Do You Think That Mylot Newbies Are Expecting Too Much?

@arviez (183)
Philippines
March 24, 2012 3:27am CST
I noticed that most created discussion now on Mylot are created by Mylot newbies and it seems that every weekend newbies are very active in posting discussions and even comments on Mylot. I just dont know what are their expectations but the main thing I know is that they go here cause they want to make money, find someone to talk to and find place where they feel they belong. I remember my days here when I'm still using my old account gavrilovich that I'm so excited to open my email account and to know if how many respond on my discussion and eager to know their reactions and opinions, so excited and happy at the same time to see them commenting back on my post, messaging me and adding me as their friends too those days and until now that I have my new account still the feeling is the same still excited as I stay that long on Mylot even if I'm not already a newbie here. Do you think newbies are expecting too much here on Mylot? Does newbies are more active than weekends than weekdays? Share your views.
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31 responses
• Japan
24 Mar 12
Hi Arviez, I agreed with you, most or lot of newbies are expecting a lot here in mylot especially on how to make money here they even thought that senior users of mylot has some tricks on how to increase their earnings and stuff. I notice that most of newbies rather ask than to read and learn or find out their self on how work on mylot. They actually don't take efforts on how to work on mylot just like " why should read when I can ask " right? and when newbies finds out that earnings are slow and needs lot of time of effort and participation they will suddenly dissappear haha I remember most of newbies ask a lot about earnings, why decreasings, how to make lot of money here and blabla
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• Japan
26 Mar 12
You're right arviez, most of newbies thought that mylot is get rich quick scheme. Just simple thoughts if they want more or passive money income then put a labor work in that way they could get triple the amount of money they could earn online
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Absolutely true. Well done
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
That is true if you want to stay here dont expect that too much starting from the day you sign up. If you want to earn big here then work your expectation put a labor in it and Mylot will give you for what you deserve.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
24 Mar 12
Maybe at the week-ends there appears to be more new users because they are off school? In that case they are youngsters and probably think that on myLot they can get a quick dollar or two after reading articles posted elsewhere by those who promote it incorrectly. Too many blogs and articles are promoting it as an earning site while that is not, in my opinion and that of many others, the main feature here. Those who come expecting to earn quickly and without putting in much effort will indeed be expecting too much.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
25 Mar 12
Indeed Patience is what seems to be missing these days in many walks of life, including myLot
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 12
hi arviez just lost all my pretty long pretty neat comment lol grr rr. just saying when I first came here I was gungho to make umpty nine posts and a ton of money.what I made was a big headached and jus a few cents. I read something Diana said.I stopped m aking a quota of inane posts. made fewer but quality ones then commented on others commennts and started having fun and relaxing,. to my utter amazement I had some re ally nice earnings and got that for having fun and enjoying commenting b ack and forth.
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
Agree on you both guys that most newbies are really lack of patience and it is really sad but that is life. There are some newbies whom never expecting that they were surprise that Mylot is giving them free money by just keep posting and sharing their thoughts and that makes me happy to know about.
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• United States
24 Mar 12
Yes, people who are new to MyLot will often expect a lot from here, and it's best not to expect anything. You have to put what you can into it.
• United States
30 Mar 12
I don't get most of my income from mylot, believe me. I only get enough to pay for lunch.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is true work your azz of for bigger income here on Mylot.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Atleast you have it even it is so small. You can up some streams of income in other sources too.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
Well were once a newbie before and expecting too much here in mylot. Assuming this site is easy to earn money. Before I was too eager to make my first payout to see to believe that Mylot is legit. And after that receiving my first payout I've been active as much as I can it's so addicting. But for now it seem I'm having more fun to share to read and to participate without thinking on my earnings. Mylot has been a part of my life.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 12
hi lyn and arviez its like an addiction for me, I have to have some mylot every d ay just to get relaxed but its a much healthier addiction than any others.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
Me too Mylot has been a part of my life and I can see that my life is not complete without Mylotting. This is a good place to stay with more worthy than facebook.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Your right hatley my friend, were really luck to have mylot. It is the way I can exercise my mind
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
24 Mar 12
probbaly yes also becaus e in many cases when you reach a new system and it ounds really affordable you expect much but after short itme may be you realize that mylot is not as easy as we thought when we joined as regard reaching the payout and make money...it happened to me too naturally when i joined the first time this site!!
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• Italy
30 Mar 12
yes also because if you have a quick calculation about your earnings you will reach the payout every 1000 posts or little few so for many people starting from 1-2-10 it sounds really hard reaching the money especially for the first time!!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 12
hi you know if you all would just read the guidelines and the FAQ's first before just diving in and messing up with deleted posts you co uld really earn pretty well here, I am on my fifth year and I have never missed payout yet even when I was hurt and hospitalized for 20 days I had made my ten dollars. I npw make twice minimum as I am retired and m lot a lot but also I do not make the error of making a zillion worthless posts and only making four or five cents. I make much fewer and make them quality and make mush more for less work.Incidentally I am the leader in ranking as you may note the number after my use name.
