He's creepy!

By Toni
@toniganzon (48524)
Philippines
March 22, 2012 7:29pm CST
Yesterday i wrote about a hater telling my friends bad things about me. Specifically saying i'm ugly and stupid and not a good mom because i play with my son's toys. And he was doing that in a chatroom telling men SHE knew me well. One of my friends just got mad, got HER ip address and found out the truth. That SHE turned out to be a HE. He used a different username on the chatroom so that he won't be caught, pretending to be a close girl friend of mine to gain credibility while ruining my reputation. My friend gave him a lesson and told him to apologize to me by sending me a mail. My friend gave him an email that i don't use and yeah i did get a letter of apology. And this is what he wrote: i am sorry if i caused any toruble i wanted to make xxx jelous and no i am not from US i am from India.I said that to make him not like you please tel him to remove the virus i am sorry if i caused any trouble to you and to your family. How sick could this guy be? And to think that i don't even know him at all nor have i any idea about his real identity.
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18 responses
@SIMPLYD (78118)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
That's why i don't join any chat room at all. Some people could just be utterly making lies or pretending to be somebody when they are not. So be careful Toni, so it won't happen again next time. And could it be that He is indeed from India?
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@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
I'm certain he's from India. My friend was able to locate his specific location because of his ip address. I don't talk much on that chat room. I just stay there so that i could let the admin know about my activities which is a requirement in that site. I only talk to my friends and i don't linger long.
@SIMPLYD (78118)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Well, at least now you know from where he is. Just be careful though Toni in those chat rooms.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
I am D! And i discovered more. That man was encouraged by an American woman because she was so jealous of me. Now i know.
@inertia4 (27395)
• United States
23 Mar 12
Creepy is creepy. That is something. He must be a pervert looking to get his rocks off. I don't know anyone who would go to those lengths to ruin someones reputation just to be able to get close to you. And like you said, you don't even know who this creep is. But you see how they all say they are from the U.S.? I guess they look at us americans as a holes. You need to be careful. I have been in chat rooms where every time a nice looking girl popped up, these creeps were all over them. Protect yourself form these creeps.
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@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Thank you. He's certainly not from the US, I can tell by the way he wrote his mail. I think he used the US as an excuse so that his identity wouldn't be known and he's not that smart enough to use the American's identity thinking they're a holes. He's just stupid and thought he could get away with that but he didn't as he is stupid.
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@inertia4 (27395)
• United States
26 Mar 12
Then is is a moron. Look, just be careful. Always look to protect yourself. I hope you have some good close friends that are on your side to be there for you in case of anything.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
Thanks. I will try to be more careful from now on.
@lampar (7597)
• United States
23 Mar 12
HE definitely is creepy, pretending to be a SHE and spread bad rumor about you, he must have too much free time in his hand, going around conducting character assassination on you among your social networking friends. Just relax, HE will not be able to continue in his nefarious intention much longer after you tear his fake persona and username in the chat room into pieces, no friends of yours is going to believe a word from him anymore. I don't believe in him either after kwoning what HE had done to destroy your reputation online. Don't worry, my friend, HE can't do you any more harm later after this exposure. He under-estimate your ability to discredit his dirty tactic and turn the table against him, you are the smart one this time, YOU win and HE lose. That is what matter for now. ]
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@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
He got banned immediately and i'm not sure if the virus was removed from his computer. None of my friends believed what he said and he's just plain stupid to think he could get away with it. Thanks.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
do not mind this person anymore and just let him be and i am sure he has learned his lesson not to be a bully over the net thinking other people will not mind him and not do something about what he is trying to do - now for sure he knows that he can't get away with anything he does. i am sure too you could not be the only victim in the past and he might have done this to others too.
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@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
I never for a moment minded him. I didn't even reply to the mail he sent me. He's not worth wasting my time at all. He got punished already and that's enough for me.
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
i seen nothing wrong with playing together with your kids. i even see parents who watch cartoons and play computer games with their children. see no bad interpretation on them. this woman who is a man should need to mind his own business rather than taking time to annoy a woman who just care to be with her kids. so it it is so amazing that a man would waste his time to pretend to be a woman and speed up lies and other rumors s deserve to get a life of his own rather than waste his precious time to things which out of his scope..
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@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
It only shows that that person is someone who has nothing to do with his life. He's very stupid.
@yanzalong (10150)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 12
I just don't dig how come such a man wasted his time disturbing people. Did he get any benefit out of it?
