MASK and LIE

@maratus (184)
Indonesia
March 21, 2012 4:16am CST
Do you often find friend, collages, and even family that wearing MASK to hide their true characteristic. They pretend to be good and so nice in front of us or in front of another people. Then when they talk with another they talk everything about us especially our badness. They seem really care with us, looks happy when we tell them our happiness, but the real is they are JUST PRETENDING. They just WEARING MASK...,
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Yes, there are lots of people are like that and I have many friends who are like that. I see them everyday since I hang out at my daughter's school everyday. They are very pretentious even though I knew that they always talk bad behind my back or everytime when I am not around. So, what I did is to pretend also that I like them.
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• Canada
22 Mar 12
I do have a friend who wears a mask in public. When he meet someone, he can't stop be anoying to this person by picking on him. I beleive in that way he learn more about how is this person and what is its limit. When I am alone with him I do see its true personnality. I am the rare one to know this... So yeah I beleive that a lot of people are using masks and according to me there are usefull.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Unfortunately, I think many people are like them lately. What's worse is people who are so double sided. What's worse are people who says bad things about your friends when you are talking to them but when they are talking to your friends they would say bad things about you. It seems like they want you to fight and when you confront them, they would deny saying bad anything about you or your friends. Or they would accuse you that he/she just related what you said
@Runite (307)
• United States
22 Mar 12
Laughter is the greatest disguise, not just of happiness but for personal interests. I hate it when someone tries to cling onto me just for my answers and nothing else or anything for the matter of fact, I wouldn't mind if they asked outright for it but to go that low for it? I wouldn't even tell them the first letter of it.
@almond24 (1250)
• Hungary
21 Mar 12
Yes, I know many people who are like that. Who are as sweet as honey when they talk to you, but behind your back they say the worst things about you. The interesting thing is that they often get what they want, career, good partner, etc. either because many people believe that they are really what they are like, or they are afraid of their other side.
@rpaler (30)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Everyone wears a mask. Everyone... All of us, no exception. We all have something we wish to hide from people we meet everyday. We all have secrets.
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
yes.. i have friends who are like that... some of them pretending that they are rich but i know that they are in debt, some pretend that they are happy with their married life but they are not, some friends that i have pretended that they are good to me and sincere about our friendship and they keep on saying that they are happy for me but actually when i am not with them they try to pull me down or say bad things about me... some of them pretending that they are straight but they are gays,,
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Yes there are people like that back bite you,and they are pretender and you will only know if you heard something bad gossip about you from other friends that you known .Hope you find the best good friend that understand you and honest
@Mashnn (4503)
21 Mar 12
Most people are like that. The best thing to do is not to trust people so easily. Take your time to learn your friends/colleague properly and know what to tell them and not what to say.
@5mahi05 (667)
• India
21 Mar 12
I can see such people all around me. I wouldn't say that they speak only bad things about me, but they just speak about me. I guess it is common for people to speak about others and everybody does that. I also do that, and I am 100% sure that you will also do that. I find it offensive only when they speak bad and wrong things about me, when I am not wrong or bad. I wouldn't mind them discussing about my mistakes because I am sure we'll also do the same. But I personally will never speak bad about anyone even if they are bad. I would just ignore them. There are ways of treating people, and it is one way of treating people by constantly speaking about them. The one's pretend are the biggest cowards of all time. I mean, if you hate someone, why are you speaking to that person. Why can't you just ignore and put yourself out! These people are jobless enough to sit and speak about others and pretend to be all gooey gooey in front of the same.
• China
21 Mar 12
My previous colleague shows same as what you described above. I dont know why it seems she is very laborious in the office but in dormitory she is seldom even never doing cleaning.