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yeah that is true the thing here why many join Mylot and dont stay that long is that this site is free to join and also the wrong information they get from some. Mylot user that give frustrations to some newbies to give up.
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@else22 (4317)
• India
24 Mar 12
Mostly newbies join Mylot only to earn.They take up all online activities to make money.My experience is when they join Mylot,they are more active at the initial stages.When they see that they can't earn from Mylot as much as they want to,then they become less active.Only a few of them remain active regardless of what they are earning here.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
Yes I experince the same thing too but I did not give up I realize that the more I type and stay here the more I get more money the more friends I get plus the more I like the mylot. I can see that my day will not be completed without Mylotting so definitely I can say that this is now part of my habit.
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@else22 (4317)
• India
25 Mar 12
All mylotters who are newbies are not as patient as you.They want quick returns and are not satisfied with less earnings.They don't want to work hard to achieve it.That's the problem.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
I believe that in all things we do need patience and that makes us develop the love on what we are doing the passion they call it.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Mar 12
i so know what you mean arviez. i think id be heart broken if i got off mylot to long. and i think a lot of newbies here come just for the money, which really isnt that easy to make but they dont realise that here if they read guildlines and make friends, etc. its so much better then other social sites. i think if they looked at it like they do FB and myspace, they would enjoy it so much better. except at least here you dont have to read the trashy brash things like on the other social sites. if newbies looked at it like just communication with people of the same interests, they would enjoy it more. when i was new i was just like you. but hey, im still the same with my discussions.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I never change I never change still my discussion are all the same but I make sure that when I create discussions that I avoid the one liner even in the title cause a good discussion will gather lots of responders but good and detailed titles are a plus cause it creates a massive effect here.
@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
25 Mar 12
I think it's pretty normal for people to go knock their selves out being new here. That's because they haven't gotten their first payout from mylot. It took me a long time to reach payout. Even I didn't realize how it worked back then. But yes one can earn a substantial amount here on mylot if you refer a lot of people here. But even that won't make one rich. Mylot is a place to share views about anything. It is an intellectual digest for everyone around the world and it shares some of it's revenue to the members. If one hopes to earn a real killing on mylot it certainly won't happen here. Unless they are up to no good. But hey, lean back and look at facebook and mylot from a distance and compare. I don't see facebook giving away (billions) anything back to their members? In conclusion any newbie is expected to be excited about how mylot was marketed or how they were told by those who referred them. But that is not a bad thing, it's just a normal phase of a newbie. They will learn though that mylot is not a place to earn a ton of money, but the riches you can gather from here are the information and the friends you get to meet. cheers.
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@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
1 Apr 12
On the surface maybe. We all think we belong to a certain group. But we actually don't. We barely scratch the surface here. Because mylot is a very broad network. I say that with a stiff face, because I'm an artist and a 2 bit coder, yet I've never met people the same as me here. and even if I did it feels like cliche still. Overall in a nutshell as a general community, yes mylot does work for me. But not as deep as I exepected it would get me.
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
The real treasure of Mylot is a sense of belongingness, acceptance and being real here despite of culture, personalities and many others still there is it.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
24 Mar 12
We all start as newbies and as far as I am concerned I just registered not knowing what to expect. Someone was singing its praises in another forum and I just got carried away. It is a nice place to unwind if you know how to avoid situations that wind you up!!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 12
hi allknowing and arviez now Arviez you have it ,mylot is nogt jusg a place to make some money but a place to unwind, tp s hare with friends and learn, and care about your friends too. its very different from face book but thats all to the good for me. lol.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
31 Mar 12
The nice thing about myLot is that it is there 24x7 hours!
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
Absolutely true that mylot is a good place to unwind if you just know how to get away from the situation that can wind you up. Mylot for me seems is a complete place to unwind even though this is not packed with applications and games like Facebook but it doesn't matter cause its not about the games and application only but its all about the people who stays here and share their thoughts and also the feelings and the experience is incomparable with Facebook.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
26 Mar 12
I think you'll find new users on any website having that attitude. They come into the website with their eyes wide open, with big hopes and expectations that might not be within the realm of possibility. They learn the hard way a lot of the time. One of two things happen. They take their ball and go home or they adapt with more reasonable expectations of what the myLot experience truthfully is all about. I know that there was a time where I had some insane expectations before I really knew what this website is all about. There are times when you are here, for a year, two, or even three, or more, that you start getting a bigger and better feel of what things are going to be like. There are times where people see money and tend to burn themselves out quickly. Then again when you are fresh faced and new and wet behind the ears, things like this will occur.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
What you have said is true.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
25 Mar 12
I think they did!. At first I am doing the same like them, expecting will be easy making money here. I admit I come here at beginning for money . When I realize I just can make few dollar a month and not even enough to reach my first pay out. Its quite lowering my spirit. There is one thing that's not made me quick, is the people here. They really friendly and willing to help. Another plus point is my English improving really fast and give more confident to talk with English. So its not always about money. For me I learn something about new thing and life every day, its made me wiser and not judge people easily. Its mean a lot more than money.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I agree on you and so proud also cause I know that you have learned so many things. Good to hear that I hope that many newbies will do it too.