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
23 Mar 12
you have to really be careful online. especially in these chat rooms. people are crazy online sometimes. chat rooms are also the number one way to catch virus. that's why i do stuff like my lot.
@yanzalong (10150)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 12
I never enjoy chatting that way. You are right, it is the place for spreading virus.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Of course he didn't get any benefit from it. He just learned his lesson. He got a virus and got banned from that site.
@dpk262006 (56115)
• Delhi, India
2 Apr 12
HI! All well that ends well. It was really bad on that guy's part to comment about your character or about you. Hope he will mend his ways.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
Dee, i think he was encouraged by that old woman i told you about. He likes me, she likes him. So they both agreed to do something to destroy me or him. People can get crazy sometimes.
@Micmac (7724)
23 Mar 12
What a freaky creep pretending to be a She while it is a He. Miserable prat causing problems with a virus and sneaks around saying bad things about you. That apology sounds sick but no as nauseatingly sick as the disgusting heartless apology I have just received from a similar internet twisted creep likewise who messed me up. Be careful dear about those harrassing type of creeps out there in cyberland.
@Micmac (7724)
23 Mar 12
sp: 'not as' sorry dear, I got carried away typing fast and your mentioning that creep reminds me of the trecherous malicious coward lewd internet creep who bugged me.
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
Be careful about this guy.He seems to be a desperate/obsessive stalker & has bad intentions on you.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Certainly obsessed stalker! He got banned and i don't think i'll be seeing him at all and i haven't even met him before that at all.
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
Hello toniganzon! Ignore that stranger, you're wasting your time lamenting about what he did to destroy your reputation. Don't let him affect you or else he will succeed.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
No way i would waste my time on someone i haven't even met at all. He got punished and that's it. I've been vindicated and i don't see any point in lamenting over such a no nonsense person.
• United States
23 Mar 12
Thats the biggest problem with getting online. You really do not know who your talking too. There are so many people out there who do have mental problems and some who are just plain mean. We all take that chance when we get online. i am glad that it did not turn out worse for you as it has for others.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
I never talked to him at all! He just turned up when i wasn't there and told my friend bad things about me to ruin my relationship with that person!
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
Hello toniganzon, Don't REMOVE the VIRUS, let him live that mistake through out the rest of his days! such an abusive fart shouldn't be allowed to be given a chance to discredit some one else's. such a looser and should get a life instead. I hope this creep isn't from mylot though. he'd better leave you alone for sure.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
That's what i told my friend. I told my friend i couldn't forgive that person and i wish he wouldn't remove the virus. However, i told him it's his decision to make but i'm really not gonna forgive that person. Well, he got banned as the owner of the site sent me a personal mail and convinced me not to leave the site because of that creep.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
Way creepy! i mean why would he do that or than the fact that he is creepy and maybe sick too???
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Really sick! He's a psycho who's got no balls to tell me he's attracted to me and did the other way around to get my attention. Well he got banned anyway.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
23 Mar 12
In most social media, we always caught up with those unidentifiable persons, and we just let it go. They can be someone living from far, far away, and intend to impersonate another person to get close to you. So, if you get too attached to them, you might end up disappointed. So, let it go, and be carefree whenever you really in those social media website. Good luck!
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Strange thing is that i have never converse with that person and he's not even on my friends' list.
@SomeCowgirl (32271)
• United States
23 Mar 12
I Swear people on the internet can be real creeps! I hate that this happened to you and I know that I would be very freaked out and irirtated by this person. I once had a person through an online money making site find out where I was and my name, and started telling everyone my name. I was so upset and scared that he would try to find me as he said he would.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Those are people who just don't have anything to do with their lives at all.
@Rick1950 (1546)
• Lima, Peru
23 Mar 12
I think this is an unpleasant experience for you. What about if you take a break off the chatroom for a while and visit other sites or links, so you can breath fresh air? Maybe it were good to surf on other waters of the internet.
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
You know how long i took a break from that site? I just came back because of the owner of the site. I don't even spend time chatting there. I just stay for 30 minutes to an hour, and don't talk much either. I only talk to one or two friends but don't stay long.
@shebacs (178)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
How rude of some people. I really think an internet privacy and security law should be passed. There's just so many people that don't have good etiquette.
• United States
23 Mar 12
There are crazy people everywhere. Be careful not to leave any of your info that weirdos can show up by you.