern because she is your friend. i think it is best for you to advice her that she has to be careful because she might just get hurt sooner or later if this boy does something. but that is also good that you give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he has also changed already. just try to be there for your friend because in time like this where the heart is involved, it really is hard to control it heheheh
@florizel (58)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
A man who love to play with girls will always be like that. Even he will love a person truly still he cant be trusted. I pitied those people who don't know how to value the love that others has given to them. Time will come they will suffer a lot because, even if they wanted to change still that mark (being a playboy) will always be with them.
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
hmmmmmmmmmm...for my opinion i know we cant judge the person.. he has the right and maybe he has change but we cannot trust him... all we can do is to keep an eye on him and give him a chance but dont trust him because we dont know what he is up to...
@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
It's pretty hard to fall in love to playboy but hoping he'll change in the name of love. Maybe he will change for the better, for he really adores your friend. You know what I've been through this and it didn't work for me, he played so hard on me. Well, already get over it and it's his lost.. And with you, just try to observe the guy, If you want to comment, feel free to express it to your friend. If she's your friend you'll tell her what you feel..
@prinzcy (5086)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 12
Playboys do have natural charm that sweep girls off their feet by just talking. They also have lots of idea to fool around. But if he ask your friend to the prom as friends, then go as a friend. Don't show any interest whatsoever. Plus it's best if your friend don't hope for more than that.
• Indonesia
17 Mar 12
i am very unhappy with playgirl or playboy, love is not to be hurt in love is not just about monay but more than that love takes loyalty