@venkit (2955)
• India
24 Mar 12
well, you are not a newbie, that may be the reason you are not expecting more. But a newbie, surely they will expect more as they are not familiar to mylot earlier.
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@venkit (2955)
• India
25 Mar 12
surely, here they have to type for their money.. And if they are lucky may get some money while making the search..
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Another good point to that.
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
25 Mar 12
That is true they are expecting more. I think the good thing here is that they need to work their expectations.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
I think, most newbies go to MYlot on weekends only, because they are busy with either their studies or full time job on weekdays. I agree with you gav, that when i was still a newbie here, i would be excited seeing the responses on my started discussions. And that feeling is still the same until today, though. Of course as a newbie, you are expecting to earn much, thus make more quality posts , but eventually you will notice that earning sometimes becomes secondary. That's because you enjoy the interaction here.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Correct gav. So better make use of your second chance well. Thanks for the BR, gav!
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Good thing that we love to be here Dina that despite of banning and inactivity Mylot still accept us with open arms.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
27 Mar 12
Initially yes I do they they are expecting too much from MyLot. But I also believe that in time they will learn and understand how it all works here at MyLot. I am no longer a newbie and I am still excited to open my email and respond to my friends discussions. Most of us here are here for the money, lets not kid ourselves. But we are also here for the wonderful world of culture and topics. In order to make good money here, I think that all the seasoned members know, is that we need real good active referrals.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
11 Apr 12
Exactly. And I know none of us would be here if we did not like it here. We want to come here. We don't come to MyLot because we have to. That's what makes this site awesome.
@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Indeed this place a wonderful words a world full of colors that make us enjoy and unite with our indifferences.
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@lowyder (282)
• Canada
24 Mar 12
well i started here myself 6 years ago i have never gotten a pay out due to not reaching full amount but i do have few dollars that arent showing up from previous years it not a big deal i missed mylot i was without internet and completly lost this place .. i mean it would be great if could get it back some how cary over or something i dont know if possible but my point is now i feel as if a newbie here again since it been a few years since seen any fimialar people ... here sincce 06.. to stay !!!! this time im going to be active every day i was younger then n didnt realise how great a site this is !!!n everyone i thinkk newb or not is trying to keep the amount of talking up amongst users maybe just like u said feel good when people reply maybe they just see one word and they instantly jump in with a very vague not in depth perception of what is gping on for them maybe ... lol Sincerly Low!!06!!:):)missed yall
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Welcome back to Mylot its good thing to hear people like you I just hope that newbies will get inspired as well.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
oh yeah and I like that. many new members here expect too much and quickly give up. many people make a lot of discussion and hope to win too much and do not even have read the terms and conditions. but I can only wish them luck and success. interesting discussion a friend!
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is true and that is so important to know the site before you enter in it cause it causes you so much frustrations because some of us provide misleading information about Mylot.
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@vanz_6 (100)
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
hi there! i am a newbie here at mylot and honestly, the reason for my joining here is because i want to earn extra for my own family. but as i have continuously been replying and creating a few discussions, I am beginning to like it here already. it's pretty much enjoyable and yes, i get excited sometimes to find out if someone has already commented to a discussion i started. yes, honestly i am more active on weekends because that's the only time i could really devote more of my time, i am a working mom and most of my weekends i spend the day at work and the night taking care of my baby. :-)
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I think its okay if you are not active all days or weekend as long as you make your time online worthy by posting quality post plus adding more friends I think that is okay.
• United States
25 Mar 12
when i 1st joined i was one of those newbies but i did read and i read over a lot and i did post a lot of questions and i was epecting way to much beause i was told wrong things but i also joined to check it out. it was a way to earn a few extra bucks so i was willing to try it out. the more time i spent in mylot the more fun i starting having and the less i worried about how much money i would make. i am excited and tryig to get to the pay out amount for the 1st time but also having fun while doing so... i am not really sure if newbies spend more time on weekends than weekdays but it really depends on their daily life and daily routine. if someone works all week or goes to school then of course they would be more active on the weekwnds. when i was a newbie i would be off and on because i am a stay at home mom and i am able to be online when i want to. so i am and was not more active on a weekday or a weekend..
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• United States
25 Mar 12
I'm a newbie as you call us, and I don't expect anything. I get what I get, and that's it. If I make money here, fine, if I don't, fine. I'm here because it was an interesting site to join. I come in here when I get a message in my inbox that someone has made a comment on a post that I commented on. If it happens to be a weekend, then fine, I come in then. If it happens to be during the week, then fine, I will come in then. It don't matter when I come in here, as long as I do come in.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Good to know your reason and thats what Mylot is all about and the coming newbies would learn.
24 Mar 12
I just wanted to say that I'm a "newbie" as you call it. But I just want to meet new people. I hope I can too. I like this place because its a bit more anonymous than facebok which makes people more open.
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@arviez (183)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
This place is much better than facebook and I give a chance to choose from I will choose mylot over facebook even if without the money.
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